I want to first say that my intention is
not on whether kinky sex is right or wrong, good or bad. The word
"kinky" is often used with a negative connotation for something that
is abnormal and deviant, but what is normal for one person may be abnormal for
another, as the standards of what is normal for sex are extremely personal and
subjective in the first place.
What should be emphasized is that sex, in
any form, shouldn't be damaging or destructive to others, and that the people
having sex should be pleased and happy through it. Seemingly "kinky"
and outlandish sex can certainly make the people healthy and happy, but people
who enjoy only kinky sex because they have a warped concept of what sex is, are
unknowingly destroying themselves and others through sex. In this video, we
will talk about men who enjoy only kinky sex, and deal with women who enjoy
only kinky sex in the next video.
Every man has his favorite sex fantasies,
but men who like and practice only kinky sex have three major characteristics
that may cause problems. First, they think of sex only in terms of their own
pleasure, so the woman they're having sex with is only a means to an end of
achieving kinky sex for their own pleasure. They don't try to fulfill or
support the sex women want, but instead, they tame women to fit the sex they
want to have with them, and if the woman doesn't go along with their intention,
they think she's useless as a tool and move on to a new woman.
Second, these men
usually have sexual problems or sexual dysfunction. They think their sexual
function isn't working because regular sex isn't fun enough, but men who are
physically and mentally healthy are naturally capable of performing well in any
kind of sex. To put it another way, if they don't have the high stimulation of
kinky sex, they're not able to perform well.
Third, they usually
have high levels of stress, and even if they enjoy a variety of other hobbies,
sex and sexual pleasure is the only way they can relieve their stress. And
because their standards for sexual pleasure are so narrow and rigid, they will
criticize and demean anyone or anything that doesn't meet their standards.
Often, men who
only like kinky sex tend to think that they've experienced all sorts of sex and
reached some kind of high level when it comes to sex. They may even openly say
so, packaging their tastes nicely. But the bottom line is that men who like only
kinky sex don't have the sexual capacity to get pleasure outside of certain
kinky acts.
A man who is
truly sexually competent will be able to support any woman in sex, regardless
of what she looks like, to create the best sex possible that will make her feel
truly happy. In doing so, the man himself also feels the greatest pleasure and
happiness from sex. The sex that these men and women create may be unique and
unusual. As the sex they create is new, tailored to their style and their style
alone, it may be seen different and peculiar compared with typical,
conventional sex.
In the end, kinky
sex itself isn't the problem, the problem is that we don't know why we need
sex, what we can create with it, and we see it only as a means of pleasure and
live our lives being dependent on it.
Please, keep in
mind that anyone can create and sustain powerful feelings of pleasure,
happiness, passion, love, and more through kinky sex, but if you don't know
what sex does for a human being, and you only have sex for the ostensible
purpose of pleasure or love, you're going to end up in a weird place where all
of your relationships and values are being used for pleasure or for love as you
recognize in the conscious.
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