Today's feminism tends to be extreme. Whereas early feminism
cried out, “Women are capable of taking responsibility, so give them the rights
they deserve,” it has been distorted into, “Women are not responsible for
anything. Just recognize our rights already!”
The idea that “women can't take
responsibility” is actually the male chauvinistic view of early feminism. The
current distortion of feminism is the result of that resentment bubbling up
like pus. In other words, distorted feminism comes from women's wounds, and by pouring
all of life's wounds into feminism, distorted feminism has ended up with a
group of wounds that are nothing like the original feminism. It means that they
connect every hurt they receive from men to sexism or sexual inequality.
It's a very codependent way of life, and
while it talks about women being independent and rebelling against the system,
it's deeply rooted in male chauvinistic ideas. A truly independent woman does
not associate her life with, nor is she influenced by, male supremacist ideas;
even if she lives within a male supremacist system, she is empowered to
transcend it. On the other hand, the very act of resisting chauvinistic ideas
means that you are already positioning your dignity as a subordinate concept
within those ideas.
The problem with male chauvinistic ideas
and distorted feminism is that they distort the intrinsic roles in sexuality. In
the intrinsic roles in sexuality, women are the active agents of sexuality, and
men play a supporting role in sexuality, protecting and aligning themselves
with women. Humans activate their sexuality to create passion and happiness in
their hearts, and while women are capable of generating inexhaustible xes
energy on their own, men are only capable of generating limited and weak xes
energy, so men can only create greater passion and happiness by being fed with the
xes energy that women generate.
In the essential gender role, men keep
women safe and secure and cater everything to her so that she can generate xes
energy to her heart's content. In distorted gender roles, men become the main
agents of sexuality themselves and focus on exploiting women's sexual energy,
not protecting and supporting women. This is the result of distorted gender
roles and the root of male chauvinism.
In the past, this exploitation of women's
sexual energy was supported by a social system that ignored women's potential
and kept them in the home and denied their rights. This was changed by early
feminism, and women now have many opportunities. However, to take it a step
further, the reason why women cannot have both responsibilities and rights on
an equal basis with men is because women themselves don't know who they are as
sexual agents and keep trying to play the role of sexual support to men. This is
no longer an issue of ideas like male chauvinism or feminism, but of distorted
gender roles.
Women who become true sexual agents and
generate and supply their own xes energy in all situations and circumstances
will naturally be protected and supported by men. This is because
instinctively, men need women's xes energy to create passion and happiness.
Women need to be self-aware and unwavering in their sexuality, so that men who
try to discriminate or exploit them will be culled from the group by men who
want to protect them.
No matter how powerful a woman is as a
generator of xes energy, if she doesn't recognize herself as the main agent in
sexuality, her xes energy will only be exploited by men. From the perspective
of a man living with distorted gender roles, a woman needs to be locked up for
a specific reason and made to provide sexual energy only to him. This is
because if she were to provide sexual energy to other men, he would find himself
outcompeted by men who are more passionate than him.
The current distorted version of feminism
is a strong argument for women to be recognized as objects of sexual
exploitation. No one can understand true feminism if they exclude the idea of
intrinsic roles in sexuality. Men and women who live in accordance with their
intrinsic gender roles live in a world that transcends male chauvinism and
feminism. It's a world where women, as well as men, enjoy the most powerful
passion, happiness, and pleasure. We need to focus on women's intrinsic role in
sexuality, not on feminism, and transform ourselves so that both men and women
can fulfill their intrinsic gender roles.
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