When this activation of sexuality is biased
toward one or the other between the body and the mind, energy is lost in the
other. In the case of women, once they are married and have a solid sense of
stability in their minds, the pleasure of sex felt in the body becomes
unnecessary. Surprisingly, women’s xesmind works for the happiness of the mind,
so when a woman feels she has fulfilled meanings of life with her husband and
children, there is no reason for her sexuality to be activated.
On the other hand, women who have a lot of
wounds to heal, or who are not yet married and have not yet created meanings in
their lives, live with a passion for sex. But what happens if a woman’s xes energy
is activated only for the body and not for the mind? The mind loses its
function and role as the energy is not fed to the mind, so the feelings of love
and happiness, or the social norms and controls that operate in the mind, all
lose their meaning, and she lives solely to feel pleasure from the sensory organs
in the body. In other words, she becomes psychologically disturbed and live her
life solely for the pleasure of sex.
Men, on the other hand, do not generate
emotional energy from their xesmind; their minds are conceptual minds that
process only facts and temporary moods. Men’s xesmind is biased to direct its
energy toward feeling pleasure in the sensory organs of the body in the first
place, men's love is not connected to sexuality, and men value the pleasure of
sex for its own sake.
Men use sex as a vehicle to activate the women’s
xesmind, and women use sex with men to create feelings of happiness and love in
their minds. When a man's passion for sex creates the feelings of happiness in
a woman, he can create a mood energy called passion based on the woman’s emotional
energy. In this way, a man's passion is generated by doing something for his
woman, using his heart and his sexuality as a vehicle. So, ironically, men
don't connect sexuality with their own emotion because their sexuality is
supposed to be a tool to create happiness in women.
If this mechanism is disrupted, if a man has sex for his own pleasure and not for the happiness of the woman he's with, he becomes overly sexualized and develops psychological disorders and sexual dysfunction. This is what happens when men begin to perceive women as tools for their own pleasure.
Normal women use sex to create emotional
energy in their minds, so it's very important for them to have a sexual partner
who doesn't see them as a tool for pleasure, but who can help create feelings
of happiness and protect them. Connecting emotions to sexuality is what women
need.
When a man and a woman meet and marry to
protect each other's bodies and minds, the woman fulfills meanings of life and feels
stable, and she doesn't need sexuality to work for her. Then, the man's passion
for creating happiness for the woman can become misdirected, and he wants to
use sex for his own pleasure. If you don't understand this mechanism, all kinds
of sexual problems, marital problems, and social problems will arise.
No matter how stable a woman's mind is, she
should know that she can strengthen her emotional energy for happiness and love
through the work of her xesmind, so she should never stop activating sexuality with
the person she loves for her own happiness. It is good to keep in mind that a
woman can continue to live the happiest life until the moment she dies by activating
both her xesmind and her mind at the same time.
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