Men and women don't know each other as well
as they think they do. The psychology of each individual is different, but the
system of mimind and the system of xesmind operating within mimind are the same
for all men, from the youngest boy to the oldest man, and the same for all
women, from the youngest girl to the oldest woman.
This system of mimind and xesmind is human
nature. On top of this common system, each person's memories and habits are
built up differently, resulting in their own unique disposition. However, the
system is essentially the same, and we must understand it in order to
understand ourselves and others.
Human sexuality, in particular, is a human
instinct, and we must understand it in order to be able to live our own lives
as major agents. Otherwise, we simply live our lives swept along by social
standards. Social standards are important for the harmony and order of human
relationships, but people who are swept along by distorted social standards
become increasingly stressed and hurt.
Not many people clearly understand the
nature of man and woman, and the system of mimind and xesmind, and everyone is
interested only in psychological phenomena, which leads to the clash among
different individual ideas and many controversies.
Sexuality is supposed to be inherently
female-centered, but because it's been male-centered for so long, the
psychology of all men and women is now tuned to male-centered sexuality. This
inevitably leads to psychological and physical problems for humans, and they're
living out of alignment with their underlying instincts. Humans live in
relationships, so when individual psychological problems become prominent, they
also become social problems.
Both men and women are so accustomed to a
male-centered sexuality that many people feel very uncomfortable to go back to
a female-centered sexuality. And there's nothing wrong with that feeling. You
may feel like your life is over as you've lived in male-centered sexuality for
the whole life time. However, it has been a life that has damaged your bodies
and minds, creating distorted happiness, passion, and love that destroy each
other.
Both men and women don't think about what
lies beyond because such knowledge and information is unheard of. By and large,
only those whose lives have been completely destroyed by their distorted sexuality
strive for what lies beyond, and say, “If only I had known the system of mimind
and xesmind before everything was destroyed.
Female-centered sexuality can be achieved when
a woman separates her mind from her sexuality and becomes the main agent of her
sexuality, and when a man supports it with his mind, not with his sexuality. It
is very difficult for a man who has lived in male-centered sexuality to let go
of his sexuality and strive to support his woman with his mind, and it is very
difficult for a woman to separate her sexuality from her mind and strive to
become the main agent of her sexuality. Sometimes, they don't want to do it,
they don't know why they have to do it, and they don't know what they can
accomplish by doing it.
This is not an unnecessary struggle for
something idealized and fictional. Living a life with female-centered sexuality
is true to who you are as a human being, and if you've been living with
male-centered sexuality, it means that you've been denied happiness, love, true
pleasure, and true passion that you deserve as a human being. Striving to live with
female-centered sexuality should be a necessity, not a choice. It's about
reclaiming what you've lost as a result of being swept along by distorted social
standards. If you can’t lift yourself up from a life of downgrading, no one
else can.
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