A
male pursues future success. He would think that he is the happiest man in the
world if he becomes successful. Well, then how long will the happiness last?
How happy would he be if his future happiness becomes true in the present? However,
thinking backward, it means his future happiness no more exists. He will face difficult
times after a certain period of time is passed. He can even think of committing
suicide. It is a phenomenon that happens when he cannot find and set a new goal
to accomplish because he can no more pursue future happiness. Even if he has
succeeded, it is only a little while for him to feel happiness. Ultimately, his
passion and desires for achievement are stopped when he becomes successful. It
makes him difficult as the conscious that he has no more to accomplish is
formed. His future happiness disappears.
Like this, males live aiming for
their success in the future. They strengthen passion and desires for
achievement and have the power to overcome the present difficulties. So, they have
fun and feel values of life from having the passion and immersing themselves in
work. Their future goals must be better than their present so that they can
generate passion to move forward to the future even if they face difficulties
in the present. Males relax for a while after they become successful, but they
pursue future happiness again toward another different goal since thoughts,
passion, and desires for achievement disappear. Wealth and honor are not
important; it is not a matter of success or failure.
On the other hand, females pursue present happiness, unlike males. Their happiness must be attained in the present. They strengthen passion and accomplishment for present success. They become rich in hear and happy if they achieve success in the present; they become able to pursue future happiness based on the present happiness they have.
Let's talk about protests for wage
negotiations for example. There are many protests
by wage negotiations and other disputes centered on workers' unions. This
phenomenon occurs in many workplaces every year. Wage negotiations and
arguments may indicate that real workers are protesting and striking because of
complaints, but from a perspective of minds, they are a little different. The
more businesses do not have a healing system to relieve stress from work, the
more likely they are to stage protests or walkouts. After all, there is no
reason for a protest or strike if a healing system is created to generate fun
and good feelings while working. It should be understood that the stress caused
by the issue of actualizing values of life rather than economic benefits or
welfare issues is expressed in effect. Despite a low salary, if working itself
is fun and exciting, complaints or requests will massively decrease; the
present labor culture will have a lot of changes if the stress can be recovered
with hopes and dreams.
Also, regardless of money and work
problems, the loss and frustration that come from the loss of one's value in
life are much greater than that comes from the loss of one's job. Creating a
healing system to relieve these stresses is urgently needed from the
perspective of employers and employees.
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