Men’s Stress and Happiness

 

Let's look into men's stress and happiness. Women pursue their counterparties' happiness by treating their wounds whereas men pursue only their own happiness. So, they cannot remember negative moods and cannot perceive others' wounds that importantly. It is because they pursue future happiness. 

Men do not care about their surroundings, whether others have difficulties or not, but strengthen passion and desire for achievement, rejecting the negative moods of stress and only remembering positive moods. Even though their surrounding people get wounds a lot, they only care about their own happiness. What they care about is only passion and desire for achievement. 

That men pursuing future happiness means that they pursue happiness without being wounded; this causes women wounds. Then, the women pursue present happiness with the wounds they receive as base. So, women use the wounds as the source to pursue present happiness. Ultimately, the standards of happiness are rooted in women's emotions. 

Men vaguely think that their surroundings will also become happy if they make themselves happy. It isn't bad, in fact. It's just that the order of their thoughts is reversed. 

When men construct future happiness with their passion and desire for achievement, they think that this happiness will last in the future. So, men to try to feel their own happiness vaguely whereas women feel happy when their counterparties are happy. Because of this, men do not know and remember that they are wounding their surrounding people. By doing so, they get positive emotions and pursue future happiness. 

You might feel men as very bad, but they just do not remember other people's wounds since wounding others operates as the rejection defense mechanism when a man and a woman form the psychological circulation structure. On the other hand, women remember and try to treat wounds so that they can create present happiness. The woman's present happiness created allows the man to keep comfort, strengthening passion and the desire for achievement so he can pursue future happiness.  This is why the unconscious love, which is unlimited responsibility, is formed for the man. The psychology of happiness of a man and a woman does not allow the one-way pursuit of happiness.

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