Emotions occur in one’s own psychology. At this point, one of the emotions is the emotions occurred by the memory of emotions that one remembers; it operates by the conscious along with thoughts and memory.
The memory of emotions of trauma makes the conscious operates; when the conscious is at work, it suppresses the negative emotions that are remembered. Thoughts control emotions because the time to interpret whether the emotions of habits and the emotions of the mind are the same or not is needed in this process. However, if these two emotions are different, more thoughts are asked to be done making psychology operate for understanding and interpretation. In this way, which emotion to be used is chosen; when it is decided, it is combined with outer information and expressed. The circumstance of outer information being flowed in at the moment when the emotion is suppressed is already over; the new outer information gets flowed in. So, after the emotion is decided through deep considerations and suppression, it is combined with the outer information that is newly flowed in; it is then expressed and remembered. But the sensory information before and the sensory information now are different for sure. The expression made now is the combination of the suppressed emotion that has been formed before and the sensory information that is made later.
For example, let's say your mom nagged you. Do you think her negging is expressed negative emotions because you did something wrong? She is just expressing her suppressed emotions now that are negatively formed before by other reasons. You must think about why your mother expresses her negative emotions to you. Your mother makes expressions by operations of habits that are the unconscious through people who are the closest and whom she loves in order to treat her negative emotions. These are not expressed to other people but suppressed.
Thus, people getting lots of stress outside express their expressed, negative emotions to somewhere. The targets are usually people who are closest or whom they love. So, these targets always get damaged emotionally, but they do not know about these psychological operations. They never think that the expressed negative emotions are the emotions that have been suppressed. When a mother scolds her children so badly, the children ask, 'what are you nagging me? what did I do?'
Like this, negative emotions that are remembered are not expressed right away but suppressed by thoughts, the conscious, before being expressed. When these negative emotions are expressed, they are mostly expressed within intimate human relationships. In other words, negative emotions are suppressed by the conscious and expressed by the unconscious so that they can be treated.
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