Many people worry about their future without taking care of the present psychological conditions. When you have an unstable and unbalanced psychological condition at present, it is unlikely that you will become happy in the future. You need to stabilize your present psychology in order to have a positive perspective on the future and do the right things to achieve future happiness. Unhealthy psychology at present necessarily affects you future negatively.
First, you must diagnose for your psychological condition to decide whether you have healthy psychology or not. If you have healthy psychology, you can just proceed with making efforts for your future happiness maintaining good relationships with people around you. If it is judged that your psychology is not healthy enough at present, you must first stabilize your psychology before you can pursue future happiness.
Here, addressing psychological problems and psychological disorders must be approached differently. When you have psychological problems, you yourself can adopt different activities for healing and diversion and recover on your own. When you have psychological disorders, you need professional help to adjust psychology by activating the operation of the unconscious. When you proceed without knowing that you have psychological problems or simply ignore them, they get aggravated as time passes and develop into psychological disorders. Psychological disorders cause your relationships to be destroyed and your effort for future happiness to fail.
When you have psychological problems, you must build the healing system to restore and maintain healthy psychology, and when you have psychological disorders, you must treat psychological disorders first and then build the healing system. When you treat psychological disorders and internalize the healing system, you can overcome any predicament you may encounter in the future and achieve happiness in life.
We all live as a person in relationships with other people rather than as an absolute individual all by ourselves. Maintaining good relationships with other people is directly connected with your happiness in life. When you do not treat psychological disorders and do not have the healing system of psychology, not only yourself but also people around you must live in unhappiness. Likewise, when people around you have psychological problems or psychological disorders, both you and the people around you necessarily become unhappy. The first step is to treat your psychological disorders and build the healing system inside you. Then, you may have positive influences on others, and may not be negatively affected by people with psychological problems and disorders.
Happiness in life consists of two components. One is happiness achieved in human relationships that gives meanings to your life, and the other is happiness achieved through achievements that gives values to your life. Once you build healthy psychology, you may decide on your current relationships. You may want to continue or sever the relationship, or even wait for your counterparties to treat and heal their psychology. In any case, your future happiness will not be affected by people around you since you already have happiness ability established inside you.
Achievements can be pursued by setting goals and making efforts with the will power. Making efforts does not guarantee success, but when you have the healing system of psychology inside yourself, you will not despair or give up, but gather up the will power and continue with your efforts raising the probability for success in a great deal.
Some people may be lucky enough to achieve worldly success without the healing system of psychology. However, those people are highly likely to collapse at a certain point in the near future. Future happiness is determined by the present psychological condition and by whether you have the healing system of psychology or not. Making efforts for happiness with meanings and values without the healing system of psychology can be compared to building a house of cards.
We must always prepare for the future since the future will become the present in some time. You must treat your psychological disorders and build the healing system of psychology to become happy in the future with meanings and values of life. Many people mistake their psychological problems for problems of relationships and social achievements. The truth is that relational problems and problems in your career are only the results of your psychological problems. Addressing the root cause of problems by stabilizing your psychology will guarantee your future happiness no matter what happens in the course, and even failure will not be able to stop you from pursing future happiness with healthy psychology.
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