Without having psychological wounds, you can experience neither pain and sorrow nor happiness. Without experiencing difficulties, you cannot experience comfort or happiness. Psychological wounds are the source of happiness.
When you get out of pain, sorrow, and difficulties, you can easily feel comfort. However, you must not just stay in comfort but generate happiness. The time of difficulty is the time of opportunity for generating happiness.
You don't have to deliberately try to get psychological wounds, but you must not avoid wounds by seeking comfort and pleasure. Avoiding psychological wounds is the same as rejecting happiness since wounds are the source that makes you feel happiness. Habits of avoiding psychological wounds may seriously distort your life so that you cannot achieve happiness in a true sense.
If you are suffering from psychological wounds at present, please, try to look at the situation in a different way with a broader perspective.
Korea Institute of Psycho-education : http://www.uip.ac
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