Not many people have a clear understanding about psychological wounds. When they have psychological wounds inside them, they may think :
- It is unfair, it is not may fault.
- It is may fault.
- What did I do wrong?
- I only did the right things.
They may blame either other people or themselves. Blaming others or themselves only aggravates psychological wounds. Psychological wounds develop when you do not understand the mind operation of yours and others'.
We must understand how human mind operates and accurate understand other people's behaviors in order to prevent and treat our own psychological wounds. Understanding may result in forgiveness and consideration, too, but they are optional, which you can decide after accurate understanding.
You cannot but accumulate psychological wounds and experience difficulties in human relationships without understanding the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology.
Korea Institute of Psycho-education : http://www.uip.ac
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