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Many women regret their life they have had so far and want to live a new life when they discover husband infidelity. They may get a divorce and start a new live on their own but their post traumatic stress continue to deteriorate even after a divorce. The idea that they will start a new life after getting a divorce comes from the idea that they want to avoid the pain caused by the present situation.
The root cause of the pain of spouse infidelity is not the spouse or the spouse infidelity but post traumatic stress. It is impossible to start a new life as far as they keep post traumatic stress even if they get a divorce. They may repeat feeling fine when they have pleasure and feeling pain when they don't. Then, they become to seek more intense pleasure blaming self and others or the society. They cannot get out of the trap of post traumatic stress for the rest of their life no matter what they do.
On the other hand, they can start a new life in a true sense when they treat post traumatic stress and build happiness ability. They must realize that they can generate happiness on their own regardless of the external factors and then, they can live a happy life with their children and loved ones. So many people talk about happiness but not many of them tell us about true happiness and how to achieve it. Everyone who takes KIP Treatment says that they wish they had known about the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology earlier. Many of them learned how to generate happiness on their own and turned evils into blessings through the experience of spouse infidelity.
Every human being has the ability to become happy on their own, but not many people know about it. When you learn about how to generate happiness on your own and practice it, you will live a happy life regardless of your marital status. Experiencing pain in your life does not mean that there is anything wrong with your life itself. You have lived well pursuing happiness and you feel pain because you want to go back to happiness. All you need to do is to rebuild happiness ability and restore happiness in a true sense.
You cannot go back to happiness as far as you believe that your whole life went wrong and you want to start a new life only for yourself without treating post traumatic stress. True happiness can be achieved when you take the responsibility as well as the right in human relationships and overcome sorrow and pain. Your life has not been miserable or wrong at all. It is hoped that you will start a new happy life in a true sense not by avoiding the pain of post traumatic stress but by treating post traumatic stress in the right way.
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