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Hello, everyone. Post-coital
tristesse is a depressive feeling that anyone can experience after having sex.
Some people say that it includes men’s feeling of loss that lasts only for a short time
right after ejaculation, and others argue that the feeling should be
overwhelming and strong enough to make one cry or develop hatred against the
sex partner and oneself to meet the criteria for post coital tristesse. Both
cases can be included in post-coital tristesse but its operation is different
for men and women.
Let’s first look at men’s post-coital tristesse. As men develop
sexual desire, xes wounds are generated based on xes information that is
perceived in xesmind and negative xes energy is generated. Negative xes energy
is delivered to men’s body and mind
and the pleasure of the same level of negative xes energy is sensed in men’s conscious. Men may maintain a certain
level of pleasurable sensation in the process of masturbation and having sex
with a partner and feel a strong pleasurable sensation at eh moment of
ejaculation.
Men who cannot generate
positive xes energy always activate negative xes energy so they activate
negative xes energy even at the moment of ejaculation. They just cannot
recognize it since it is covered with the pleasurable sensation recognized in
the conscious. Then, the pleasurable sensation ends right after ejaculation and
negative xes energy is recognized as stress with the same value of pleasurable
sensation.
Then, how is post-coital tristesse different for
women? Women’s post-coital
tristesse is not a temporary sensation that men feel after ejaculation but a
continuous feeling of depression. Women feel deeper and stronger negative
feelings. Wounds of mimind is at work instead of xes wounds in xesmind in
women. Women do not activate negative xes energy based on xes wounds as men do.
Women’s wounds in
mimind is activated to generate negative xes energy.
Women who have many wounds in memory feel more
depressive feelings after having sex. They may feel like crying or actually cry
and retrieve feelings of hating self and others. Women’s wounds activate the operation of xes
energy to restore happiness, which is manifested as women’s sexual desire. Women’s sexual desire is not the desire for
pleasure but the desire for wound treatment.
Not many women understand
that they can treat wounds in mimind through activating xesmind. They rather
try to depend on other people who can make them feel happy, which only
aggravate their condition and raise the level of dependency. Then, they seek
having sex as a means to satisfy the desire for love and happiness and keep
losing their energy in mimind and generating negative xes energy in xesmind
Ironically, these women feel
greater level of sexual pleasure based on the greater level of wounds in
mimind, but they recognize the deep depressive feelings after having sex
without knowing the reason. They may enter the vicious cycle of seeking sexual
pleasure, feeling more and more depressed after having sex, and developing
greater level of sexual desire and dependency for love and happiness.
There can be two ways to
solve the problem of post-coital tristesse. One is to completely destroy one’s mind and live only for sexual pleasure,
which makes both men and women unable to recognize pain in mind. People with
serious psychological disorders may not feel depressed after having sex since
their mind has stopped functioning in a normal way.
Another way is to learn how
to generate positive xes energy. Men can enjoy the highest level of sexual
pleasure without sexual desire and use xes energy for generating passion for
pursuing values of life. They have most powerful sex ability and don’t have to experience post-coital tristesse
at all. Women can activate sexuality in the way they can generate love and
happiness. They should learn about the concepts accurately and internalize them
to practice in daily life.
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