You've probably heard the
term sexual hedonism, and sexual objectification is the perception of an
individual only as a tool for sex. Often, the parties involved are unaware of
the concept of sexual objectification because the person who is already
hedonistic about sex and perceives the other person only as an object of
pleasure doesn't care about the other person's position, and the person who is
perceived as an object of sex doesn't know that they are being used as a tool
for sex.
A sexual hedonist values
the pleasure itself above all else in sex, perceiving everything else as a
means to that pleasure. They perceive the other person as an instrument of
pleasure in order to pursue the pleasure of sex, and are not concerned with the
pleasure and happiness of the objectified person. They also assume that if they
are satisfied and happy, the other person will be satisfied and happy.
If you use everything you
have to enjoy the pleasure of sex, and consider it to be the highest value and
happiness, you're going beyond hedonism, especially if you're in a position of
economic and social power. Sexual hedonism and objectification are more common
among people with some degree of social power because they use their ability
and power to realize their hedonism.
This is because it is
advantageous to have a certain level of wealth, status, popularity, etc. to use
others as a tool for sex. Sexual hedonism and sexual objectification can occur
easily as successful people lose sight of their life goals and indulge in the
pleasures of sex. The perception that anything is possible if you have the
ability only reinforces this distorted perception.
Sexual hedonists are
unable to escape the distorted pleasures of sex because they don't know the
true flavor and coolness of sex. This is a phenomenon that has been primarily
driven by men in the past, but in recent years it has also been driven by women.
Once the pleasures of sex lead to addiction, you can never get out of it on
your own. Sex is such a personal and secretive act that only the parties
involved know about it, not the outside world.
As sexual hedonism and
sexual objectification progress, people no longer get pleasure and enjoyment
from sex between a couple or with a lover and lose interest in it, so they seek
out sex with different stimuli and seek endless variety in sex. They try to brainwash
and persuade everyone around them to join them in their sexual hedonism and
objectification. As the stimulation of sex becomes more and more intense, it
spirals out of control and every aspect of their lives becomes related to sex.
People who are sexually hedonistic and see others as nothing but objects of pleasure cannot address their condition on their own because they are so thoroughly mired in their own logic: they become dogmatic and closed off to sex styles that are different from their own, even though they think of themselves as open-minded with respect to sex. They are also very obsessive about sex, so what they think about once, they try to make happen. Their spouses often get caught up in this and slip into sexual hedonism with them.
People who practice
sexual hedonism and sexual objectification have lost the concept and value of
proper sex and live out their sex fantasies, which is why they are so
permissive about sex with others. Having pleasure is a fleeting moment,
followed by a search for greater stimulation and pleasure. These people should
be reminded of their true sexual capabilities with a detailed explanation of
the need for change, and to transition to feeling intense pleasure and
happiness even from sex between two people in a normal relationship.
Sexual hedonism and
sexual objectification are a phenomenon that can happen to anyone, and many
people are currently in quite serious conditions. There's nothing wrong with
enjoying sex, but it needs to be done in the right way and with an awareness of
the other person's true happiness.
To do this, we need to
first recognize the importance and value of human relationships, and then we
need to educate ourselves about sexual empowerment so that we can enjoy the
true flavor and beauty of sex. Surprisingly enough, most men want this. Women
also need to know the value of true sex ability and build their sex ability, so
that they can escape and prevent the objectification of sex. Pursuing only the
pleasure of sex will make your body and mind sick. Please, keep in mind that
you need to know the correct concepts so that you can know what true pleasure
is and reach true sexual happiness.
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