Hello, everyone. Today, we will talk about
the concept of a male friend, a female friend, and a friend with benefits. Many
people have friends who are opposite gender. It is argued that they are
opposite gender, but they don’t feel any emotion or feeling that occurs in
a prospective romantic or dating relationship at all.
Human
beings cannot but involve emotions and feelings in all relationships with
people whether they are the same gender or opposite gender as we make
psychological interaction. Humans are designed to perceive sexual information
the moment they perceive the counterparty is the opposite gender. Any
interaction or relationship with people who are opposite gender leads to the
activation of xesmind. You may not recognize this activation of xesmind in the
conscious, so you may think that your relationship with a person of opposite
gender can be without any activation of sexuality.
Generally, people who have healthy and normal
psychology try to keep a certain distance from people of opposite gender even
when they feel that their relationship is only that of pure friendship. It is
to acknowledge that they are opposite gender. The woman will try to protect her
sexuality by keeping distance and the man will also respect the woman’s intention. Then, harmony and
order is achieved in the relationship and their psychology keeps working in a
healthy way even when they don’t know about the operational mechanism of
human mind and sexuality.
When they overtly claim that sexuality or
xesmind is never activated in the relationship with a person of opposite
gender, it indicates that they are trying to hide the fact that they perceive
the counterparty as an opposite gender and are activating the psychology of
sexuality even more than other people.
Sexual actions are only a small part of
the result of the operation of mimind and xesmind. A complex process takes
place in mimind and xesmind before sexual actions are taken as a result. You
and your friend of opposite gender cannot but be involved in the psychological
interaction accompanied by the activation of xesmind whatever you do together.
Your activation of xesmind is expressed in your speech and actions even without
any sexual expressions.
In this process, the man can have fun and
pleasure from the woman’s responses, and the woman feels good by getting the man’s attention. They may not take
sexual actions, but they are in the process of reaching sexual actions. They
can be considered to be flirting with each other denying the fact in the
conscious.
When friends of opposite gender make sexual
expressions toward each other, but when they don’t want to take responsibility for
each other as in normal romantic and dating relationships, they are considered
to have the relationship for selfish purposes. Many problems occur since they
deny that the relationship is based on selfish purposes. They are pursuing
sexual satisfaction without making sexual actions on the surface whether they
have the spouse, a girlfriend, or a boyfriend.
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