Nowadays, all sexual information is skewed towards sexual
pleasure, so much so that both men and women have the misconception that a
man's sexual instinct is all about seeking sexual pleasure. However, a man's
true sexual instinct is about protection of women. It is the essence of a man's
sexual instinct to protect and accommodate his woman so that she can safely and
freely engage in sexual actions using him as a vehicle. That is why a man does
not attach meaning and emotion to sex. If a man attaches his own ideas or
specific meanings and emotions to sex, he will not be able to accommodate a
woman's sexual actions freely because he will apply his own standards to her
sexual actions.
Without knowing this principle and essence, most men
think that it is a man's sexual instinct to pursue sexual pleasure, especially
if he does not attach any meaning, emotion, or thought to having sex. Pleasure
is a natural need in human life, but its basic nature is "for me". Pleasure
is the maximization of the positive sensations felt by my sensory organs, and the
pursuit of pleasure is basically for myself, not for the other person.
The essence of a woman's sexuality is the generation
and radiation of xes energy, which means that a woman generates and radiates xes
energy and transmits it to a man when the man protects and attunes to her.
Therefore, from the woman’s point of view, the partner himself is
actually much more important than sexual actions or sexual pleasure to be able
to keep herself safe. This is because a woman can basically generate as much xes
energy as she wants on her own, so sexual actions or sexual pleasure isn't as
important as the partner with whom she can share her sexuality and reinforce
her xes energy. The partner must be able to protect her and he must be valuable
enough to share her sexuality with.
Therefore, it is a basic value for a woman to attach
meaning, feelings, and thoughts to having sex, because if she engages in sexual
actions without these elements, she cannot be guaranteed for her safety.
However, today, women's sexual instincts also have been understood in distorted
ways, and women are preoccupied with these meanings, feelings, and thoughts,
putting aside the generation and radiation of xes energy.
When a man says he wants to protect a woman, he's
actually saying, "I don't want to use you for my own sexual
pleasure," which means he wants to make sure she doesn't become a vehicle
for his own self-pleasure. This is how a man's sexual instincts work, so even
if he doesn't know how it works, when he finds a woman he truly loves, he will
want to protect her by restraining himself. Also, the same sexual action has
completely different outcomes when the woman is the main agent and the man complies
with the woman, and when the man is the main agent and uses the woman as a
means to his own sexual pleasure.
Since a man can generate xes energy only at a
negligible level, sexual actions that are dominated by a man end up achieving only
the temporary pleasure in the sensory organs, and since this is such a short
hedonic response, a relationship that is dominated by this aspect quickly
becomes boring, and the woman actually creates a lot of wounds in the process.
On the other hand, in a relationship where the man is
attuned to the woman's happiness, not his own sexual pleasure, and where the
woman is in control, passion and love are strongly activated and long-lasting,
beyond the pleasure of the sensory organs. This is because xes energy that a
woman generates and radiates through sexual activity strengthens passion and
love for both herself and her partner.
In order for the relationship to be virtuous in
nature, it is essential for a woman to stop being sexually dependent on a man
and become the master of her sexuality, but no matter how much a woman becomes
the master of her sexuality, she will be useless to a man who values sexual
pleasure and is unable to adapt himself to her. Therefore, a man must also
become the master of his sexuality, knowing that his sexuality is protective
and supportive, and that he can use his sexuality to protect and comply with his
woman, not for his own sexual pleasure. Please, remember that sexual pleasure,
no matter how ecstatic, is fleeting, while passion and love are lasting and
fulfilling.
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