Today we're going
to talk about the connection between your perception of sexuality and your life.
Many of you might be thinking, “What big impact does sex have on your life?”
And you might be thinking, “Well, maybe marriage and childbirth, or disease, or
crime, or something else that's a big deal should have a greater impact,” but actually
your perception of sexuality is the rudder that steers your life. Sexuality may
be nothing, but it can also be everything.
We often say,
“It's all in the mind,” and this is true. No matter what kind of environment we
are in, our happiness or unhappiness is determined by how we perceive it and
how our mind works. But it is the xesmind working within the mind that creates
this mind. Although it is not recognized by the consciousness, it is
responsible for healing stress and treating wounds by supplying energy to the
mind, or, on the contrary, worsening wounds and stress. Therefore, the body and
mind can be healthy due to the work of the xesmind, or, on the contrary, the
body and mind can be destroyed by the xesmind.
Most importantly,
most people associate xesmind with sexual actions. However, sexual actions are
merely a manifestation of the xesmind's work on the mind. Also, the work of the
xesmind and the mind changes depending on what perceptions and ideas we have
about sexual actions. In fact, the xesmind is just a constant source of energy,
and it's the mind's job to use that energy in ways that either promote
happiness or unhappiness.
For example,
sexual actions may be perceived as being very negative for someone. They've
formed memories that make sexual actions uncomfortable, annoying, painful, or frustrating.
For others, it's perceived as being very positive. It's enjoyable, fun, loving,
and pleasurable. Sexual actions can be all of life's highs and lows, but the
problem is that stereotypes are often applied only in one direction. Sexual actions
are a double-edged sword that can be very painful and unhappy for some, or
healing and revitalizing for others.
When a distorted
perception of sexuality takes hold, sexual actions can become extremely
pleasure-oriented, or the opposite, extremely aversive. This is because the
emotions generated in the mind by the distorted concept of sexuality are set up
that way. In such a case, psychological disorders are caused by the energy of
the xesmind being supplied to the mind for pursuing excessive pleasure or for excessive
nurturing of wounds.
When we think of
sexuality, we usually think of it in an eroticized way, as a sexual act between
a man and a woman. But sexual action is the result of the workings of the xesmind
and mind, and it is not just about pleasure or love. If you have the right
perception of sexuality and understand how it works in essence, you can use it
as a rudder to help you heal your stresses and treat your wounds and live
happily ever after.
Having sex itself
is just a sexual action that pleases your sensory organs and generates
temporary positive moods that you can turn around and forget no matter how many
fancy techniques you know and apply. When you know how human mind and sexuality
work behind the scenes, you can use sexual actions appropriately to make your
mind and psychology healthy and happy, and live the life you want.
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