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The reason we
think our lives are not perfect is because they are not in our control
completely. To put it another way, if we could control our lives, our life
would be perfect. The two most important things in our lives are love and
success. A human being who is able to love enough and achieve enough will feel
they have a perfect life, where there is nothing lacking.
However, even if
we marry for the sake of perfect love, it soon withers away, and even if we
achieve the material values that others envy, we feel it is not enough. In
other words, we live an ironic life where the more we love and succeed, the
more we feel lacking. Many people analyze this by connecting it to dopamine,
and others by connecting it to religion, psychology, and philosophy, but I
would argue that it's due to the intrinsic nature of human sexuality.
We have an
instinct before we have a mind to navigate the world, and sexuality is an
instinct. Sexuality creates the energy that fuels the mind, which is called xes
energy. The energy generated by sexual action can become positive energy for
restoration and creation, but when it is combined with relationships, purposes,
and emotions in the mind, it changes to negative energy. However, we don't know
that xes energy is working on us because we don't feel it directly in our
consciousness.
The problem is
that negative energy, created by the combination of our feelings for
relationships or purpose and sexuality, is an energy that is wasteful. This negative
energy burns our own bodies and minds to create love and passion, so the more
we love and achieve with negative energy, the more we feel a deficit created by
something that has been burned away. We feel satisfied only in the moment when
we are immersed in the good feeling of love and passion, and when that moment
is gone, we feel an even greater deficit, and our desire grows stronger.
However, love and
success can be achieved only in relationships, so if we don't know the mechanisms
and methods of converting this negative energy into positive energy in
relationships, we cannot but live with endless needs. In other words, if we
know how to convert negative energy into positive energy, we can live a full
life, with enough love and success, without deficiency.
To do this, we
need to train ourselves to understand exactly what the nature of sexuality is
and how to change ourselves accordingly. Instincts cannot be overridden, but
the mind that allows them to work in order can be changed by training our
thoughts and habits.
This is how a man
who shifts to a life that generates positive xes energy rises to the top of the
pecking order over a man with the greatest success that comes from negative xes
energy. And a woman who shifts to a life that generates positive xes energy can
live a life filled with love and happiness, no matter who she is with. Men and
women who generate positive xes energy have no deficit.
You've often
heard the saying, “If you envy, you lose,” meaning that lack and want make you
feel inferior and prevent you from feeling complete. No matter how much you try
to change this by adopting philosophy, medicine, or religion, the harder you
try, the more your needs will only grow, because none of them teaches you a way
to shift the workings of your xes energy to a positive one.
Of course, when
you let go of everything, feelings of deficiency and inferiority disappear.
Such a life may be a comfortable life, but it will not be a complete life,
because love and passion will also disappear if you put everything down. On the
other hand, a life lived by converting negative energy into positive energy
will definitely give you fulfillment in love and success in healthy ways, which
will allow you to live a perfect life.
Sex Therapy for Men : https://www.xestherapy.com/
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