4/25/2021

A Comfortable Life

 


A comfortable life is a life that you consider being comfortable as happiness. Mostly, females pursue a comfortable life because they pursue the present comfort, which is a natural phenomenon for females with normal psychology. However, they pursue future happiness like males if they have psychological disorders. On the other hand, it is also natural for males with normal psychology to pursue a pleasurable life since they pursue future happiness, but they pursue present happiness like females if they have psychological disorders.

           The condition when you do not have feelings or emotions of joy, anger, sorrow, and pleasure such as past, future, wounds, happiness, unhappiness, fun, joy, pain, agony, etc. is called the comfortable state.

           You pursue a comfortable life because of psychological operations to remove the present negative emotions (psychological wounds, moods or feelings caused by suppression or obsession); so, you feel this comfort as heaven and happiness. You keep pursuing a comfortable life thinking as if the present comfort would continually last in the future.

           In cases of married women, they think their lives are happy if their children grow well and if their husbands work smoothly goes on making their household comfortable. They think a comfortable life is a happy life. They perceive a comfortable life is the best because females can feel the present happiness.

           On the other hand, males pursue stable and comfortable lives if they have psychological disorders. When males have psychological disorders, they have either negative emotions or the comfort they get as they reach their goals of achievement. Males pursuing comfortable lives have no passion and no goals of achievement; they are most likely to be feminine. They are perceived nicely because they are feminine, attentive, understanding & considerate of others, and benevolent. However, even though they might look good, males who pursue stable and comfortable lives without passion and desires for achievement have a psychological disorder having psychology like depression since males with normal psychology pursue the future happiness through passion and desires for achievement.

           Like this, males pursuing comfortable lives already have psychological disorders; males psychological disorders take up a large portion of the causes of suicide. Females cannot feel manhood from males pursuing comfortable lives and cannot feel emotions of joy, anger, sorrow, and pleasure including love, sexual emotion, etc. as they just feel comfortable around them.

           A comfortable life is neither heaven nor happiness. There is no wound, no happiness, no enjoyment, and no sadness in a comfortable life since there is no joy, anger, sorrow, and pleasure. There is no special emotion as well because a comfortable life is neither happy nor unhappy. A comfortable life is perceived as happiness because we think that getting away from the difficult situation is comfort and that it is better than being unhappy.

           Being comfortable is the same as the calmness before the storm. The bigger the storm is, the more calmness you feel due to impacts of atmospheric pressure. However, the calmness is only temporary. The situation will be difficult and unhappy when a storm arrives. Then you look for another calmness before the storm. It is the same as looking for another storm (wound) to avoid a storm (wound) because you perceive comfort as happiness. In the end, pursuing a comfortable life results in difficult and unhappy wounds being repeated since it is the same as looking for the calmness before the storm.

           You must understand the reason for your life being difficult, wounded, and unhappy repeatedly. It is because you are already pursuing a comfortable life that only results in wounds and unhappiness. You must understand that it is you who have pursued a comfortable life having repetitive wounds and unhappiness as the result, although you blame the storm (wound) for causes of your unhappiness because you think you have pursued happiness. Therefore, you will never have a pleasurable and happy life if you pursue a comfortable life. Pursuing a comfortable life is the same as foretelling wounds and unhappiness and having them as the result.

           If psychological disorders with repetitive wounds and unhappiness occur in your life, you will try to obtain ultimate comfort by making yourself 'the eye of the storm' rather than looking for 'the calmness before the storm' in order to not experience the unhappiness repeatedly.

           This phenomenon occurs because you pursue a comfortable life without recognizing that you've become 'the eye of the storm' due to your psychological disorder that has already occurred. Even the eye of the storm becomes comfortable as it obtains silence, but you do not recognize that you have become the storm (wound). In the end, you pursue a pleasurable life resembling the psychology of males unknowingly.

           Therefore, by becoming the storm, you make many others wounded and unhappy, but you yourself feel comfortable as if it were happiness. Pursuing a comfortable life with a psychological disorder is the same as pursuing a pleasurable life; since yourself have become the storm, you are the cause of making others unhappy.

           You might think that you have pursued happiness and that others are unhappy because the way they live their lives is wrong, but you are hurting and making them unhappy by pursuing your own pleasure.

           Those pursuing a comfortable life chase their own wounds and unhappiness; if wounds and unhappiness repeat, you will eventually become to live a life that causes wounds and unhappiness of others. You will feel this as happiness. A comfortable life is a life where you feel you are pursuing happiness, but actually, you pursue wounds and unhappiness.


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