A
comfortable life is a life that you consider being comfortable as happiness.
Mostly, females pursue a comfortable life because they pursue the present
comfort, which is a natural phenomenon for females with normal psychology.
However, they pursue future happiness like males if they have psychological
disorders. On the other hand, it is also natural for males with normal
psychology to pursue a pleasurable life since they pursue future happiness, but
they pursue present happiness like females if they have psychological
disorders.
The condition when you do not have
feelings or emotions of joy, anger, sorrow, and pleasure such as past, future,
wounds, happiness, unhappiness, fun, joy, pain, agony, etc. is called the
comfortable state.
You pursue a comfortable life because
of psychological operations to remove the present negative emotions
(psychological wounds, moods or feelings caused by suppression or obsession);
so, you feel this comfort as heaven and happiness. You keep pursuing a comfortable
life thinking as if the present comfort would continually last in the future.
In cases of married women, they think
their lives are happy if their children grow well and if their husbands’ work smoothly goes on making their household comfortable. They
think a comfortable life is a happy life. They perceive a comfortable life is
the best because females can feel the present happiness.
On the other hand, males pursue
stable and comfortable lives if they have psychological disorders. When males
have psychological disorders, they have either negative emotions or the comfort
they get as they reach their goals of achievement. Males pursuing comfortable
lives have no passion and no goals of achievement; they are most likely to be
feminine. They are perceived nicely because they are feminine, attentive,
understanding & considerate of others, and benevolent. However, even though
they might look good, males who pursue stable and comfortable lives without
passion and desires for achievement have a psychological disorder having
psychology like depression since males with normal psychology pursue the future
happiness through passion and desires for achievement.
Like this, males pursuing comfortable
lives already have psychological disorders; males’ psychological
disorders take up a large portion of the causes of suicide. Females cannot feel
manhood from males pursuing comfortable lives and cannot feel emotions of joy,
anger, sorrow, and pleasure including love, sexual emotion, etc. as they just
feel comfortable around them.
A comfortable life is neither heaven
nor happiness. There is no wound, no happiness, no enjoyment, and no sadness in
a comfortable life since there is no joy, anger, sorrow, and pleasure. There is
no special emotion as well because a comfortable life is neither happy nor
unhappy. A comfortable life is perceived as happiness because we think that
getting away from the difficult situation is comfort and that it is better than
being unhappy.
Being comfortable is the same as the
calmness before the storm. The bigger the storm is, the more calmness you feel
due to impacts of atmospheric pressure. However, the calmness is only
temporary. The situation will be difficult and unhappy when a storm arrives. Then
you look for another calmness before the storm. It is the same as looking for
another storm (wound) to avoid a storm (wound) because you perceive comfort as
happiness. In the end, pursuing a comfortable life results in difficult and
unhappy wounds being repeated since it is the same as looking for the calmness
before the storm.
You must understand the reason for
your life being difficult, wounded, and unhappy repeatedly. It is because you
are already pursuing a comfortable life that only results in wounds and
unhappiness. You must understand that it is you who have pursued a comfortable
life having repetitive wounds and unhappiness as the result, although you blame
the storm (wound) for causes of your unhappiness because you think you have
pursued happiness. Therefore, you will never have a pleasurable and happy life
if you pursue a comfortable life. Pursuing a comfortable life is the same as
foretelling wounds and unhappiness and having them as the result.
If psychological disorders with
repetitive wounds and unhappiness occur in your life, you will try to obtain
ultimate comfort by making yourself 'the eye of the storm' rather than looking
for 'the calmness before the storm' in order to not experience the unhappiness
repeatedly.
This phenomenon occurs because you
pursue a comfortable life without recognizing that you've become 'the eye of
the storm' due to your psychological disorder that has already occurred. Even ‘the eye of the storm’ becomes comfortable as
it obtains silence, but you do not recognize that you have become the storm
(wound). In the end, you pursue a pleasurable life resembling the psychology of
males unknowingly.
Therefore, by becoming the storm, you
make many others wounded and unhappy, but you yourself feel comfortable as if
it were happiness. Pursuing a comfortable life with a psychological disorder is
the same as pursuing a pleasurable life; since yourself have become the storm,
you are the cause of making others unhappy.
You might think that you have pursued
happiness and that others are unhappy because the way they live their lives is
wrong, but you are hurting and making them unhappy by pursuing your own
pleasure.
Those pursuing a comfortable life
chase their own wounds and unhappiness; if wounds and unhappiness repeat, you
will eventually become to live a life that causes wounds and unhappiness of
others. You will feel this as happiness. A comfortable life is a life where you
feel you are pursuing happiness, but actually, you pursue wounds and
unhappiness.
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