I have
been counselling for the last 17 years specializing in infidelity[1] and
psychological disorders. At present, I am directing various training programs
on the mind[2], the
mind of xes[3], the
treatment of the mind[4], the
treatment of the mind of xes[5], the
treatment for sexual functions[6], and
the treatment for infidelity[7] at
Korea Institute of Psycho-education[8].
Analysing the psychological disorders induced by extra-marital affairs and
learning that the psychology of man and woman interact in such complicated
ways, I have also studied the fundamental principles of human psychology.
Psychological disorders caused by extra-marital affairs are extremely complicated,
and the traditional psychological theories or therapies have not been able to
successfully deal with them. They are accompanied by various separate
psychological disorders, marital conflicts, sexual problems, family issues,
social issues, and economic issues. I have learned that these psychological
disorders cannot be cured without the knowledge of the principles of the
operation of human mind and psychology.
I have introduced some different
psychological notions in the Theory of Mimind instead of using the traditional
psychological theories. I separated the consciousness and unconsciousness from
psychology and divided the unconsciousness as habits and the energy of mind.
The Theory of Mimind views that human psychology operates based on different
workings of the mind with its pursuit of different kinds of happiness
between man and woman.
Human psychology can also be classified into the psychology of
perception, that of memory, and that of expression. In the realm of the mind of
perception, the consciousness is at work; in the mind of memory, both the
consciousness and unconsciousness; and in the mind of expression, the
unconsciousness. And the generally known defense mechanisms are the patterns resulting from habits and
are not considered the actual defense mechanisms. In the Theory of Mimind,
there are only rejection defense mechanism and acceptance defense mechanism.
There are three standards or rules in the Theory of Mimind
regarding human mind. Firstly, it is the standard of the pursuit of happiness,
meaning man pursues the future happiness while woman, the present happiness.
Whether the incoming information meets the standard of happiness or not
determines the occurrence of emotion and the operation of psychology.
Secondly, it is the defense mechanism of positive and negative
emotions, the defense mechanism for pursuing the standard of happiness. Man
uses rejection for his negative moods, acceptance for his positive moods. Woman
uses acceptance as her defense for her negative feelings, rejection for her
positive feelings. Thus, man can hardly recall his negative moods but remembers
positive moods, while woman cannot remember her positive feelings but remembers
her negative feelings.
Lastly, it is the standard of xesmind. For a man, xesmind operates
in the process of generating passion, and for a woman in the process of
generating love. Thus, man's passion is manifested through sexual actions, but
woman perceives sexual actions as love, operating xesmind in the process of
generating love.
With these three standards, human mind takes control over the
consciousness and the unconsciousness so that they operate all emotions to
comply with the standard of happiness. This is the standard of human psychology
and the core concept of the Theory of Mimind.
Psychological disorders are the classifications of the abnormal
functions of human psychology comparing its function against the standard of
the mind. The occurrence of psychological disorders does not simply imply
unhappiness since they are not sorted by the criterion of happiness or
unhappiness or even by that of treatment. If one still can be happy with others
despite psychological disorders, they are not an intended recipient of
treatment and also it is not misfortune. But if one is not happy with oneself
and makes others unhappy because of psychological disorders, then they become
the intended recipient of psychotherapy. Therefore, we need to remove our bias
and preconceived ideas regarding various psychological disorders through the
understanding on psychological disorders. What seems good on the outside is not
always good in nature, and the same goes for the bad. This is the philosophy of
the Theory of Mimind.
[1] Infidelity counselling is to deal with various psychological
disorders from infidelity and to create a happier life for a client. Treatment
for rage and wounds, solving the marital conflicts and sex troubles in the
marriage, dealing with psychological disorders for husband and wife, and
counselling for happy marriage are the core programs of infidelity counselling.
[2] Mind Training provides the systematic learning on the Theory of
Mimind so that one can learn the principle of function of human mind and
psychology and prevent and cure one’s own
psychological disorder.
[3] Education of the mind of xes provides the systematic learning on xesmind
so that one can understand how human mind and psychology of xes work and the
sexual psychological disorders can be cured and prevented.
[4] Education for treatment of the mind is aimed at curing psychological
disorders based on the Theory of Mimind and Xesmind. It contains education for
treating depression, panic attack, ADHD, anxiety disorder, obsessive compulsive
disorder, and addiction.
[5] Education for treatment of the mind of xes is intended to treat sexual
psychological disorders through education, and it contains education for
treating the victim of sexual violence, and the assailant of sexual violence,
education for prevention and treatment of sexual crimes, education for treating
perception disorder of the mind of xes, memory disorder of the mind of xes,
expression disorder of the mind of sex and sexual dysfunctions.
[6] Education for treating sexual functions is for treating abnormal sexual
functions of male and female with its principle based on the Theory of Mimind
and the Theory of Xesmind.
[7] Education for treating infidelity is to deal with subsequent stress,
rage, and wounds after the occurrence of the extra-marital affairs.
[8] Korea Institute of Psycho-education (www.uip.ac) is a registered educational institution which provides educational programs for the Theory of Mimind and Xesmind, for the treatment of the mind and the mind of xes, for the treatment for sexual function, and for the treatment for infidelity.
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