1/30/2023

[Infidelity Therapy] Men who miss the ex-wife after getting married to the adulteress

 

Men miss their ex-wife after getting married to the adulteress when they have difficulty in the current marriage life. They also feel they miss their ex-wife when the current wife who used to be their adulteress does not give them as much as responses as they want, they are caught cheating on the current wife, or when they think that their ex-wife was better than the current wife many ways. 

It is not uncommon for men to commit infidelity with their ex-wife after getting married to the adulteress. Then, the current wife and the ex-wife develop an advanced form of psychological disorder and hysteria. Some men get a divorce again and remarry the ex-wife. Then, the husband, the ex-wife, and the adulteress cannot but live a destructive life with an advanced psychological disorder and collapse sooner or later. The saddest situation is where children suffer a lot and they also end up living an unhappy or a destructive life. 

All these phenomena result from the deterioration of psychological conditions of people involved. Things only get worse when the husband does not treat his relationship addiction. Men with relationship addiction may try to destroy marriage relationship whenever the wife does not give them responses they want. 

When men or women who develop relationship addiction or post traumatic stress during the first marriage and get a divorce without treating their condition, they necessarily end up jeopardizing their life after the divorce whether they get remarried or not. They may pursue only momentary pleasure day by day whether they get a divorce or remarry.

You must treat relationship addiction and post traumatic stress whether you are thinking about getting a divorce, in the process of getting a divorce, or have already got a divorce. Also, a right and effective treatment method must involve the self-treatment method that is based on the accurate operational mechanism and can properly change habits of psychological operation. You and your children can live a happy life only when you treat your psychological condition in the right way.

On the other hand, when you get a divorce without treating relationship addiction and post traumatic stress, problems of habits of psychological operation deteriorate and become to pursue only pleasure including sexual pleasure or to be taken advantage of by people who have selfish purposes. Then, you become to destroy not only your own life but also lives of people around you including your own children's lives. 

Feeling comfortable now does not indicate that your condition has been treated and stabilized. Feeling comfortable when you have developed relationship addiction and post traumatic stress indicates that your condition has deteriorated. Also, feeling the sense of confidence along with relationship addiction and post traumatic stress indicates that your condition has deteriorated a lot. 

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