[Mother Therapy] Children with self-respect for parents with self-respect

 

     You as parents may try to build the sense of self-respect in your children. However, it is hard for children develop the sense of self-respect when parents don't have self-respect. To be able to have the sense of self-respect, you must be able to put your own emotions at the center. It doesn't mean that you will do anything as you want. It is more like admitting yourself as well as others. Then, you can interact with people comfortably respecting each other's point of view. That is, you have the composure to be able to listen to other people. 

     When parents have the sense of self-respect, they can interact with children comfortably listening to their children's point of view and sharing thoughts and feelings. Also, parents with the sense of self-respect will not force their own ideas and ways of doing things. They can interact with mutual understanding, which in turn develops the sense of self-respect in children. 

     Parents who don't have the sense of self-respect may not listen to their children and force their ideas, which is a form of repression of children. Children who are repressed by their parents cannot develop the sense of self-respect or the sense of confidence. Parents who repress children have not the sense of self-respect but a lot of confidence. Children who cannot develop the sense of self-respect do not harm other people at least, but parents who have only confidence without self-respect inflict damage on other people. They will only try to make children and all other people comply with their own way of thinking and doing. 

     The sense of self-respect is based on feelings in mimnd, and the sense of confidence is based on moods in mimind. When parents apply moods instead of feelings activating only the sense of confidence, parenting becomes inconsistent depending on the moment's moods causing children develop confusion and psychological instability. It is crucial for parents to accurately understand the difference between self-respect and confidence and analyze their own psychological condition. 

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