First, stress is a feeling that occurs when information perceived by
the five senses, which are sight, sound, touch, taste, and smell is unpleasant.
When men experience stress, their mind's defense mechanisms kick in to
eliminate or avoid it. When a man's stress is persistent, it's not really a
cumulative effect of stress, but rather one stressful event followed by
another.
In order for a man to eliminate stress, he must convert the
information perceived by his sensory organs due to a stressful event into a
good mood, which means he must indulge in fun and pleasure, which we call
healing. Even if the information that causes stress is blocked, it's not the
end of the story: men may feel relaxed and comfortable after blocking stress,
but they won't have the passion to do something again. So men must generate
passion by immersing themselves in post-stress pleasure. This is where sex
comes in. The more stressful and intense the situation is, the more men are
likely to turn to sex to relieve it, because what gives them the most fun and
pleasure in the moment is sexual information.
Men don't really think about sex at all when they're in a stressful
situation, regardless of their sexual functioning. Sexual desire occurs the
moment when they want to block out that stress and immerse themselves in
pleasure. It's a momentary diversion in which you want to immerse yourself in
fun and pleasure, and sex is a way to do that. If you can deal with stress properly
and rekindle your passion by having healthy sex, you can actually stabilize
your body and mind. But one thing that's often overlooked is that when men have
sex with the intention of relieving stress, they accumulate xes information in xes
memory.
For men, this accumulation of sexual information grows xes wounds,
which can have adverse physical and psychological effects on men. When a man
thinks about sex, it doesn't have much of an effect on his xes memory, but when
he actually has sex, it triggers a lot more xes information and xes wounds than
just thinking about it. For example, if you think, “I've been really stressed
out at work, and I really want to blow off some steam,” it doesn't have much of
an effect.
It's not that stress is causing you to not be able to get an
erection or to ejaculate prematurely, but that your using sex as a means of
pleasure to deal with stress leads to sexual dysfunction.
There's a big difference between stress directly causing sexual
dysfunction and sexual dysfunction as a result of dealing with stress by means
of having sex. No man is free from stress, and if you're passionately pursuing
values of life, you're likely to be more stressed than others. Even if stress
is the root of all your ills, you can't give up your values and your social
life to be stress-free. Fortunately, sexual dysfunction is not directly caused
by stress, but by using sex as a means of coping with stress. Even if you've
already developed sexual dysfunction, you can overcome it by creating a healthy
stress coping system, either on your own or with the help of a
professional.
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