5/27/2021

The Conscious Human Relationship

 


When meeting someone for the first time, when doing things related to work, or when talking about specific incidents, psychology operates by the conscious human relationship. In this case, habits, the unconscious, are suppressed; psychology operates only by thoughts and memories, which are the conscious. 

When one's thoughts and memories (the part that is being recognized) are expressed to his or her counterparty, the counterparty accepts these through thoughts and memories (the part that is being recognized). At this point, when expressing one's own thoughts and memories to counterparty, the remaining speeches, actions, and facial expressions except for the part that is being recognized are expressed by habits, the unconscious. The counterparty perceives the expressed psychology by thoughts and memories and then expresses his or her thoughts and memories (the part that is being recognized), which makes one perceives them to thoughts and memories (the part being recognized) as well. When the counterparty expresses his or her thoughts and memories, at this point, the remaining speeches, actions, and facial expressions except for the part that is being recognized are expressed by habits, the unconscious, as well. 

Like this, the relationship where one and the counterparty perceives and expresses through thoughts and memories (the part that is being recognized) is called the conscious human relationship. At this point, expressing through the part of thoughts and memory that are being recognized is important, but it would be much more helpful for human relationships if expressions made by habits can be sharply paid attention. 

The conscious human relationship is at work in uncomfortable relationships when meeting strangers for the first time, relationships formed by things related to work, etc. In intimate human relationships, speeches and actions are made by habits, the unconscious; however, in the conscious human relationships, expressions are made by thoughts, the conscious. So, many thoughts are made making stress operates that causes tiredness. 

The conscious is always at work in expressions and perceptions of psychology in the conscious human relationship; thus, it causes tiredness a lot. Operations of the conscious generate thoughts; thoughts cause stress a lot. This is why people who work hard at workplaces want to take rests comfortably when they are back home. If they cannot relieve stress at home, they try to relieve stress before they get back home. Having some alcohol, going somewhere for fun or hanging out with close friends before going back home are the operations of psychology trying to relieve stress. There's also a case that some people forget going back home because they enjoy and are deeply into their works. 

The conscious human relationship generates lots of stress like this. If the conscious that requires reasonable, decisive judgment keeps operating, it will cause compulsion and suppression. In other words, as stress becomes stronger, more tiredness is caused; in the case of after working hard, one feels very tired after the work is finished. 

If one is back home without his or her stress relieved, the stress will be relieved by habits unconsciously when the person is with his or her close friends or people he or she loves. A lot of people doing works that are very important and difficult, works that ask for high-developed skills and professional, works that are strictly hierarchy, etc. tend to become violent (using abusive words or physical violence) to relieve their stress when they are at home where they have intimate human relationships although their job performances are excellent due to the operations of reasonable controls and thoughts. This occurs when they are back home without relieving their stress. 

There was a TV program that showed measuring the stress of a husband when he's at work and when he is at home. His blood pressure was between 80 and 90 when he's at home whereas it was measured to be between 130 and 140 when he's at work. The blood pressure went down to 80-90 when he's back home. 

Rather than the conscious of thoughts, habits of the unconscious operate when one is in intimate human relationships at home whereas the conscious operates when that person is at work and constantly causes stress that makes the blood pressure stay in high. Depending on which psychology operates, whether the conscious or the unconscious, lots of effects are caused by these psychological operations.


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Abnormal Human Relationship

 


Abnormal human relationships always bring problems. Thus, if it is not understood clearly or if it is not prevented, you might either be involved in incidents that you didn't want to be involved with or be damaged due to this relationship. These cases happen in relationships with specific purposes such as fraud, relationships of blind passion, adultery & infidelity, unfair works due to the cooperation of two who are not in the same position, etc.

Serious problems are potential even though one perceives his or her counterparty as an intimate person since the counterparty perceives their relationship as the relationship with a specific purpose. 

If one expresses his or her emotions through speeches, actions, and facial expressions by habits, the unconscious, to his or her counterparty because the counterparty is intimate, the counterparty will accept the expressed emotions to the conscious through thoughts. Then, the counterparty will make speeches, actions, and facial expressions that the one wants; through this, one's thoughts and memory can be recognized by his or her counterparty. So, the one perceives the counterparty's speeches, actions, and facial expressions as if they are true. At this point, one does not recognize the counterparty's expressions are made intentionally for a specific aim but perceives only that the relationship with the counterparty has become intimate. 

When looking into the abnormal human relationship, habits of the unconscious operate when one expresses his or her emotions because he or she thinks that he or she is close to or loves his or her counterparty. whereas the counterparty uses the conscious to express and perceive the expressed emotions. In this case, the person with habits operating is damaged by his or her counterparty who uses the conscious; this makes the counterparty become a perpetrator. 

The abnormal relationships are relationships holding specific purposes. For examples are a criminal relationship, the relationship between swindler and victim, the relationship between perpetrator and victim, etc. In the end, it is very natural for one expressing his or her psychology through habits and for the counterparty accepting the expressed psychology by the conscious. However, expressions of psychology are made intentionally by thoughts of the conscious resulting in making one and the counterparty express psychology differently. 

This kind of abnormal relationship occurs very often especially in intimate relationships and in relationship with people who have known for a long time. This does not operate in the conscious human relationship. Even though one person in a relationship feels intimacy and thinks the relationship has become closer, it is useless if the counterparty has a specific purpose to keep the relationship. 

As mentioned several times, abnormal human relationships occur when relationships are considered to be intimate and when the relationship has been kept for a long time. People are swindled mostly by others who have kept intimate relationships with them. It is rare to be swindled by a stranger. So, although the conscious operates in the beginning when meeting a stranger, expressions start being made unconsciously by habits once one starts feeling intimacy in the newly formed relationship. The conscious keeps operating in the counterparty. In other words, the counterparty is using this person. As the counterparty starts thinking consciously with specific purposes, an abnormal human relationship has been formed. This person does not recognize this. 

There are some people trying to come between related others by making them misunderstand and distrust each other. This is possible because the victims are close to the person trying to come between them; this also makes them keep this abnormal relationship with the perpetrator holding a specific purpose. When there is someone trying to play both sides in the middle, it means that the person has a specific purpose. Like this, those with specific purposes in human relationships express psychology intentionally.


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Recipients_People who suffer from conflicts in general relationship, marriage relationship, and romantic relationship

 Many people suffer from conflicts in relationships. However, when you accurately understand the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology, you can easily resolve conflicts in relationships and maintain good relationships with people. 


[Conflicts in general relationships]


We are in diverse relationships with people including parents, siblings, husband, wife, children, friends, coworkers, and so on. When conflicts occur in relationships, stress is generated continuously and both parties suffer. Especially, women tend to accumulate psychological wounds inside them and suffer in the conscious more than men due to accumulated wounds. 


You may have conflicts with :

- Parents

- Siblings

- Friends

- Coworkers

- Children

- Others 

Or you may have fear of forming relationships with people in general. 


As conflicts continue, stress and wounds expand and some people attempt to break free from stress by taking diverse types of diversions. Unfortunately, diversions are only for temporary relief of stress and cannot resolve conflicts or cannot treat wounds that are already inside you. When stress and wounds continue due to conflicts but you cannot relieve stress and wounds by diversions, you may feel great pain inside you.


Psychology Treatment of KIP provides an adequate treatment program that helps you accurately understand the operational mechanism of human conscious and unconscious, adjust and control your mind and psychology, and apply what is learned in daily interactions with people. 


[Conflicts in marriage relationship]


Many people suffer in marriage relationship. When stress and wounds from conflicts in marriage relationship are not treated adequately, they are aggravated more and more leading to the collapse of individuals'' psychology and marriage relationship itself. The psychology of marriage relationship applies to people who are legally married, in de facto marriage, or just living together in one household. 


You may have conflicts in a marriage relationship due to :

- Infidelity

- Business or economy

- Unemployment

- Physical or verbal abuse

- Abandonment

- Separation

- Sexual abuse or sexual perversion

- Indifference or negligence


You suffer more and more as conflicts continue and each party tries to communicate their thoughts and emotions to no avail in a vicious cycle. In the process, the couple may exchange hurtful speech and actions, and stress and wounds may only keep being accumulated. Then, the couple may begin to neglect conflicts and avoid confrontation getting themselves immersed into other things separately. They may not confront as much as before but conflicts have not be resolved. 


Many people say :

- He (She) does not seem to know what he (she) has done wrong.

- I feel that I am pathetic for marrying a man like him (a woman like her).

- I want to divorce him (her) but what about my children?

- I cannot go on like this any more.

- I don''t consider him (her) as a human being. 

- I try to do better thinking that then, things will get better.

- I have always complied with his (her) way but I don''t want to do it any more.

- I feel absolutely angry every time I see him (her). 


In a marriage relationship, most people activate the unconscious in the interaction with their partner, so their speech and actions cannot be calculated or intended in advance in many cases. It also means that correcting or changing the partner''s behaviors is almost impossible. What you can do is to accurately understand the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology and then, apply the principles to induce positive outcomes from interactions. 


It may be only that neither of you have not found the right way of managing your own mind and considering your partner''s mind. Moods operate in men''s mind and feelings operate in women''s mind. When positive moods are generated in men continuously, they can generate passion continuously and correct problems on their own. When positive feelings are generated in women, they can generate feelings of love and happiness and correct problems on their own. 

 

You must change yourself before changing your partner based on the accurate understanding of the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology. Through Psychology Treatment of KIP, you will be able to learn how the human conscious and unconscious operate in a marriage relationship and how you can resolve conflicts. Seemingly difficult problems may be easily solved once you understand the underlying mechanism and find the root cause. 


[Conflicts in romantic relationship]


Many people suffer from conflicts in romantic relationships. 


You may have conflicts in a romantic relationship when :


- You have frequent arguments involving emotional conflicts

- One party is indifferent or negligent

- One party demands the counterparty to do something against his or her will

- One party demands excessive sexual actions

- You want to break up but it is not easy

- One party is abusive verbally or physically

- One party is too busy

- One party likes friends and parties too much making the counterparty lonely

- You want to get married but your partner keeps postponing

- You love your partner but he or she is already married to another person

- Your partner has difficulty with his or her career


You must first understand that men and women have completely different operations of mind and psychology. Moods operate in men and feelings operate in women. Conflicts and disputes are only natural between a man and a woman due to the difference in the perception of conversation, the difference in the memory of emotions. and the difference in the operation of psychology. Men think and act following the operation of men''s mind and women think and act following theirs, and neither party has a clue about the other party''s operation of mind and psychology. 


Through Psychology Treatment of KIP, you will learn about how differently men''s and women''s mind and psychology operate, and how human conscious and unconscious operate. You will be able to develop the ability to solve relational problems and live a happy life with people around you. 


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Recipients_People who lack the sense of self-respect and self-confidence / Women who suffer from psychological wounds

[People who lack the sense of self-respect and self-confidence]


Psychology Treatment of KIP helps you build the ability to restore and maintain the sense of self-respect and self-confidence. 


When you lack the sense self-respect and self-confidence, you also lack the will power and tend to depend on other people. You may think that your ideas are wrong and other people's ideas are right and always look for others' guidance and approval for your own journey of life. 


People who :

- have worries and anxiety and cannot take actions 

- understand and admit what is right and what is wrong in your head but cannot accept in your heart or cannot put to practice

- have many things you want to do but have not tried any

- feel fine when they are with people but suffer from loneliness when they are alone

- cannot stand being alone without having a romantic relationship

- cannot openly speak out for their thoughts and opinions

- are overly self-conscious

- cannot demand for their rights 

- cannot reject other people's requests


Many people suppress their emotions and do not know how to effectively express their thoughts and emotions. They want to be able to express themselves but they cannot help suppressing themselves and suffer inside themselves. The may avoid having a romantic relationship or become overly dependent on having a romantic relationship. 


When you accurately understand the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology, you can treat wounds and stabilize psychology and adequately apply the principles to human relationships. In the process, your sense of self-respect and self-confidence will be naturally restored.  


When you restore the sense of self-respect and self-confidence, you can effectively express yourself and take actions activating the will power. You will not suppress your thoughts and emotions and will stop depending on other people. You will value your own existence and achieve comfort and happiness in mind. 


In case of women, restoring the sense of self-respect is more important than restoring self-confidence. Women with self-confidence without self-respect are considered to have a psychological disorder. When women restore self-respect, the restoration of self-confidence will automatically follow. In case of men, restoring the sense of self-confidence is more important that restoring self-respect. Psychology Treatment of KIP helps women build self-respect and men build self-confidence. 


[Women who suffer from psychological wounds]


Psychology Treatment of KIP helps women treat all wounds accumulated from the past and restore happy mind. Women with many wounds tend to forget about their wounds by getting immersed into diverting activities but it only aggravates their psychological condition.  


Women who :

- suffer from the loss of love

- suffer from misfortunate past experiences (sexual harassment, prostitution, 

  embarrassing incidents)

- think that they cannot have love and happy life again

- feel lonely

- suffer from repeatedly meeting and breaking up with men

- suffer from suppressing emotions 

- think pleasure seeking is all there is to life

- make efforts to change themselves but cannot quite achieve their goal

- have given up on everything with lack of self-respect and self-confidence

- only focus on career since they are afraid of meeting men

- think enjoying meeting men casually is happiness


In women's cases, negative past experience generates wounds in mind and wounds are stored in memory continuously affecting psychological operations. The unconscious attempts to treat wounds and has the conscious sense wounds. Even when you suppress wounds in the conscious, wounds in the unconscious keep operating affecting your perception, memory, and expression. Women with great wounds tend to avoid recognizing wounds by maximizing positive moods, and then, they become dependent on moods rather than properly activate feelings.  


Women can treat psychological wounds when they accurately understand the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology. You can build the ability to treat wounds, stabilize psychology on your own, and apply the principles to human relationship in daily life by taking Psychology Treatment of KIP.  

 

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Recipients_Parents who suffer from children's problems

Psychology Treatment of KIP helps parents restore their balance of psychology and help children solve psychological problems. Mother Therapy can be applied so that mothers can solve their own child's psychological problems. 


Parents who :

- are rearing children in a marriage relationship

- are rearing children in separation with their spouse

- are not married but rearing children

- are rearing children after a divorce

- are rearing after the bereavement of the spouse


Parents whose child :

- studies very hard but does not get good grades

- does not show any interest in academic achievement

- is generally unruly and distracted

- commits juvenile delinquencies

- is highly irritable and cranky

- never listens to parents

- is maladaptive at school

- is bullied at school and cannot make friends 

- is involved in crimes as a victim or a perpetrator

- has addiction of internet, game, or gambling

- only stays in the room and never goes out


Parents may do their best to solve child's problems but they feel powerless when nothing works. They may have done everything sometimes being coercive and sometimes compromising to no avail. 


Parents may think they are unfairly blamed for child's problems. They themselves may think that it is their fault. Starting from the child's problems, they themselves may develop psychological problems due to constant worries and anxiety. Eventually, they may feel they want to give up. 


Children having psychological and behavioral problems is neither parents' nor children's fault. Things just happened and neither parents nor children adequately dealt with the problems since they did not know about the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology. 


What you need in parenting is not endurance but accurate understanding of human mind and psychology. Parents' psychological conditions greatly affect child's psychology at the unconscious level without anyone recognizing at the conscious level. Also, the child's experience, memory, and thought are necessarily different from parents' experience, memory, and thought. When parents understand how human conscious and unconscious operate to affect the manifestation of psychology, they can easily and adequately address diverse child's psychological problems in daily interactions.


Psychology Treatment of KIP guides you to accurately understand the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology and apply the principles to restore your own psychology and your child's psychology. Once you understand how you and your child operate the unconscious and the conscious, you can analyze almost all phenomena that you thought were puzzling and frustrating and apply adequate parenting strategies in each situation.  


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Recipients_People who lack passion and will power / people who blame themselves or other people

 Psychology Treatment of KIP can help you restore passion and will power and regain self-respect and self-confidence.  


Many people have something that they want to do in mind, but they lack passion and will power to drive themselves all the way. Passion is 'energy for getting immersed into pleasure of doing something' and is connected with will power. You cannot have passion without will power and vice versa. Of course, people without passion and will power tend to start doing something, but in time they give up and cannot achieve their goal. 


You may think :

- you don't have enough money and family background, or more urgent things to take care of

- you are simply not good enough

- you don't even want an achievement of any kind

- you are so incapable and mediocre

- what you are doing now is futile or wrong


You may come up with an endless number of reasons and excuses for your lack of passion and will power and justify yourself. Then, you end up repeating starting and giving up and depending on other people. You may feel stuffy and have many ideas in your head, but blame yourself or other people rather than take actions and continue with efforts.  


This phenomenon occurs since you do not accurately understand about the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology. As you understand how human mind works and retsore your healthy psychology, you can naturally regain self-respect and self-confidence as well as passion and will power. You may feel that you have changed quite a lot and you may actually be able to achieve your goal. 


Firstly, you must accurately understand why you did not have passion and will power. You don't have to dig into your past specifically to find why you did not have passion and will power. You just need to understand about the operation of human mind and psychology and then, you can naturally make your own passion and will power. You can also build the ability to recover healthy psychology and treat psychological wounds along the way. 

 

If you want to change yourself, become independent, and achieve your goal in life with passion and will power, Psychology Treatment of KIP may be an important first step in  your long journey.


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Recipients_Women who want to love and be lived / Women who suffer from the loss of love

Psychology Treatment of KIP has the effect of restoring the sense of self-respect and self-confidence and changing the operation of your mind and psychology through accurately understanding the mechanism of women's mind and psychology of loving and being loved. It is a highly effective psychology treatment method for women who want to love and be lived and who suffer from the loss of love.


[Women who want to love and be lived]


Regardless of their age, all women want to love and be loved, which is an absolutely natural phenomenon as the desire for love operates inside all women. The desire for love develops in women since their mind wants comfort and happiness by nature. You may feel that you want comfort and happiness even when you have achieved worldly success and have many friends around you. You may feel lonely and want to be comforted for specified or unspecified psychological wounds. Your desire for love may grow and grow along with your interest in men who may give you love and happiness.  


Women who :

- want to be in love with a man but have not met the right man yet

- have experience of falling in love, but feel that love will not come to them any more for different reasons

- cannot trust men since they think men will change in time and do not want to be hurt from a broken heart

- think that they are too old for love

- think that no man will love a mediocre woman like them


Some women blame other people and others blame themselves for not having love in their life, which is actually not important and not the focus of the problem. When you make yourself a woman who has the ability to love and be loved, it is only a matter of time that the object of your love will naturally approach you, which is the fundamental mechanism of human relationships. You achieving love has nothing to do with your life experiences, appearance, or social and economic status. 


First, you must accurately understand the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology before you build the ability for love. Through Psychology Treatment of KIP, you can build yourself as a woman who can provide comfort and happiness in the counterparty, making him generate passion for you and his life. Your counterparty will always want to be with you and protect you, leading to deep true love between the two people. 


Conventional approaches that address only the operation of psychology at the conscious level including psychology counseling, coaching, lectures, and other sources, provide only superficial and temporary solutions, and may even direct you to the opposite way from your goal. Through Psychology Treatment of KIP, you will be able to learn about the proper interactional strategies based on the fundamental mechanism of human mind and psychology and internalize the principles of human relationships inside yourself.  


If you truly want to love an be loved,

- Never go looking for someone you can love.

- Never yearn for getting some man who will give love to you.

- Never ever consciously want or even beg for love from any man.

- Never try to comply with the man's needs.


Under any circumstance, all you need is to accurately understand the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology and internalize the principles of human relationships in your unconscious. Then, you yourself will be surprised that the right man for you will naturally approach you and give love to you, which is all women's dream come true. This mechanism applies to all women regardless of their individual circumstances. 


[Women who suffer from the loss of love] 


Psychological wounds from the loss of love cause pain and sorrow. After some time, you may feel that you have recovered, but actually they have not been treated and negatively affect your relationship the next time you fall in love with another person. This mechanism explains the phenomenon in which some women repeat the process of meeting and breaking up with men. They do not recognize the operation of psychological wounds but wounds keep operating throughout their lifetime. 


Women who :

- suffer from the loss of love

- have broken up with a man they love after a big fight

- had conflicts with their lover due to personality issues

- have the experience of being forced to break up

- had to break up due to an inevitable circumstance even 

- think that they don't deserve having love for different reasons

- have suffered from infidelity issues

- have suffered since the man they love consider them only as a sexual object

- have the idea that meeting men is OK, but do not want marriage

- have experience of taking their friend's man and having their man taken by a friend


Many women who experience undesirable situations described above tend to avoid and try to forget wounds from the loss of love. However, wounds keep operating being untreated even when you get immersed into different diverting activities or fall in love again with another man. It may lead you to break up with men easily generating and accumulating more and more wounds.


Wounds from the loss of love must not be forgotten or avoided but must be treated properly. Then, wounds do not operate in the next relationship letting you keep love with happy mind you are born with. Wounds can be treated by positive feelings and feelings of love generated in your unconscious. Untreated wounds keep operating producing diverse relational problems. You must activate feelings instead of moods to restore love and happiness. 


Through Psychology Treatment of KIP, you can accurately understand the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology, apply the principles in daily life, and have you unconscious treat wounds continuously, automatically generating happy mind. 


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Recipients_People who suffer from somatization or psychogenic illnesses

Psychology Treatment of KIP helps you recover from somatization and psychogenic illnesses by restoring psychological balance and treat psychological wounds. 


Somatization occurs when psychological problems continue and are manifested as physical problems, but it is not actual physical problems. It is usually caused by stress and psychological wounds. 


Once people experience somatization, it tends to recur repeatedly and the interval between the presence and the absence of physical symptoms becomes shorter and shorter as time goes by. Also. after some prolonged time, they tend to develop other types of psychogenic illnesses on top of the existing ones. Thus, it is not uncommon to see people suffer from multiple symptoms of somatization simultaneously. Illnesses that turn out to be psychogenic include premenstrual syndrome, headache, migraine, gastritis, irritable bowel syndrome, hair loss, physical pain, and tic disorder


In many cases of somatization, patients have experienced continuous or repeated stress and psychological wounds, and treatment of physical symptoms are not usually sufficiently effective. Then, they just become dependent on medication or just live with the symptoms for the whole life time.  

 

Physical symptoms originated from psychological problems disappear when psychological problems are solved. When you take Psychology Treatment of KIP and learn about the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology, you can restore psychological balance and treat psychological wounds, and then, the symptoms of somatization will simply disappear. You will be able to build the ability to heal stress and treat wounds in your unconscious all by yourself through KIP self-training program. 


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Couple Therapy_For couple's happiness and xes happiness with passion and love throughout the lifetime

Through Couple Therapy of KIP, you can achieve happiness and xes happiness with passion and love that can be maintained all your lifetime. Couple Therapy is such a powerful treatment method that it may induce severe psychological disorders in both the wife and the husband making them pleasure seekers and causing misfortune upon themselves and people around them when it is approached with selfish and distorted purposes. Therefore, you need to first apply for Couple Therapy and then, should be diagnosed and authorized for suitability by KIP. 


Couple Therapy of KIP is a treatment program based on the Theory of Mimind and the Theory of Xesmind, with which married couples can build the ability to treat and stabilize their body and mind on their own, adequately activate xes unconscious in xesmind to experience the utmost sexual pleasure, and maintain happiness with passion and love for their whole lifetime.


Married couples can build treatment ability, happiness ability, and sexual ability through Couple Therapy of KIP. Couple Therapy is considered to be one of the most effective therapies available for married couples that provides innovative and novel method of achieving sexual pleasure based on the accurate understanding of the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology. Conventional therapies and methods of promoting couples' sexual happiness usually focus on superficial levels instead of addressing the underlying aspects of human mind and psychology, so end up aggravating individuals' psychological conditions and destroying couples' happiness. 


Couple Therapy of KIP provides a non-contact on-line self-training program, with which couples learn to activate xesmind toward each other and build sexual ability as well as treatment ability generating passion and love. Couples who are trained with KIP Couple Therapy can pursue happiness together pursuing meanings and values with passion and love along with the best sexual ability and sexual pleasure. 


[Precautions against distorted views]


1. Couple Therapy does not train you with sex techniques for sexual pleasure.

2. Couple Therapy does not provide practical solutions on sexual actions.

3. Couple Therapy is not to be associated with obscenity or embarrassment.


Couple Therapy of KIP is different from any conventional therapy and treatment method that deal with human sexuality at its surface level including sex education, spiritual and physical training, meditation, and so on. Unfortunately, many of them dangerously lead you to pursue only sexual pleasure and destroy your body and mind, let alone pursuing happiness in a true sense. 


[Benefits of Couple Therapy of KIP]


All married couples at any age in any circumstance may benefit from Couple Therapy. 


- Treatment ability : Restore physical health and treat and prevent diverse illnesses.

- Happiness ability : Restore psychological health and treat and prevent diverse psychological problems. 

- Sexual ability : Reinforce sexual charm and build sexual ability that accord with each other. 


All of the above will be naturally formed in both the husband and the wife in the process of proceeding with Couple Therapy. 


[The Importance of Couple Therapy]


What is the use of all the wealth, fame, or things chased around by everyone when you are not happy with your partner in your marriage due to physical and psychological pain and sexlessness? Some couples may pursue individuals' pleasure neglecting marriage relationship mistaking pleasure for happiness, or live in constant conflicts and confrontations destroying each other and their children. 


You can accurately understand the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology and systematically analyze what you sense and recognize in the conscious through Couple Therapy. In addition, you can build sexual ability that accords with each other and maintain and share sexual pleasure for the rest of your life.


Many couples who participated in Couple Therapy have expressed their surprise at its great effects. Many have reported that their body and mind have changed for better, and cannot believe they have such sexual ability for each other. Through Couple Therapy, you can build the basis for love and passion, success and happiness, and ability and pleasure of sex, which all married couples hope for and dream of and cannot be bought with money. 


[Recipients of Couple Therapy]


Couples who :


- suffer from spouse infidelity

- have given up on sexual pleasure for diverse reasons

- have achieved worldly success but want to achieve true happiness

- never talk to each other or inflict stress and wounds on each other continuously 

- cannot stop confrontation against each other

- have given up on happiness triggered by infertility or difficult childbirth

- experience sexual difficulty due to the wife's frigidity or orgasmic disorder

- experience sexual difficulty due to the husband's impotence related problems

- want couple's happiness along with sexual pleasure

- experience sexlessness and the state of ennui

- have inferiority complex on appearance

- lack self-confidence

- have strong sexual desire but cannot be satisfied with having sex

- have worries and troubles regarding sexuality

- want to overcome inferiority complex of sex

- understand the importance of sex in life

- want to overcome diverse problems in relation with human sexuality 


[Expense of Couple Therapy] 

55,000 US Dollars or more depending on the couple's circumstances (per couple)

* The expense of Couple Therapy may vary depending on the couple's circumstances and will power.

* The expense of Couple Therapy is determined after having a consultation session for Couple Therapy


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Infidelity Therapy_Treatment method of post traumatic stress and relationship addiction

Infidelity Therapy is designed to treat 1. post traumatic stress due to spouse infidelity and 2. relationship addiction of the spouse in infidelity. Diverse methods of addressing infidelity issues are conventionally employed such as psychology counseling, religious counseling, coaching, , lawsuits, and so on. However, most of them are not sufficiently effective and usually cause only a waste of time, effort, and money.


Infidelity Therapy is an innovative and highly effective treatment method of post traumatic stress due to spouse infidelity and relationship addiction of the spouse in infidelity based on the Theory of Mimind and the Theory of Xesmind that adequately explains the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology. It adopts a non-contact on-line self-treatment method to develop happiness ability in people suffering from psychological pain and other consequential circumstances.


Infidelity Therapy minimizes unnecessary burden on people who participate in the treatment training. You don't have to make frequent office visits, or talk about details of infidelity issue, but still can experience the most powerful treatment effects at a fundamental level by adequately treating rage and wounds without adverse side effects.  


[The importance of Infidelity Therapy]


Rage is an expression of psychological wounds upon the development of post traumatic stress due to spouse infidelity. Immediate treatment of rage is required to stabilize psychology and restore the ability to think and judge properly in daily life. Treatment of rage and wounds can be achieved in a relatively short time applying an adequate treatment method. 


Upon the development of post traumatic stress due to spouse infidelity, wounds continue to operate on and on relating all the problems experienced during the whole period of marriage with infidelity issues. Wounds accumulated so far regarding couple relationship, sexual issues, economic and parenting problems, and other relational conflicts continue to operate at their full scale all day everyday causing excruciating pain, and the severity of wound operation is in proportion to years of marriage. 


As a result of years of research, Korea Institute of Psycho-education developed an innovative and highly effective treatment method of post traumatic stress and relationship addiction employing only self-training of psychology excluding any inconvenient and ineffective conventional methods. It has also verified through many clinical cases that its efficacy rate is more than 90% without any adverse side effect. Infidelity Therapy is considered as one of the most effective treatment methods of post traumatic stress and relationship addiction that exist in the world.  


[Recipients of Infidelity Therapy]


Men and women who :


- suffer from spouse infidelity

- have suffered for a long time due to repeated spouse infidelity

- feel more in love with the lover in extramarital relationship than with their spouse

- suffer because the spouse refuses to get a divorce when they want to start a new life with the lover in extramarital relationship

- feel in love with a married man or a married woman

- suffer from infidelity in a romantic relationship

- repeat breaking up and making up due to the partner's repeated infidelity

- suffer upon finding out that their partner turns out to be a married person

- suffer from the partner in extramarital relationship committing infidelity

- suffer because the partner in extramarital relationship promised to get a divorce and keeps staying in marriage. 


[Composition of Infidelity Therapy]


1. Treatment Training : Mind Training (20 one-hour video sessions)

   - Training videos : 4 sessions each week for 5 weeks 


2. Therapeutic tasks : Therapeutic tasks for men, therapeutic tasks for women 


3. Self-check on progress

   - Upload writings periodically on [Self-check & Inquiries] on [Members Only] at KIP Psychology Treatment Center of Type 2 Psychological Disorder   

   - Upload questions on [Self-check & Inquiries] on [Members Only] at KIP Psychology Treatment Center of Type 2 Psychological Disorder

   - Consultation sessions when necessary (e-mail, office visit, video conference) : charge or free of charge depending on circumstances


4. Viewing reference materials of KIP : Keep up with efforts and will power


* All 4 components are necessary for optimal treatment results.

* The process must be continued for more than 3 years to fully develop happiness ability without recurrence of psychological disorders. 


5. Mother Therapy (optional): Learn treatment methods of child psychology and parenting methods - http://www.mothertherapy.net


6. Youth Mind Training (optional) : Children learn about how to solve and prevent psychological problems - http://www.youthmindtraining.com


* Mother Therapy and Youth Mind Training are provided free of charge to mothers who take Infidelity Therapy.


[Expense of Infidelity Therapy] 


11,000 US Dollars (per person)

* Payment with a card (visit Seoul office) or wire transfer 

  (cash receipt or tax invoice issued)

* VAT is included in the expense. 




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