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Those who develop post traumatic stress feel the pain of death, which indicates that their mind is still operating to restore healthy psychology and happiness. People who commit infidelity have already lost true happiness and they live only for pleasure. They don't care how much pain people around them suffer from and they truly believe that they are living a good life. Their ideas and behaviors destroy harmony and order of the human society. Even more surprisingly, some people who have post traumatic stress envy people who have relationship addiction and try to become like them.
They feel that they don't have what they deserve in life and feel miserable compared with people who have relationship addiction. They feel that life is so unfair since they are devoting their life to restoring a happy marriage and family, but their partners have everything they want and enjoy their life. In other word, they also want to lose their mind and take an easy way for a pleasurable life. You feel that life is unfair because you envy evil.
People who have normal and healthy psychology do not envy people who commit infidelity. They may feel uncomfortable or disgusted but not envious. However, people who have post traumatic stress due to spouse infidelity develop not only rage but also revengeful thought, which is the result of the activation of wounds.
Post traumatic stress begins to destroy your mind as soon as it occurs. It makes you feel more and more rage and revengeful thought to expedite the process of destruction and eventually become a destructive person. As the condition of post traumatic stress is neglected and aggravated, you will necessarily become to resemble the spouse in infidelity.
You may still think that it cannot happen to you, but when post traumatic stress completely takes you over, you will easily seek consolation by committing infidelity and feel comfortable and relieved by abusing your children. Then, you will justify yourself saying that you didn't have a choice. You will also encourage others who are suffering from post traumatic stress to live only for their own pleasure and comfort.
Post traumatic stress has an enormously destructive power. Your trusted spouse has developed relationship addiction and committed infidelity. You cannot guarantee that you will never follow suit. Post traumatic stress must be treated in the right way instead of being suppressed or avoided. It is the only way for you to restore true happiness and KIP is here to help you with the process.
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