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The victimized spouse suffers from unimaginable excruciating pain upon the discovery of spouse infidelity. No one else including family and close friends can even remotely feel how painful it is. Post traumatic stress the victimized spouse experiences transforms all the life experiences into wounds in mimind and it gradually destroys the mind of the victim unless properly treated. Neglecting post traumatic stress is likened to the suicide of psychology. In the process of aggravating your own psychology, powerful destructive energy is let out toward other people and destroys other people's psychology, which can be likened to the murder of psychology.
What kind of efforts would you make when you discover spouse infidelity? What kind of efforts would you make when you try to help your victimized spouse after you commit infidelity? Some victimized spouses just endure the situation and suppress their feelings, and others try to cope taking practical measures such as collecting evidence, filing lawsuits, taking psychology counseling, having a revenge affair, or getting immersed into child-rearing, work or hobbies. All the efforts made without proper treatment contribute to destroying your life as well as you mind and psychology. You will feel comfortable only when you have completely destroyed your mind and psychology.
Then, you may begin to destroy other people's mind and psychology encouraging them to take practical measures as you did. You may feel happy and satisfied when their life and psychology are destroyed and may justify your behaviors with distorted thought standards. If you are the spouse in infidelity, you have already destroyed your psychology and are already destroying others' psychology.
If you continue to suffer from the pain of spouse infidelity, you are actually aggravating your own condition and you are also a prospective destroyer of other people's psychology. Both the victimized spouse and the spouse in infidelity will end up destroying not only their own psychology but also the psychology of people around them including their own children. You may not even want to think about what your children will go through due to their parents' ignorance and distorted thoughts and behaviors. It is imperative that you must treat your post traumatic stress instead of taking practical measures to solve the issue of spouse infidelity to be able to protect yourself and your children.
You can effectively treat post traumatic stress and relationship addiction adopting KIP Treatment Program that is based on the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology. It also adopts a revolutionary self-treatment method of mind and psychology. Most conventional methods cannot solve the issue of habits of psychology, so the more you proceed with those methods, the more your condition progresses.
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