6/12/2024

[Sex & Xes] Tips for having successful sex

 

Today, I'd like to talk about “tips for having successful sex”, which is a topic that many men and women actually want to know more about. Simply and simply, the only thing a man needs to have successful sex is to have good physical sexual function, so men don't actually need tips to have successful sex. Rather, the search for information and knowledge about sex leads to xes wounds in xesmind in men caused by perceived sexual information, which accumulates and leads to sexual dysfunction. No matter how much information and knowledge you have about sex, if your body doesn't respond in a sexual situation, you won't have successful sex.

On the other hand, for successful sex, women need to have a lot of information and knowledge about sex. This is the complete opposite of the notion that sex is centered around men, that men need to know a lot of information about sex, and that men need to take the lead. You may be asking, “Does this mean that the time has finally come for women to take the lead in sex?” But I want you to understand that I am not speaking in terms of time or socio-culture, but in terms of the workings of the mind and the xesmind.

Women needing to know about sex means only that they need to know how to pleasure themselves. Most women don't know how to pleasure themselves in sex, and that's why they're often in a passive position in sex. Women who still balk at the phrase “women should know how” are doing so because they're thinking of sex with men-centeredness: women don't have to lead men, and they don't have to feel shame about pleasuring themselves through sex. Women should just focus on making themselves satisfied and happy through sex without thinking too much about it, and they should figure out how to do that.

So, when women are having sex for their own pleasure and happiness, what happens when men's sexual functioning is in sync with that? It would create the ultimate passion for the man, and the ultimate love and happiness for the woman, resulting in a complete union and maximum satisfaction. But in reality, no matter how much information men have about sex, women usually don't know how to enjoy it for themselves, and that information leads to men having xes wounds that cause them to develop sexual dysfunction, and sex becomes more and more of a mystery.

The result is that sex gradually becomes a means of pleasure or a way to be loved, and both men and women become confused about the process of sex, and then, they judge the success of sex based solely on ejaculation and orgasm. As this continues and repeats, sex becomes boring and obligatory.

Men should only be concerned with improving their own sexual function. Men should avoid seeking information and knowledge about sex as much as possible, and realize that the more information they accumulate, the more problems they will have with their sexual functioning. Women should also be concerned with learning how to achieve their own pleasure and happiness. Please, remember that when a woman feels the most pleasure and happiness in sex, it will automatically create the most passion and pleasure in her partner.

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      About KIP(Korea Institute of Psycho-education)

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