In a man-woman relationship who love each other, the phenomenon of seeing the counterparty's weaknesses as strengths is called 'pink lens effect.' Because pink is an atmospheric color, looking at the counterparty with this lens will make you feel everything beautiful if you are in love. The caudate nucleotoxin in the human brain catalyzes dopamine, the hormone that is very sensitive to love. It makes a person have fun and make cheeks blushing. Because of this, some of you may have heard that you look prettier when you are in love.
Men generate passion in mind; through habits, they express the desires for psychological operations and devotion. When these are satisfied, their mind generates passion, Libido, and the desire for achievement making hopes and anticipations of happiness. However, this pink lens effect fades away within about 6 months to 3 years making the conscious operate again, which causes you to perceive the strengths and weaknesses of your counterparty.
Thus, the positive emotions of love drop by 50 % after a year and gradually fade away. There is a study saying that these positive emotions completely disappear after about 900 days. Ultimately, the positive emotions of love are like a storm for 900 days. This is the pink lens effect.
Pink Lens Effect is temporary in normal psychology; if it lasts, that means problems have occurred in the conscious and habits. It is like an old saying, 'too much is as bad as too little.' It will cause psychological disorders and physical problems, which make both the mind and the body destroyed, to both yourself and your counterparty.
Pink lens effect is the phenomenon of perceiving the counterparty's weaknesses as strengths distortedly since it makes you see only strengths (charms) of the counterparty. Positive emotions will be generated as both strengths and weaknesses of the counterparty are perceived as charms; the maximized passion causes positive emotions to become maximized as well. This is accepted by thoughts, which are the conscious.
Pink lens effect is a temporary phenomenon, which fades away gradually. As time passes and as you feel more comfortable and familiar with the counterparty, the counterparty's weaknesses start being perceived one by one. Due to this, negative emotions are formed as emotional conflicts and stress (or wounds) are created. This is when the pink lens effect starts fading away. When negative emotions start being created, man's passion starts decreasing as well, which takes about 6 months to 3 years. So, the pink lens effect fades away within 3 years.
The phenomenon that deludes you to think that the world is formed having you and your counterparty as center occurs when you have the pink lens effect. So, you will reject what others say to you, even if it is a piece of advice. You will have psychological operations only by your thoughts (the conscious mistaken about your counterparty) and your counterparty's speeches and actions and always have positive emotions aroused.
Since it even makes psychological operations meaningless, excessive positive emotions are formed, leaving you with a distorted life where only loving relationship and the man-woman relationship between you and your counterparty exist. Therefore, a man will have a psychological disorder when his passion is distorted; a woman will have a psychological disorder when her love is distorted(mistaken). The phenomenon that makes them mistake as if they have 'pink lens effect' will occur when this happens.