On human mind and psychology

 

All human beings have the body and the mind. We all admit the existence of the mind and understand that the mind exists within the body. The body has been more systematically studied than the mind since it is visible and concrete whereas mind is invisible and abstract.

 

Psychology operates connecting the body and the mind. Psychology has three components : perception, memory, and expression. Psychology of perception transfers external information to the mind through sensory organs. Psychology of memory operates to match perceived information and stored information and store the processed results. These days, the study of human memory is being vigorously conducted by brain science. Psychology of expression operates to recognize in the consicous, which is inward expression, and be manifested as speech, actions, and facial expressions through the body, which is outward expression. The field of psychology focuses on diverse psychological manifestations that are represented through the responses in the body that result from the operation of mind.  

 

The number and types of information operated in perception, memory, and expression are infinite. As the field of psychology has focused on the manifested phenomena rather then the underlying mechanism of mind operation, the number and types of psychological theories have grown to become numerous with each theory attempting to explain each phenomenon. Even today, diverse psychological theories are being developed to explain a certain psychological phenomenon or a group of similar phenomena.

 

Differently from many conventional theories of psychology, the Theory of Mimind and the Theory of Xesmind are postulated as a theory that attemepts to explain the underlying mechanism of human mind and psychology, and with which psychological treatment methods can be developed to adequately address the root causes of psychological problems manifested as diverse symptoms and phenomena.

 

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The reason why social problems and criminal incidents get more and more serious

 

These days, we are living in a society where social problems and criminal incidents are prevalent in every sector, and society's capacity for managing and preventing the problems seems to be far from being adequate. We are busy dealing with individual cases every time problems occur, but more and bigger problems keep occurring in a vicious cycle and no one seems to have the solution.

 

Attempts to solve problems based on the analysis of visible phenomena may not lead to solve problems adequately since it does not address the root cause of problems. Also, social problems are always associated with individual problems, so addressing underlying psychological problems of individuals within the social system may be an effective approach to dealing with social problems.

 

When one person has psychological disorders, he or she naturally affects other people in negative ways causing psychological disorders in more and more people. When more and more people in the society develop psychological disorders, the whole society cannot but suffer from more and more disruptive incidents in a vicious cycle.

 

Then, why do we still have more and bigger problems when there seem to be so many well-intended government policies and social programs addressing individual psychological problems and social issues? Again, it is because we are not adequately addressing the root cause of problems based on the accurate analysis of underlying mechanism.

 

Now is a high time that we all came up with ways to address the root cause of social problems by accurately understanding the underlying mechanism of human mind and psychology and applying it to properly managing the society.

 

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A man who claims he is in love with a married woman

 

(Q) A man in separation with his wife and a married woman have had an extramarital relationship for 7 years. The man tells the woman that he loves her and plans to marry her after his divorce 5 years later. Can we say that he really loves her?

 

(A) The two people are in relationship addiction with psychological disorders. They have been seeking only pleasure in life for the last 7 years and they could easily continue such a relationship for the rest of their life. It is simply a nonsense that he loves her and he plans to get a divorce 5 years later and marry the woman.

 

He is only lying that he plans to marry her in order to continue his pleasurable life without problems and is self-justifying the current situation. It is identical to say that they should just keep enjoying as they do now since they will get married in 5 years, which is unlikely to happen.

 

Normal people cannot understand speech and actions of people with psychological disorders since their thoughts are completely distorted from normal operation. They may look absolutely smart and rational in dealing with other matters, but their psychology operates in a distorted way to accord with the standard of pleasure seeking regarding the object of addiction, which is relationship in this case.

 

People in infidelity may actually think and argue that those who seek pleasure are capable of love and those who do not are not. They are at the center of destroying healthy human relationships along with destroying individuals, families, and the whole society. The nature of such a relationship is the woman offering her body for the man's sexual pleasure disguised as love.

 

The woman is likely to be indifferent to her family and her children since she is also in relationship addiction. She is considered to be addicted to the man's attention and consolation at the cost of her life, and she has to keep responding to the man in return for his attention. She is also highly likely to display symptoms of hysteria upon the slightest negative stimulation.

 

Both of them are ruining their own life and the lives of people around them without even having a clue about what is actually going on in their mind and psychology.

 

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Mindfulness vs. KIP Psychology Treatment Training

 

'Mindfulness' is popular these days as a meditational method that promotes healthy psychology. It is considered to be an effective method for elevating the level of focus and calmness. It must be absolutely beneficial to adopt the method of mindfulness in general for such purposes. However, it must be categorized as a healing method of psychological problems rather than a treatment method of psychological disorders.

To be able to treat psychological disorders, you must establish clear concepts regarding the following questions.

- What is mind?

- What is the root cause of psychological pain and suffering?

- What operation of mind results in emotions?

- Exactly what parts of mind are targeted for treatment?

- What is the difference between mind and psychology?

Most conventional methods of psychology treatment including the method of mindfulness that claim to be effective for treating psychological disorders do not differentiate mind and psychology, and therefore cannot address the operation of mind and psychology in any fundamental and systematic way.

I have developed the Theory of Mimind that attemtps to explain the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology. It is crucial to accurately understand the operational mechanism of mind and psychology to adequately address psychological disorders for a full recovery without adverse side effects in the long term. Many people continue to suffer from psychological disorders or aggravate their conditions believing that they are adopting proper treatment methods when they are actually adopting healing methods that provide only temporary effects of diversion. It must be noted that even some well-intended programs may lead you to waste you time, effort, and money without providing accurate diagnosis and adequate treatment.

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Infidelity is a manifestation of serious psychological disorders

 

Psychological suffering and other practical problems in human relationships may occur due to the operation of wounds and stress in the condition of psychological problems or psychological disorders. Psychological problems can be recovered by counseling and knowledge education, but psychological disorders need to be properly treated with professional help to prevent aggravation and restore healthy psychology. Psychological problems can also be aggravated to psychological disorders when neglected.

 

When psychological problems are not properly addressed, they may develop into a psychological disorder that affects one component of psychology. Then, as the condition deteriorates, the condition may develop into a psychological disorder that affects two components of psychology. In rare and extreme cases, they many develop into a psychological disorder that affects all three components of psychology. In general, it may take years for psychological problems to develop into a psychological disorder in one component of psychology, and decades to develop into a psychological disorder in all three components of psychology.

 

However, people who get involved in infidelity may develop a psychological disorder in two components of psychology in a single day, and the victimized spouse may be instantly put under the condition where they may develop a psychological disorder in all three components of psychology upon the discovery of spouse infidelity.

 

The practical circumstance of infidelity itself is less important than the psychological conditions that people involved in the issue of infidelity may have to experience. Psychological disorders caused by getting involved in and being victimized by infidelity may be aggravated as time goes by and diverse practical solutions are attempted, leading to even more serious and critical life circumstances including crimes and the destruction of family. Psychological disorders related with issues of infidelity result in not only individual problems but also social problems to which all of us are exposed on a daily basis. Infidelity is not just individuals' problems of marriage, love, or sex, and its adverse effects go much deeper and wider in individuals and the society.

 

Issues of infidelity must be viewed as serious and dangerous psychological problems that may destroy human relationships and incur unfortunate and tragic incidents. The treatment of relationship addiction of the spouse in infidelity and the treatment of post traumatic stress of the victimized spouse must be prioritized over any other attempt for practical solutions when infidelity occurs in a couple relationship.

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Body and Mind

 

Everyone knows that a human being is formed with the body and the mind (psychology, soul & spirit).

Physical body consists of the brain, five sensory organs, skin, inner organs, blood & hormone, other cells, etc. and can be known and proved easily because all of these are visible. The body is visible; it is essential for human beings to survive.

However, the mind is not visible so that it is guessed to be somewhere in the brain and has been studied by many to prove it. This study field is called ‘brain science.’ The mind is not visible, but it certainly exists.

It is 'where emotions, thoughts, memories, etc. are either saved or occurred’; emotions of joy, anger, sorrow, and pleasure and operations of these emotions, which is psychology, are called the mind. It is very abstract since it is invisible.

Therefore, the human being is formed with the body and the mind (psychology and soul & spirit) integrated together, and it is inseparable. Since the mind and psychology are abstract, they cannot be defined certainly but can only be guessed vaguely because mind and psychology are invisible and not proved.

Psychology expresses how the mind operates and conditions of the conscious, etc. making the mind and psychology very similar. Mind is ‘where emotions are saved or remembered’ whereas psychology is ‘operations of emotions.’ Ultimately, what people know in general is psychology. The mind they express is the operations of psychology.

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Mind Training

 

Mind training is ‘training program’ and is developed for psychological treatment. Mind training is the process of learning the mind and psychology of human being first by training and taking counseling and treatment at the same time.

To look into efficacies of mind training, first is that you will be able to operate psychology. Psychological operation if exchanging speeches, actions, and facial expressions. When one and its counterparty exchange speeches, actions, and facial expressions, we call this psychological operation. You will be able to understand and use your and your counterparty’s psychology when there’s psychological operations between you two. You can use and lead psychological operations to the way you want to lead regardless of your counterparty’s psychology.

Second is that you can control and adjust emotions that occur within you and your counterparty after having psychological operation.

Third is that you will be able to analyze your and your counterparty’s psychology. Ability to analyze psychology is simply understanding the mind, which people are mostly interested in. You can understand the mind of you and of your counterparty accurately.

Fourth, you can adjust human relationships as you wish. When there is mutual relationship between you and your counterparty or between counterparties, you will be able to adjust the mind to the way you want.

The ability I’m talking about here is habits being perceived as if you’ve done it in that way originally when you do things. Habits are not formed if you make efforts intentionally. The true ability is habits that you can make into action unknowingly.

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Understanding the nature of spouse infidelity in order to restore your own happiness

 

Those who have not experienced the pain caused by spouse infidelity could not even imagine its severity of suffering.

When spouse infidelity occurs, many victimized spouses cannot even fathom why and how they ended up in such a disatrous situation. They are in excruciating pain, but they themselves do not understand why they feel such pain.

Many victimized spouses may attempt to correct the situation and break free from suffering within their knowledge and ability, but unfortunately, few of them understand that the straying spouse is in relationship addiction and the victimized spouse is in post trumatic stress, thereby making their efforts useless or deleterious.

1. What would be the underlying cause of spouse infidelity?
- Why would people have an extramarital relationship?
- Why would they repeat infidelity?
- Why would the try to hide the fact of infidelity?

2. What would be the underlying cause of the victimized spouse's deathlike pain?
- Is it really just because of spouse infidelity?
- Is is really just from the sense of betrayal?
- Is it because something is critically wrong with their life?

It is when you figure out the answers to the 2 queations provided above that you can truly begin to direct yourself into the right path of life again.

It is understandable that you have no energy or desire to think deeply about the root cause of all the things you are facing now. However, you and your life are too precious to be ruined by incidents like spouse infidelity. Any actions taken without accurately understanding the true nature of the phenomena may lead to another and even worse problem.

It is hoped that you will wisely overcome the hardship and happily strde for the future again.

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Psychological problems vs. psychological disorders

 

Many psychology treatment methods are applied without considering the distinction between psychological problems and psychological disorders resulting in adverse side effects.

When you suffer from psychological pain, an exact diagnosis must precede to determine the condition. For example, psychology counseling may be effective for psychological problems, but not for psychological disorders.

Psychological problems can be compared to having a cold and psychological disorders to having a flu, pneumonia, or lung cancer. Adopting psychology counseling to treat psychological disorders may be not only ineffective but also detrimental.

It may aggravate the condition or develop another type of psychological disorder on top of the existing one ruining the life of your own and people around you.

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How to distinguish real experts on psychology counseling

 

When you go to see a general doctor for coughing, the doctor may refer you to a hospital when the symptoms stay even after taking regular treatment. However, if the doctor just sticks to his treatment saying that he or she can treat all kinds of illnesses, you may doubt on his ability and expertise as a doctor.

 

The same applies to psychology treatment. Psychology counseling is an effective method to solve mild cases of psychological problems. However, it cannot treat psychological disorders. A real expert on psychology counseling will refer you to a specialist who can adequately treat psychological disorders when he or she cannot.

 

Psychology counselors who keep applying counseling to clients with psychological disorders are likened to general doctors who do not refer you to a specialist even when they cannot treat peoperly. Some even try to form rapport with the client and have the client develop dependency aggravating the client's psychological conditions.

 

In many cases of psychology counseling, they lead the clients to develop addiction to get out of depression. Depression may seem to have been treated on the surface but actually the client has now entered the initial phase of bipolar disorder by transfering to addiction after experiencing depression. When people in PTSD are led to boost the sense of self-confidence and get immersed into seeking pleasure, they develop hysteria or intermittent explosive disorder. 

 

Precautions must be taken to adopt adequate treatment methods for different levels of psychological problems and disorders.

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To inform people of the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology

 

I have been researching on human mind and treating psychological disorders for more than 20 years. I developed the Theory of Mimind and the Theory of Xesmind and non-contact self-treatment methods of psychological disorders that are sufficiently effective  without psychology counseling. In the process, it was discovered that infidelity and sexual problems and dysfunctions are caused by psychological disorders.

 

Knowledge and information that are available and known to the world are found to be quite distorted and misleading, inducing serious social and individual problems and causing misfortunes all around the world. Many so-called experts and specialists are producing distorted and sometimes utterly wrong knowledge and information about infidelity issues and sexual problems, and general public cannot but be misled to be convinced with their incorrect ideas and  suffer from dire consequences in human relationships.

 

I feel responsible for letting people know how serious and dangerous it is to misunderstand the concepts of infidelity and human sexuality and for rectifying the distortion and misunderstanding so prevalent and so deeply rooted. I hope that people will accurately understand about human mind and psychology and stop making efforts to destroy human relationships and live an unhappy life.

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Korea Institute of Psycho-education

Korea institute of Psycho-education developed the world's first training method of generating happiness in the human mind based on the principles of the operation of the human mind and psychology. This training method, which is intended to treat psychological problems and disorders without the help of psychological counseling, equips people with the ability to heal stress and wounds accompanying any human life and to lead a happy life. It also helps develop the ability to generate happiness in all human relationships: the relationships of couples, friends, family members, colleagues, acquaintances, and business partners.

1. The training of the mind

It cultivates the abilities for the treatment of psychological problems and disorders, the prevention of crimes and suicides, the prevention of sexual harassments and sexual assaults, the resolution of conflicts and troubles in human relationships, the resolution of learning disorders, the improvements in academic performance and learning ability. It is also for the treatment and prevention of school violence and bullying, the treatment and prevention of stress and wounds, the education of humanism, the resolution of family conflicts and couple conflicts, the recovery of self-esteem and self-confidence, and the generation of happiness in all human relationships. It also helps to improve the abilities for business, business foundation, career, and work, to maximize the abilities for creative and enterprising thinking and self-development, and to succeed and achieve in various areas of human life.

2. The training of psychological treatment

It cultivates the abilities to self-treat various psychological disorders such as depression, insomnia, eating disorders, anxiety, obsession, panic disorders, character disorders, personality disorders, PTSD, tics, learning disorders, ADHD, gambling addiction, narcotics addiction, alcohol addiction, shopping addiction, relationship addiction, game addiction, SNS addiction, stress disorders, and neurological disorders.

The training method of Korea Institute of Psycho-education equally applies the criteria, standards, rules, and principles to all areas of society, study, enterprise, business, work, family, and individuals. It especially renewed the concept of unconsciousness, discovered the root of the mind, and accurately interpreted the mind of a human being and the mind of humans in relationships. It clarified that all humans have the same operation of the mind and live lives pursuing happiness.

The training method of Korea Institute of Psycho-education applies to any woman and man, old and young, from East and West, regardless of his or her nationality, ethnic group, ideology, race, religion, culture, social and economic status, and political and philosophical stance. Therefore, it enables any human being to lead a happy life without regard to their language, gender, age, education, majors, jobs, knowledge, qualifications, and abilities. It is the basis of the education of the whole man, necessary and essential on top of the present-day knowledge education and human education for happy and fulfilling life. It is a ground breaking and innovative training method uncomparable to any existing one.

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