[On Divorce] My wife is demanding a divorce saying she does not even want custody of children.

Q. My wife had an affair with a man in a business relationship while we were proceeding for divorce due to the difference in personality. Then, my wife's business failed and we lived together after canceling the divorce process. Then again, my wife resumed her business and the relationship with the man. Upon the discovery of the second infidelity case, she begged me for forgiveness and wanted to be with children. 7 years has passed since then. Recently, her business began to go well and now, she is demanding a divorce saying she doesn't even want custody of children. Should I get a divorce?

A. Just covering up the wrongdoing and living together as if nothing had happened is not forgiveness. Your wife has had relationship addiction for a long time and she is in a serious psychological condition. You should never trust people who have relationship addiction since it will recur any time. 

You have not given your wife an opportunity to treat her relationship addiction so far. You trusted her, believed her words, and only have covered up the wrong situation for the whole time. Your wife's behavior is so typical of the behaviors of people with relationship addiction. As she recovers her business, she is willing to give up family and children only for her own pleasure. 

Your wife may have tried hard to recover herself and do her best for family, but it must have been impossible since her psychology operates in such a distorted way. On the surface, things may look fine still maintaining the family relationship, but it is far from true recovery of marriage relationship and family relationship. 

First, you must restore your own psychology and build happiness ability whether you decide to get a divorce or not. You can also give your wife an opportunity to restore her psychology if you decide to stay in marriage after you treat yourself. 

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[On Marriage] I am in my 40's and have not yet found a person to be my significant other. It is hard to find one.

It does not have to be hard to find a person to marry. Age is not important, either. You seem to want to get married but have not found the right person just yet. 

As you maintain healthy and stable psychology and continue with what ever you are doing, it is for sure that you will meet the person you want to marry. However, if you are suffering from psychological problems and cannot manage your own life well, it is likely that you cannot meet the right person or just meet people who want to share only pleasure instead of making a commitment. Especially, if you yourself become a pleasure seeker, you will naturally get involved with people like you, who focus more on pleasure than happiness. 

It is essential to maintain healthy psychology if you want to marry and live a happy life with your spouse. If you already have many psychological problems, you must treat your psychology first. Then, you will naturally meet someone who wants to marry you regardless of your age. If you do not treat your psychology, it is likely that your psychological condition worsens as time passes and the probability to meet the right person decreases. 

Many people say that it is hard to find the right partner to marry, but it is far from the truth. It is hard because people try to find someone who can compensate for their psychological problems and develop dependency on the partner. Normal people would not do so, and people who are willing to do so must have some serious psychological condition to start with, which necessarily leads to the collapse of relationships. You may be in the vicious cycle where you keep meeting people with psychological disorders and aggravating your psychological wounds, making you feel that you cannot meet the right person to marry.

It is more important to build the environment for finding a partner than to find a partner. If you think that you are already surrounded by people with psychological disorders, you can keep some distance from them and focus on the treatment of your own psychology. After the treatment, you will find that people with psychological disorders disappear and people with healthy psychology come close to you.

Life is a continuum that continues until you die. You never know when you will meet the right person, get married, and live happily. Your current age is not important at all. The most important factor is your own psychological condition whether you marry, get a divorce, or remarry.

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[On Remarriage] I am a divorced man in 40s and I am raising 2 daughters. What type of women would be ideal for me to remarry?

Q. I am a divorced man in 40's who is raising 2 daughters. If I want to remarry, what type of women would be ideal for me: a woman who has never married, a divorced woman who is raising children, or a divorced woman without children? 

A. First, you must find out what kind of trauma you have by analyzing why you have got a divorce and how you have had the custody of children. You must first analyze your psychological condition before thinking about the type of your new spouse. Then you must analyze the psychological condition of the woman you want to remarry. 

When you are in a dating relationship, you usually try to show and develop positive emotions toward each other. Then, underlying psychological conditions are displayed after you marry or get used to each other and you develop relational conflicts. You and your partner may look happy and comfortable on the surface, but may have psychological problems deep inside, which will definitely manifest itself in a marriage relationship. 

It is hard to give you a specific answer at this stage because you have not met the prospective partner yet. You can analyze your own psychological conditions at present, but you cannot analyze your partner. What you can do now is to analyze your psychological conditions and build healthy psychology of a divorced man. Then, you can analyze your partner's psychology when you have met one.   

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[On Divorce & Remarriage] Analyzing purposes for divorce or remarriage from the perspective of psychology

Analyzing purposes for divorce or remarriage are important since it is directly connected with your pursuit of happiness after divorce or remarriage. Some people may just get a divorce out of emotional disturbance and do not reflect deeply about the matter objectively and regret their actions later. Any one who plans for divorce or remarriage needs to accurately analyze purposes for divorce or remarriage.

There are three types of purposes for divorce or remarriage. One is to live a better life than now. They vaguely think that life after divorce or remarriage will be at least better than the present life. Another is to avoid the present situation since it is so painful and difficult for them to keep going. The other is to become happy in the future with specific life plans after divorce or remarriage. 

Whatever the purpose of divorce or remarriage is, you may confront diverse problems since life may not unfold as you have thought or planned. This is because you have not adequately addressed your psychological problems in the past and at present. No matter how hard you try after divorce or remarriage with or without specific plans, you may not be able to achieve happiness after divorce or remarriage since you had and still have pathological psychological conditions. then, the practical situation and your psychological condition may be aggravated as you proceed with life after divorce and remarriage and you may end up confronting more and more serious and diverse psychological and practical problems. 

First, you must analyze your psychological condition before and after divorce or remarriage. Accurate analysis will guide you to solve problems that hinder you from adequately pursuing happiness. If you are diagnosed as having psychological problems or disorders in the past or at present, addressing psychological problems is the first and foremost thing to do before anything for your present and future happiness. 

If you are suffering form diverse practical or psychological problems after divorce or remarriage, it is strongly recommended that you find the root cause of problems and adequately address the issue. You should never give up on finding the root cause and resolving the issue regardless of your circumstance. It may be a major turning point for putting your life back on track and living happily with your loved ones. 

 

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[On Remarriage] My husband and I got back together after 10 years of divorce but I still have psychological difficulties.

Q. I got a divorce due to financial problems after my husband failed in business. After the divorce, I lived with children and my husband's mother for 10 years. My husband never contacted me all those years. We got back together after his mother passed away due to financial problems again. I am still in financial difficulties and I do not have any feelings toward my husband, which causes psychological pain in me. Should I get separated or divorced again?

A. Some people get a divorce solely due to financial reasons to protect family. You got a divorce and never contacted each other for 10 years, so it could be a real divorce or a divorce due to financial reasons. You were strong enough to take care of children and your husband's mother for those years. Then, you got back together due to financial problems again. 

Your husband lived by himself without even contacting you for 10 years. He has developed habits of living alone for 10 years. You have also developed habits of living without a husband for 10 years. It is likely that your husband wants only comfort whether you are together or separate. It is also likely that you and your husband have different psychology now after 10 years of separation. 

You must focus on your own situation and your own life for now. Do you think you can become happy only if your husband becomes successful financially? Do you think you can bring back feelings toward your husband and how? 

The first and foremost thing to do is to treat your psychological wounds and restore healthy psychology. In the process, your husband must try to rebuild economic ability and build feelings toward each other. If your husband cannot rebuild economic ability and you cannot rebuild feelings toward each other even after you have restored healthy psychology, you are recommended to get a divorce rather than a separation. After a divorce, you still need to find a way to live happily by building the psychology of divorce. 

Difficulties will continue and your husband will not be given the opportunity to restore his economic ability and psychology unless you are treated and change to be a happy woman you used to be. Without treatment of wounds and psychology, you will have to life in unhappiness regardless of your marital status.   

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[On divorce] I am curious about the psychology of divorce. I am not sure whether I have to stay in marriage or get a divorce.

You may be interested in the psychology of divorce since you are thinking about getting a divorce. You may feel that life after divorce will be better than life with unhappy marriage. However, people who are still in marriage relationship should not and do not have to learn about the psychology of divorce. It is hard to understand the psychology of divorce without experiencing divorce, and you may fall for arbitrary interpretation and distorted ideas destroying your psychology. 

When you maintain your marriage relationship having a divorce in mind, difficulties in marriage may be felt as being greater since you are only thinking about the divorce without having the psychology of divorce. It is more important to form the psychology of divorce inside you after a divorce rather than simply understanding what the psychology of divorce is without experiencing it.  

You definitely need to learn about and form the psychology of divorce if you are already divorced. However, learning about the psychology of divorce while staying in marriage will only aggravate your psychology and marriage relationship. Also, if you get a divorce just as a way of avoiding the present difficult situation, you will definitely experience psychological difficulties since you do not know about how to live happily after divorce. 

There are two ways to approach the problem. One is to decide to stay in marriage and find ways to live happily in marriage relationship without thinking about divorce, and the other is to decide to get a divorce. Most people who keep thinking about divorce during marriage end up getting a divorce since it is very painful to keep thinking about divorce without forming the psychology of divorce. 

It must be kept in mind that the psychology of divorce is formed only after getting a divorce. If you are suffering from the current marriage relationship, you must first decide whether you want to maintain marriage after solving current problems or you definitely want to get a divorce. After you decide to get a divorce, you must transfer to the psychology of divorce. It is difficult and undesirable to discuss the psychology of divorce while you are staying in a marriage relationship. 

It is recommended that you stop being curious about the psychology of divorce for now. You may first consult on marriage problems and then decide whether you want to keep this marriage or get a divorce. If you decide to get a divorce for sure, then you can transfer to the psychology of divorce.

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[On remarriage] My parents and children recommend remarriage.

Q. I am in my late 40's and my husband passed away 10 years ago. I feel comfortable now and everything is fine in my life, but my parents and children recommend remarriage. I have not even seen any man in years now, but my family think that I need a marriage relationship for my later years. Will I feel lonely when I get old without a husband?

A. It is not true that everyone becomes lonely as they get older without a spouse. You can live a perfectly happy life by yourself. When people experience the bereavement of their spouse, many of them live getting immersed into their children and career. You may have suffered from the bereavement in the past, but feel comfortable now after 10 years, which is a very natural phenomenon. If you feel that everything is fine in your life, there is nothing much to worry about. 

From children's point of view, they may feel that you look lonely and need more for your own life. They may think that you have sacrificed your life for them and for career. They may be worried that you will become lonely when you retire and children leave home. They may even try to introduce men to you. 

The point to be noted here is that you have the psychology of bereavement, with which you have kept your husband in your mind and memories as the basis of your life even after he passed away. When children grow and leave you, you may naturally feel lonely, but you can find other things to do and it does not necessarily have to be remarriage or meeting men.

You need to prepare for your later years when you will be alone, though. Otherwise, you will definitely feel lonely and empty, which may lead to psychological difficulties. Your family will not recommend remarriage anymore when they know that you are making plans for later years and preparing for a happy life in the future.

It is also possible that you will become lonely in the future and become interested in remarriage. Then, it is important that you meet and remarry the right man whose psychology is healthy without pathological conditions such as psychological disorders or post traumatic stress. Getting involved with men who have unstable psychology will damage your life greatly. Also, you yourself must transfer from the psychology of bereavement to the psychology of remarriage when you decide to remarry. Staying in the psychology of bereavement even after remarriage will also damage your life and your new husband's life. 

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[On divorce] I feel that I am still attached to my marriage even after divorce.

You had a divorce but you haven't got out of marriage psychologically. The difficulties you have experienced during marriage life continue to affect you even after divorce. That is, your present life and past marriage life are still connected in your psychology. When you continue to stay in the same psychological condition as you did during marriage life regarding relationships, children, family, and sexuality, you can never break away from the past. Then, you may feel that you are still tied and restricted to marriage life against your will. You have not transferred to the psychology of a person who got a divorce.

It is essential to transfer to the psychology of divorce once you get a divorce. When you do not transfer to the psychology of divorce even after divorce, you cannot live a happy life afterwards. You must never think that a life with a divorce is something wrong. Life after divorce can be as happy one as any other happy life. However, when you stay in the psychology of marriage even after divorce, you cannot achieve happiness. You may have an untreated psychological disorder or post traumatic stress from marriage experience. Your psychological condition may deteriorate when you forcefully block or suppress the condition in order to break free from it. 

You must first figure out exactly what you are tied to and restricted by and what the root cause is, for which you may need professional help. Then, you must find ways to solve present practical problems. Now, you can get out of the psychology of marriage after resolving the above two components of issues. You can leave the past experience of marriage behind and put your life back in the right track for happiness in the new life. 

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When a woman experiences her second husband's infidelity after divorcing due to her first husband's infidelity

It happens sometimes that a woman gets a divorce due to husband infidelity and remarries a man being convinced that her second husband will never cheat on her only to experience her second husband's infidelity. It is no wonder that the woman will get utterly shocked and suffer greatly from psychological wounds. Many of such women may choose to stay in the second marriage since they don't want to get a divorce the second time, or some of them may choose another divorce. In both cases, they are to live with extreme psychological pain all their life. It is imperative and urgent that they treat post traumatic stress caused by repeated experiences of husband infidelity regardless of their marital status in order to restore healthy psychology and happiness. 

Taking any other practical measures to address the issues than adequate treatment or making any conscious efforts will only result in the aggravation of the psychological condition let alone improvement. The problems actually started when they did not treat their post traumatic stress when they experienced husband infidelity in their first marriage. When you get a divorce without treating post traumatic stress, you may feel comfort and forget about your pain temporarily, but your psychological wounds keep operating. Then, all men you meet after divorce perceive your behaviors as responses to their attention and consolation, and relationship addiction develops in both you and men who get involved with you. You may remarry one of those men, which indicates that both you and your second husband have relationship addiction. This mechanism explains the phenomenon where people who remarry are more susceptible to getting involved in infidelity than others. 

When post traumatic stress operates inside you, the unconscious attempts to regain psychological balance, which is manifested as intense rage and pain. Then, nothing else can restore balance of psychology than adequate adjustment of the operation of the unconscious. Post traumatic stress worsens no matter what practical measures are taken or what conscious efforts are made unless adequate treatment methods are adopted. Eventually, you may end up living in severe depression or become a pleasure seeker getting immersed into addictive relationships. Whether you divorce and remarry the second or the third time, you may either live in severe depression or seeking pleasure.       

It is not too late to decide whether to get another divorce or restore the second marriage after you treat post traumatic stress and build happiness ability. If you are suffering from psychological pain due to infidelity issues or others related with divorce and remarriage, do not hesitate to apply for Free Consultation on Divorce and Remarriage provided by Korea Institute of Psycho-education. You will be accurately informed of how to overcome the present difficulties and restore a happy life with your loved ones. 

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A man whose ex-wife, ex-partner, present wife all resemble his mother in appearance

Q. I know a man who had an affair and got a divorce. His ex-wife, ex-adulteress, ex-partner, present wife all resemble his mother in their appearance. They always wear a big smile showing all their teeth, always wear skirts, and have straight medium-length hair. Does it mean that he misses his deceased mother so much? He looks pretty weird to me.  

A. There is nothing weird about him. It could be just coincidence or his habits that even he may not realize. If he had had an affair in hid first marriage, he is considered to have the condition of relationship addiction, which is supposed to operate in all his relationships including his second marriage. He is not missing his mother or ex-wife at all, but he can get addicted to any relationship where women, including the ex-adulteress and the present wife, respond to his attention and consolation. Relationship addiction is to progress as time passes and he repeats relationships with women. 

He may find that even his ex-wife looks like a new woman if they meet again, which may lead to another infidelity case with his ex-wife. Now, every woman who has the relationship with him can be considered as his adulteress. He may just happen to like women who always wear a big smile showing all their teeth, always wear skirts, and have straight medium-length hair. 

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People who have problems with children after divorce or remarriage

Many people suffer from problems with children after divorce or remarriage. Usually, these problems could be expected even before divorce or remarriage, but you did not know about them and just proceeded with divorce or remarriage. It is almost certain that parents develop psychological problems during their first marriage and divorce process. It is also highly likely that children develop psychological problems during parents' unhappy first marriage and the process of divorce or remarriage. 

When you get a divorce or remarry, you usually regain comfort and forget about      your psychological wounds. You also think that your children are doing fine as you are, and ignore small problems here and there. However, when your psychological wounds that have been accumulated during the first marriage and the divorce process are not treated, they continue to operate even after divorce or remarriage inside you, affecting yourself and children in negative ways. 

You may not realize it, but you are to raise your children with psychological wounds inside you continuously operating day in and day out. Your psychological wounds are manifested in your behaviors when you interact with children. Also, children may develop psychological problems adapting themselves to new environments and new relationships resulting from parents' divorce or remarriage.

Under this circumstance, children may either suppress or express their emotions.     They may endure and suppress their emotions seeing that parents have difficulties in the process of divorce or remarriage and wanting to lessen the burden upon parents. Then, problems may not occur on the surface but children may grow psychological problems inside themselves. Children doing well even in the process of parents' divorce or remarriage are usually considered to be highly self-conscious and blocking expression of their emotions.

On the other hand, some children may freely express their emotions, which is usually viewed as negative by people around them. They may express anger and become rebellious, which clearly shows that they have developed psychological problems. Here, children developing psychological problems does not stem from children themselves but from parents' psychological problems affecting them. Children develop problems since parent's psychology necessarily affects children's psychology.

When problems occur with children in the process of divorce or remarriage, they must be viewed as originating from parents' psychological problems not from children's problems. The first step to deal with children's psychological problems is to treat parents' psychology, only after which, you can address children's problems. 

Many people focus only on children's problems without understanding that they are caused by parents' psychological problems. Then, children's condition keeps getting aggravated since the fundamental issues are not addressed adequately. When your children show psychological problems in the process of divorce or remarriage, you must think that it is time to treat your own psychological condition and you must take it as an opportunity to restore healthy psychology of all family members and build happiness again. 

Korea Institute of Psycho-education provides Mother Therapy that informs you of adequate parenting strategies and treatment methods of child psychology along with treatment programs for adults since parents' psychological problems almost always cause problems in child psychology. When you apply for Free Consultation on Divorce and Remarriage or Free Consultation on Child Psychology, you will be informed of accurate analysis and treatment methods that address the root cause of children's psychological problems.

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The purpose of free consultation on divorce and remarriage

There are several purposes for providing free consultation on divorce and remarriage at Korea Institute of Psycho-education.

1. To promote accurate understanding of psychology of divorce and remarriage.

When you do not have accurate understanding of psychology of divorce and remarriage, you cannot but live an unhappy life after divorce or remarriage. We do our best to let you know which of the conventional wisdom on divorce and remarriage are right and wrong. Many of your assumptions considered to be common senses will turn out to be false or distorted information with regard to the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology. 

2. To help you solve psychological problems that have occurred after divorce or remarriage.

You will be able to solve psychological problems and restore happy life. 

3. To help you solve problems with children and other family members in the process of or after divorce or remarriage. 

4. To inform you of how to solve practical problems, relational problems, and sexual problems after divorce or remarriage. 

5. To inform you of causes of divorce and remarriage and causes of problems after divorce and remarriage. 

Psychologies of dating, marriage, divorce, dating after divorce, and remarriage are all different with respect to the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology. We inform you of how to change your psychology depending on your situation and how to live happily in all situations. You will learn about preparing for divorce and remarriage, solving and preventing problems, taking the right path for future happiness. 

6. To inform you of what problems to expect when you get a divorce or remarry without adequate preparation. Divorce and remarriage without adequate preparation is likened to sailing in the ocean without a rudder. Life necessarily contains the whole spectrum of emotions and circumstances including joy, sorrow, pleasure, and despair. You can wisely prepare for or overcome negative situations by understanding the operational mechanism of mind and psychology. 

7. To inform you of merits and demerits of divorce and remarriage.

8. To guide you on how to live happily after divorce and remarriage in a customized way.

Please, send us the application form of free consultation on divorce and remarriage by an e-mail.

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The importance of the psychology of divorce and remarriage

There are many people who are thinking about getting a divorce, are in the process of getting a divorce, have already divorced, are thinking about remarriage after divorce, and have remarried. Many of them are experiencing psychological pain and practical problems, and there are many experts and institutions that provide help for them. There are also much information on divorce and remarriage easily available through media. 

Unfortunately, much of the information available is considered as being dangerous since following their guidance will lead people to live in unhappiness after divorce and remarriage rather than in happiness. Much of the information looks and sounds right and helpful for people who are going through major changes in their life accompanied by pain and difficulties in many cases. However, not many people seem to understand that such guidelines will actually lead them to suffer from even more pain and difficulties in the future. 

It must be clearly kept in mind that only accurate understanding of the psychology of divorce and remarriage will lead to happiness after divorce and remarriage. Once you understand the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology, restoration of balanced psychology and happiness in life becomes highly attainable. Understanding your situation accurately is especially important since it affects your children's present and future life in a great deal as well as yours. 

When you develop psychological problems in the process of divorce and remarriage, you are considered to be standing at the tip of a cliff and many others are in the same situation as you, and still many others are encouraging you and many other innocent people to jump off the cliff suggesting all kinds of good-looking information and solutions. It is essential and imperative that you treat your psychological wounds and build happiness ability to protect you and your loved ones whether you are in the process of or have already completed divorce or remarriage. 

Free Consultation on Divorce and Remarriage at Korea Institute of Psycho-education provides you with accurate information on how to resolve issues related with divorce and remarriage and achieve happiness in life in a true sense.                

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Contents of Free Consultation on Divorce and remarriage

Korea Institute of Psycho-education provides the following contents for free consultation on divorce and remarriage. 

1. Accurate understanding of concepts of divorce and remarriage

Many people do not have accurate understanding of divorce and remarriage. From the psychological perspective, separating and severing the relationship after just living together or common-law marriage as well as legal marriage is considered to be a case of divorce. Then, you may develop the psychology of divorce and remarriage.

2. Change of human relationships and change of psychology after divorce and remarriage

Among many other changes in life after divorce and remarriage, one of the most important changes is the change in human relationships. As your relationships change after divorce and remarriage, your psychology must be changed to suit the situation. When the change of psychology is not processed adequately, you may develop psychological problems leading to unhappy life. Free consultation on divorce and remarriage informs you of how to proceed to change human relationships and psychology after divorce and remarriage. Especially, topics ranging from the dynamics of relationships with children and other family members to a sexual relationship are covered to guide you in the right direction for happiness in a true sense. 

3. Precautions and preparations for divorce and remarriage

Free consultation of divorce and remarriage informs you of what you have to be careful about and what to prepare in the process of divorce and remarriage. 

4. How to achieve happiness after divorce and remarriage

Living a happy life in a true sense is crucial for everyone. Just compromising in the given situation and living in mere comfort eventually leads to unhappiness leaving your life at the hands of other people. It becomes a serious problem since such a structure can be passed down to your children. It is imperative that you accurately understand how to achieve happiness in a true sense after divorce and remarriage. 

5. Underlying causes of and solutions to problems that occur after divorce and remarriage 

When problems occur after divorce and remarriage, it is important to analyze underlying causes and resolve the issues accordingly. Then, you can stabilize your psychology and prevent future problems. When you deal with only visible phenomena and do not address underlying causes, problems may keep returning and simply grow more and more. Free consultation on divorce and remarriage informs you of how to analyze fundamental causes of problems and pursue happiness in the right direction. 

6. Resetting goals and directions of life after divorce and remarriage

Free consultation on divorce and remarriage will guide you to set new goals and directions of life after divorce and remarriage. Setting wrong goals and directions or  living without any goal or direction may lead you to unhappiness after divorce and remarriage. 

7. Psychological wounds that occur in the process of divorce and remarriage

Free consultation on divorce and remarriage informs you of possible psychological wounds that can occur in the process of divorce and remarriage. You will be provided with information on diverse types of psychological disorders and how to treat them.

As your situation changes, your psychology must change to suit the situation. Marriage life becomes unhappy when you stay in the psychology of dating even after marriage. Your life after divorce becomes unhappy when you stay in the psychology of marriage even after divorce. Also, the psychology of the first marriage and that of the second marriage are completely different. 

Your psychology gets aggravated more and more unless you analyze and address the fundamental causes regardless of the types of present psychological conditions, leading to unhappiness in life. Free consultation on divorce and remarriage is intended to help you take the initiative in learning about the psychology of divorce and remarriage and maneuvering your life in the right direction. 

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People who can benefit from Free Consultation on Divorce and Remarriage

Following is the list of people who can benefit from Free Consultation on Divorce and Remarriage. 

1. People who have decided to get a divorce or remarry.

If you have decided to divorce or remarry, you must prepare for divorce or remarriage whether you have the person you want to marry or not. You must transfer to the psychology of divorce or remarriage and learn what to think and what to do to prepare for divorce or remarriage. 

2. People who are in the process of divorce or remarriage

You may be taking the procedure for divorce or remarriage at present. You must learn how to prevent problems that may be accompanied in the process of divorce or remarriage and how psychology changes when you divorce or remarry. You need to adequately prepare yourself to become happy after divorce or remarriage. 

3. People who have difficulties after divorce or remarriage 

It is quite common to have psychological and practical difficulties after divorce or remarriage. You can solve the present problems and learn how to prevent further problems and build happiness in the future. 

4. People who repeat divorce and remarriage

Repeating divorce and remarriage indicates that your psychology has deteriorated without being able to adequately operate psychology of divorce or remarriage. You must accurately understand the psychology of divorce and remarriage and treat your psychological condition for your future happiness. You must clearly understand that you can be as happy as possible even after divorce or remarriage. 

5. People who suffer from relationships unexpectedly after divorce or remarriage 

You must understand that you need to build different types of human relationships after divorce or remarriage from relationships you have had before. You must sever the relationships you don't need any more and maintain and develop the relationships that you need in accordance with your circumstances. 

6. People who have problems with children after divorce or remarriage

Most people assume that problems with children come from 'children' limiting the issues only to children. However, problems with children after divorce or remarriage are mostly likely to be caused by parents problems manifested in parenting, which most parents would deny. When you have problems with children after divorce or remarriage, you definitely need consultation on divorce or remarriage before anything. You must understand how you can approach children's problems, what underlying causes lie behind the phenomenon, how you can prevent further problems by adopting adequate parenting strategies. You also need to learn how you and your children can be happy  together in the future. 

7. People who have difficulties with sexual issues after divorce or remarriage

Only you yourself can recognize what sexual issues or problems you have. It is not uncommon at all that people experience difficulties with sexual issues after divorce or remarriage. They need to accurately understand what caused the problems and learn how to solve and prevent sexual problems and live happily.

8. People who are simply curious about the psychology of divorce or remarriage

*** Regardless of your circumstances, whether you have divorced, remarried, or are in the process of divorcing or remarrying, you must get 'Consultation on Infidelity Issues' if you are related with them. Consultation on divorce and remarriage and consultation on infidelity issues are completely different. 'Consultation on Infidelity Issues' applies to people who got involved in extra-marital affairs or suffered from spouse infidelity at any time in the past. You are considered to have developed post traumatic stress and/or relationship addiction if you are related with infidelity issues.   

   Apply for Free Consultation on Divorce

Apply for Free Consultation on Remarriage

  Korea Institute of Psycho-education : http://www.uip.ac/  

The uniqueness of Free Consultation on Divorce and Remarriage of KIP

Anyone who has difficulties with relational problems associated with divorce and remarriage can benefit from Free Consultation on Divorce and Remarriage provided by KIP. 

Many people associate consultations on divorce and remarriage with legal consultations or couple counseling. However, Free Consultation on Divorce and Remarriage is not a legal consultation or couple counseling at all. Free Consultation on Divorce and Remarriage guide you to analyze and address underlying psychological issues so that you can achieve happiness even after divorce and remarriage.

You must adequately prepare for divorce and remarriage and start your new life with clear understanding of psychology of yours and your loved ones. For example, the romantic relationship of people who have experience of marriage and who don't are completely different and must be approached accordingly. When you are confused about psychology of people with and without marriage experience in relationships while dating and after remarriage, you may end up being completely lost and develop all kinds of problems. 

Free Consultation on Divorce and Remarriage provided by KIP will help you adequately address your own psychological issues, problems with children and other family members, relational issues outside family, and sexual issues. It analyzes and resolves fundamental issues of human mind and psychology associated with divorce and remarriage and guide you to achieve happiness in a true sense living with your loved ones.

    Apply for Free Consultation on Divorce

Apply for Free Consultation on Remarriage

  Korea Institute of Psycho-education : http://www.uip.ac/   

What is Free Consultation on Divorce and Remarriage?

      Korea Institute of Psycho-education provides free consultations on psychological problems, infidelity, sex issues, child psychology, and teenager psychology. Many of the cases that are referred to KIP are found be related with issues of divorce and remarriage, so we have decided to add free consultations on divorce and remarriage. Many psychological problems related with divorce and remarriage tend to progress into psychological disorders and post traumatic stress more easily than other general psychological problems. 

     Whether you are thinking about divorce or remarriage, or have already got a divorce or remarried, you must certainly want to start a new and happy life. You have chosen or will choose divorce or remarriage for a better life. However, when problems occur after you get a divorce or remarry, you may aggravate your psychological condition and repeat unhappiness since you do not know about the adequate solution. You may end up paying with all your life for not accurately understanding the psychology of divorce and remarriage. 

     Problems that occur after divorce or remarriage greatly affect not only yourself but also other family members including children and people around you. You must analyze and address the underlying structure and the root cause of problems and build 

happiness in a true sense. Free Consultation on Divorce and Remarriage of KIP is designed to guide people who are suffering from psychological and practical problems after divorce and remarriage in the right direction in their life.

Apply for Free Consultation on Divorce

Apply for Free Consultation on Remarriage

  Korea Institute of Psycho-education : http://www.uip.ac/

Free Consultation on Remarriage

 [Free Consultation on Remarriage]

Those who have taken or are taking KIP Psychology Treatment for Type 2 Psychological Disorders are considered to have already begun the process of becoming happy, so they simply need to make inquiries on remarriage through [Self-check & Questions] on the homepage. Free consultation on remarriage is provided for those who have not started the treatment process. 

The free consultation on remarriage provided by KIP is not legal consultation. Those who need legal consultation may have to seek advice from lawyers. KIP provides consultation for anyone who suffers from psychological pain and difficulties due to issues regarding remarriage. We will do our best to guide you to solve practical problems and find the way to achieve happiness in a true sense. Especially, those who have difficulties with relationship with children and other family members may greatly benefit from taking KIP free consultation. 

Please, send us an e-mail providing the following information for free consultation on remarriage. You will receive a written report on the result of consultation in a few days. We will guide you to correctly address the issues regarding remarriage with adequate concepts and strategies based on accurate understanding of human mind and psychology.

                       * Send your e-mail to : uip@uip.ac 

[Application form for free consultation on divorce]

* Title of your e--mail : Application for free consultation on remarriage

                         (Your name or a pseudonym)

1. Personal Information:

   1) Name (Pseudonym) : 

   2) E-mail address: 

   3) Country / Region of Residence:

   4) Gender :

   5) Age of yours and your spouse's :

   6) Period of marriage or living together in the first marriage of yours and      

      your current partner's:

   7) Period of staying alone after divorce of yours and your current partner's

   8) Period of dating with the current partner before remarriage

   9) Period of remarriage or living together :

   10) Number of children/ their age & gender : 

   11) Other experiences of psychological difficulties :

2. Points of inquiry : 

3. Points of request : 

4. Questions : 

[Notes]

1. Please, include facts about you in a simple way. 

2. Include what happened, how things progressed, how things are going now 

    for '2.  Points of inquiry'.

3. Include any requests for '3. Points of request'.

4. Include general questions you may have for '4. Questions'.

* You may be provided with a more detailed report when you provide more detailed facts. 

* Send your e-mail to : uip@uip.ac

[About free consultation on remarriage]

Free consultation on remarriage of KIP guides people who are suffering from psychological pain and difficulties after remarriage to wisely solve practical problems regarding remarriage and achieve happiness. 

Korea Institute of Psycho-education provides free consultation on remarriage based on the Theory of Minind and Xesmind. It analyzes causes of problems before remarriage, during remarriage process, and after remarriage, and provides you with important guidelines for properly addressing the issue of remarriage.

In cases where it applies, psychological problems and psychological disorders are differentiated, and different solutions are suggested for individual cases. It also informs you of treatment and prevention methods of related psychological problems and disorders.

Conventional consultations on remarriage tend to focus mostly on general counseling on dating and marriage, which leads to unhappy life after remarriage with distorted psychology negatively affecting even children. We aim for fundamental mechanism of remarriage being known to as many people as possible and for guiding people in pain and suffering to restore healthy psychology and true happiness instead of getting lost in the midst of misguiding information and knowledge and ruining their life.

[Points to be included in the report of consultation]

- Analysis of fundamental causes of problems regarding remarriage

- Causes of present pain and suffering

- Points to be noted when you attempt to resolve the issue

- Expected results when the issue is not resolved

- Expected results when the issue is resolved

- Directions and methods of resolving the issue

- Directions and methods of achieving happiness

- Answers to other questions regarding psychology of remarriage

[Recipients of free consultation on remarriage]

- People who want to get out of the present difficult situation and become 

   happy

- People who suffer from problems with the current spouse

- People who suffer from problems with children

- People who suffer from difficulties in relationships after remarriage

- People who cannot get into romantic relationships after remarriage

- People who suffer from sex problems after remarriage

- People who feel psychological difficulties without specific reasons after 

   remarriage

- People who experience insomnia or psychogenic illnesses after remarriage

- People who experience psychological disorders (depression, panic disorder, 

   addiction, etc) after remarriage

- People who experience severe psychological disorders (relationship addiction, 

   post traumatic stress, bipolar disorder, hysteria, intermittent explosive 

   disorder) after remarriage

- People who have worries and difficulties after remarriage but cannot find 

   adequate information or advice

Most people think that they will become comfortable and happy after remarriage as they start fresh with their life. They never imagine that their psychological problems keep getting aggravated due to the accumulated psychological wounds and should be manifested after remarriage making their life even more unhappy than before remarriage. 

It is true that you become comfortable and happy temporarily when you remarry and start fresh. However, your accumulated psychological wounds and added wounds during remarriage are manifested sometime after remarriage and make you live an unhappy life. Also, children develop psychological problems after parents' remarriage in most cases adding more burden onto you.

Many people do not sense their deep wounds and don't know what to do when problems occur in their life or with their children. In the mean time, their psychology deteriorates even further making things even more serious. Then, you may look for solutions and seek for advice through diverse channels. They are all right and may be helpful in some situations but again, your psychological conditions keep getting aggravated in the process. 

Conventional wisdom around the world tends to focus more on practical solutions than on psychological problems of remarriage and does not provide restoration methods of healthy psychology regarding remarriage and prevention methods against further psychological problems. Regardless of individual circumstances, you must restore healthy psychology to be able to live happily after remarriage.

Free consultation on remarriage of KIP provides you with accurate understanding of the mechanism of psychology in remarriage so that you can find the right path for happiness regardless of your marriage status. When you have a strong will power and make continuous efforts for your happiness, you will be able to achieve happiness in a true sense even if you feel that you are at the lowest point in your life at present. 

You will receive the result report provided by KIP regarding your situation and guidelines for future actions. You will find that the result report of KIP is more accurate and systematic than any other one even though it is free of charge. You will learn why you had to go through such a difficult time without being able to see the whole picture. You will find that you can become happy again by restoring healthy psychology and taking adequate actions. 

Thank you. 

[Korea Institute of Psycho-education & Japan Institute of Psycho-education]

Address (Korea) : 3rd Floor, Posta-Bldg, 14-13, Teheran-ro, 78-Gil, Kangnam-Ku, Seoul, 06194, South Korea

Tel. 070-8822-6004 (Seoul Office), E-mail. kip@kip.ac

Korea Institute of Psycho-education : http://www.kip.ac/ 

Address (Japan) : Room 403, 3-14-2, Ueno, Taiko-Ku, Tokyo-To, 110-0005, Japan

Tel. 03-4590-6152(Tokyo Office), E-mail. jip@jip.ac

Japan Institute of Psycho-education : http://www.jip.ac/ 

Address (USA) : 2954 West 8th St. Suite 101, Los Angeles, CA 90005, USA

Tel. (213) 291-46099 (Los Angeles Office) , E-mail. uip@uip.ac

Korea Institute of Psycho-education : http://www.uip.ac/ 

Free Consultation on Divorce

 [Free Consultation on Divorce]

Those who have taken or are taking KIP Psychology Treatment for Type 2 Psychological Disorders are considered to have already begun the process of becoming happy, so they simply need to make inquiries on divorce through [Self-check & Questions] on the homepage. Free consultation on divorce is provided for those who have not started the treatment process. 

The free consultation on divorce provided by KIP is not legal consultation. Those who need legal consultation may have to seek advice from lawyers. KIP provides consultation for anyone who suffers from psychological pain and difficulties due to issues regarding divorce. They include people who want to get a divorce, are in the process of divorcing, and have already got divorced. We will do our best to guide you to solve practical problems and find the way to achieve happiness in a true sense. Especially, those who have difficulties with relationship with children and other family members may greatly benefit from taking KIP free consultation. 

Please, send us an e-mail providing the following information for free consultation on divorce. You will receive a written report on the result of consultation in a few days. We will guide you to correctly address the issues regarding divorce with adequate concepts and strategies based on accurate understanding of human mind and psychology.  

                          * Send your e-mail to : uip@uip.ac

[Application form for free consultation on divorce]

* Title of your e--mail : Application for free consultation on divorce                                               (Your name or a pseudonym)

1. Personal Information:

   1) Name (Pseudonym) : 

   2) E-mail address: 

   3) Country / Area of Residence:

   4) Gender :

   5) Age of yours and your spouse's :

   6) Period of marriage or living together :

   7) Number of children/ their age & gender : 

   8) Reasons for (thinking about) divorce : 

   9) Other experiences of psychological difficulties :

2. Points of inquiry : 

3. Points of request : 

4. Questions : 

[Notes]

1. Please, include facts about you in a simple way. 

2. Include what happened, how things progressed, how things are going now for '2. Points of inquiry'.

3. Include any requests for '3. Points of request'.

4. Include general questions you may have for '4. Questions'.

* You may be provided with a more detailed report when you provide more detailed facts. 

                     * Send your e-mail to : uip@uip.ac

[About free consultation on divorce]

Free consultation on divorce of KIP guides people who are suffering from psychological pain and difficulties before, during, and after divorce to wisely solve practical problems regarding divorce and achieve happiness. 

Korea Institute of Psycho-education provides free consultation on divorce based on the Theory of Minind and Xesmind. It analyzes causes of problems during marriage, during divorce process, and after divorce, and provides you with important guidelines for properly addressing the issue of divorce.

 In cases where it applies, psychological problems and psychological disorders are differentiated, and different solutions are suggested for individual cases. It also informs you of treatment and prevention methods of related psychological problems and disorders.  

Conventional consultations on divorce tend to focus mostly on legal issues, which leads to unhappy life after divorce with distorted psychology negatively affecting even children. We aim for fundamental mechanism of divorce being known to as many people as possible and for guiding people in pain and suffering to restore healthy psychology and true happiness instead of getting lost in the midst of misguiding information and knowledge and ruining their life.  

[Points to be included in the report of consultation]

- Analysis of fundamental causes of divorce

- Causes of present pain and suffering

- Points to be noted when you attempt to resolve the issue

- Expected results when the issue is not resolved

- Expected results when the issue is resolved

- Directions and methods of resolving the issue

- Answers to questions you have provided 

[Recipients of free consultation on divorce]

- People who have decided to get a divorce in order to get out of the present situation

- People who suffer in the process of getting a divorce

- People who suffer from repeated divorce and remarriage

- People who suffer from problems of children after divorce

- People who suffer from difficulties in relationships after divorce

- People who cannot get into romantic relationships after dovirce

- People who suffer from sex problems after divorce

- People who feel psychological difficulties without specific reasons after divorce

- People who experience insomnia or psychogenic illnesses

- People who experience psychological disorders (depression, panic disorder,         addiction, etc)

- People who experience severe psychological disorders (relationship addiction,       post traumatic stress, bipolar disorder, hysteria, intermittent explosive                disorder)

- People who have worries and difficulties after divorce but cannot find adequate information or advice

Most people think that they will become comfortable and happy after divorce since they can get away from problems of marriage. They proceed with the divorce process or seek legal advice on divorce but hardly imagine that they will get severely wounded in the process damaging their psychology and cannot but live an unhappy life after divorce. 

It is true that you become comfortable when you get out of all the problems of marriage. Divorce blocks you from sensing the deep wounds from marriage and the process of divorce, but this numbness does not last long. Usually, psychological wounds get aggravated even after divorce and you end up experiencing serious problems in life or living an unhappy life. Also, children develop psychological problems in most cases adding more burden onto you.  

Many people do not sense their deep wounds and don't know what to do when problems occur in their life or with their children. In the mean time, their psychology deteriorates even further making things even more serious. Then, you may look for solutions and seek for advice through diverse channels. They are all right and may be helpful in some situations but again, your psychological conditions keep getting aggravated in the process.  

Conventional wisdom around the world tends to focus more on practical solutions than on psychological problems of divorce and does not provide restoration methods of healthy psychology regarding divorce and prevention methods against further psychological problems. Regardless of individual circumstances, you must restore healthy psychology to be able to live happily before, during, and after divorce.

Free consultation on divorce of KIP provides you with accurate understanding of the mechanism of psychology in marriage and divorce so that you can find the right path for happiness regardless of your marriage status. When you have a strong will power and make continuous efforts for your happiness, you will be able to achieve happiness in a true sense even if you are in the worst moment in your life at present.  

You will receive the result report provided by KIP regarding your situation and guidelines for future actions. You will find that the result report of KIP is more accurate and systematic than any other one even though it is free of charge. You will learn why you had to go through such a difficult time without being able to see the whole picture. You will find that you can become happy again by restoring healthy psychology and taking adequate actions.  

Thank you. 

[Korea Institute of Psycho-education & Japan Institute of Psycho-education]

Address (Korea) : 3rd Floor, Posta-Bldg, 14-13, Teheran-ro, 78-Gil, Kangnam-Ku, Seoul, 06194, South Korea

Tel. 070-8822-6004 (Seoul Office), E-mail. kip@kip.ac

Korea Institute of Psycho-education : http://www.kip.ac/ 

Address (Japan) : Room 403, 3-14-2, Ueno, Taiko-Ku, Tokyo-To, 110-0005, Japan

Tel. 03-4590-6152(Tokyo Office), E-mail. jip@jip.ac

Japan Institute of Psycho-education : http://www.jip.ac/ 

Address (USA) : 2954 West 8th St. Suite 101, Los Angeles, CA 90005, USA

Tel. (213) 291-46099 (Los Angeles Office) , E-mail. uip@uip.ac

Korea Institute of Psycho-education : http://www.uip.ac/