Korea Institute of Psycho-education

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7/24/2023

[SATW] So much information on sex, but not useful at all

Would you be able to make use of information on sex for having sex if you can find good ones? Many people think that they will be able to use information on sex for having sex and become happy and pleased, but people also find that they are not so useful. Then, they begin to look for other information and keep wasting their time.

Sexuality is manifested differently for everyone in real situations. Any information on sex that look good is unlikely to accord with your standards. Thinking that information on sex that may accord with others may also accord with you and even trying it in real situations is just a waste of time.

Even very useful information on sex cannot be applied for one person since having sex involves two people. Information on sex that you think would be useful may not be information that both you and your partner can apply together for happy and pleasurable sex.

Especially, if you try to apply some sexual information for having sex when you don't even know how to have conversations effectively and how to express your thoughts and feelings to the partner, the information becomes useless in real situations. Also, information on sex is useless for solving sexual problems.

If you want to find sexual information that helps in having sex in real situations, you must first analyze all the aspects of your sexual relationship with the partner comprehensively, and find the root cause of problems. No information can be helpful when you do not clearly understand the problem. Focusing on solving problems instead of trying to find the root cause will only lead you to keep suffering from the problem. It will also bring about more and more problems on the way.

You must use your time, effort, expense, and passion to achieve true happiness. Please, keep in mind that most information on sex that is readily available around you is useless. Also, information on sex that you accidentally find and looks good and useful is unlikely to be applicable in real situations.

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7/10/2023

[SATW] Do you feel uncomfortable about fantasizing on having sex?

Many people fantasize during having sex. Men usually imagine about having free sex with different women, and women usually fantasize about trying new things with their regular partners or having secretive or passive sex. Fantasizing about having sex can make sexual actions more satisfying and induce more intense orgasm. That is why fantasizing is recommended or encouraged in some sex therapies.

It is not impossible for a couple to realize their sexual fantasy in real situations. It may be hard to put sexual fantasy into practice at first. The couple may discuss issues regarding sexual actions and preferences and freely imagine about what they want, but it must be quite awkward to make the ideas into action.

Couples who want to try and succeed in realizing their sexual fantasies must have conversations each other, and share their ideas and feelings for months or even years to achieve sexual happiness together.

Realizing sexual fantasy in having sex in real situations requires not only changing social and cultural prejudice, but also individuals' ideas on having sex. Changing one's ideas that have been held for the whole lifetime is not an easy task.

Couples must be careful to apply sexual fantasies in real situations since everyone's ideas and preferences on having sex are quite different depending on the person's social and individual circumstances, and both men and women are quite sensitive about expressing sexuality.

Even when the couple do not put sexual fantasies into action, having sexual fantasies can be a crucial element for pleasurable sex. Sexual fantasies are about diverse actions they have not tried in real situations, so having sexual fantasies itself can be an opportunity to explore diversity in having sex.

When the couple can talk to each other about their sexual fantasies freely and comfortably, they can enjoy pleasure and satisfaction mentally as well as physically. One thing to be noted is that you must not comply with the partner's standards which do not accord with your own standards. Dependency necessarily leads to distorted sexuality and harms the body and the mind. Please, keep in mind that enjoying sex without your own standards and ideas will cause damage and wounds in your body and mind.

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7/05/2023

[Mother Therapy] Are you frustrated that your child never listens to you?

Are you frustrated that your child never listens to you? Are you trying hard to change your child's thoughts and behaviors? Do you sometimes feel that you are so tired of parenting and you want to stop parenting? In this case, you need to change your own thoughts and behaviors instead of changing your child.

You must accurately understand what healthy parenting is and adopt the right parenting strategies in daily interactions with your child to change the situation. Nothing changes when you just worry and complain about difficulties in parenting. It only aggravates your relationship with your child. You can maintain a good parent-child relationship and still achieve what you want in parenting for the happiness of yourself and your child. You must remember that you cannot change your child but you can change your perspective and your coping strategies with accurate understanding of the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology.

As you repeat adopting the right parenting strategies in daily life, you will realize that your child gradually and naturally listens to you and think and behave with healthy standards. You will also become to pay attention to your child in healthy ways. You will be able to deal with problems that occur in your child's life based on accurate understanding and stable psychology. You will have composure in every situation and protect yourself and your child in a safe environment.

Mother Therapy will guide you through the whole process. It will guide you to build firm and right standards and apply them in every unexpected situation in daily life. It will help you and your child build and maintain healthy psychology. You will know what to do to help your child grow in healthy ways physically and psychologically applying the right parenting strategies in unique ways to suit your and your child's life situations and personalities.

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[Sex & Xes] Men's desire for having sex

Most men response negatively when they are told that they must not have the desire to have sex since they think that the desire to have sex leads to sexual pleasure. They believe that they cannot function sexually without the desire to have sex and they will not be able to have any pleasure in their whole life. It is the same as to think that they will not be able to enjoy the taste of food unless they have a strong appetite. That is, men usually think that they can have the pleasure of sex because they have the desire to have sex.

However, men can actually enjoy the pleasure of sex when they don't have the desire to have sex. Also, they have better sexual functions when they don't have the desire to have sex. Men are considered to have true sex ability when they can comply with women in every aspect, but they limit their sex ability by having their own desire to have sex.

Men centered sex is quite simple and limiting because it only involves sensations in sexual organs and ejaculation. However, women centered sex can amplify and continue physical sensations all over the body and the pleasurable sensations can continue even after men's ejaculation and women's orgasm. When men discard their own desire to have sex and comply with women in every aspect regarding sexuality, both men and women can enjoy limitless pleasure of sex. Men's most powerful sex ability is the ability to establish the environment where women can freely activate sexuality and to comply with women in every aspect.

It is not difficult to find women who can activate sexuality in the right way. Men can simply have their women take Sex Ability Training for Women provided by Korea Institute of Psycho-education. However, it is difficult for women who have sex ability to activate sexuality in their full capacity if their men are not able to establish the right environment and not be able to comply with women in every aspect. That is, both men and women need true sex ability to be able to achieve sexual happiness.

You may think that it is easy to comply with women regarding sexuality, but it is the highest level of sex ability that can be achieved only when men don't have the desire to have sex. Men are designed to adopt focused immersion in having sex, so they lose all the pleasure the moment even a tiny part doesn't match their standards of sexual pleasure. They may experience the decrease of pleasant sensation, the loss of erection, or the loss of the desire in such situations.

Surprisingly enough, when men's desire to have sex disappears, their standards of sexual pleasure also disappear. Then, the limit that used to define and restrict men's sexuality disappears. Men's xesmind is designed to have the function of protecting women and complying with women instead of generating men's own happiness and sexual happiness. Men's xesmind can activate its intended function when the standards of sexuality that are recognized in the conscious disappear. Men's and women's sex ability affect each other in activating sexuality.

Sexuality belongs to women instead of men for generating happiness and sexual happiness in both men and women. Women are supposed to generate sexual pleasure and sexual happiness for both parties. Men must protect and comply with women so that women can generate sexual happiness. Men's effort to generate sexual pleasure is manifested as the momentary physical sensation of ejaculation at best.

When men comply with women in every aspect for activating sexuality without having the desire to have sex, men can generate love and passion toward the partner, which amplify the positive sensations in the sensory organs, and feel happiness and sexual happiness of the same level their women recognize. Then, they can live in sexual utopia that allows unlimited sexual pleasure.

There is a saying, 'You will die if you try to live, but you will live if you try to die'. This saying properly explains the mechanism of men's sexuality. You will be able to achieve the most powerful sex ability when you discard all the desire to have sex, which most men consider as the most important thing in their life. On the other hand, you will end up destroying your body, mind, and sexuality if you make efforts to achieve sexual pleasure based on the desire to have sex and not being able to even have sex even when you have the strongest desire to have sex.

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[SATW] Women who pursue sexual attractiveness easily get hurt by men.

Many women try hard to enhance their sexual attractiveness. They wear make-up, go on a diet, or take plastic surgery to look sexually attractive. They try hard to enhance their appearance since they know that men give more attention to sexually attractive women than to other women.

However, women who focus on enhancing their sexual attractiveness tend to connect with men mainly focusing on sexuality. Then, they may develop wounds in mimind win spite of themselves and even develop wound dissociation. Men give them attention considering them as sexual objects and such women's body, mind, and sexuality end up being destroyed. Women who have sexual attractiveness may feel satisfied and happy when they get attention from men, but their wounds keep growing.

On the other hand, women with true charm are not perceived as sexual objects by men. Men generate pure passion toward such women and try to protect their body, mind, and sexuality. Men try to build the relationship of love and happiness with women with true charm and do their best in every aspect of life so that both men and women become happy.

Also, women with true charm have a balanced a appearance and healthy body, mind, and sexuality. The man who is in love with such a woman perceives the woman as the most sexually attractive woman and the couple can live a happy life with sexual happiness as well as with love and passion. This mechanism applies to every couple regardless of age.

Do you want to become sexually attractive women or women with true charm? Women must try to build true and unique charm instead of sexual attractiveness. Sex Ability Training for Women guides women to build true sex ability on their own and become the most charming women. They can build wound treatment ability and happiness ability and enjoy sexual happiness without depending on anyone else.

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[Infidelity Therapy] Guidelines to follow upon discovering spouse infidelity

Spouse infidelity is a major crisis in the marriage relationship. Most people don't know what to do and lose control of themselves upon discovering spouse infidelity. You may be able to deal with spouse infidelity once you understand the true nature of infidelity.

In addition to accurately understanding the true nature of infidelity, you must also abide by the following instructions. Otherwise, you will be swayed by your traumatized- self, and behave irrationally and destructively in spite of yourself based on your post traumatic stress.

1. Do not meet friends or acquaintances if possible. Wounds of post traumatic stress deteriorate as you are affected by human relationships. Not only negative emotions but also positive emotions that are derived by interactions with people will aggravate your psychological condition.

2. Never talk about spouse infidelity to other people. They may make incorrect advice, make improper consolation, or develop selfish purposes in the relationship with you. They don't know the true nature of infidelity, either. You will end up severing the relationship with people who know about spouse infidelity after you restore your condition.

3. Do not upload writings about spouse infidelity on the internet communities. Sharing your story with other people on the internet will lead you to communicate with other people, which in turn leads to developing distorted standards and depending on consolation and empathy aggravating your condition.

4. Neither make any secret investigation on spouse infidelity nor try to understand spouse infidelity from a practical point of view. You spouse has developed relationship addiction, which is a psychological disorder, so normal people cannot understand his or her behaviors. As you make secret investigation on spouse infidelity, you will learn about things that are beyond your imagination and end up breaking up with your spouse feeling helpless.

5. Never blame yourself. Whatever your spouse says to you is an excuse to justify his or her infidelity. The cause of infidelity is relationship addiction, which is a psychological disorder, and it is your spouse not yourself who committed infidelity. There is no reason whatsoever for your blaming yourself for spouse infidelity.

6. Do not look for information on infidelity or counseling or read any related books. Hardly any source provides correct information on infidelity at present. Most sources provide information based on physical and psychological perspectives, which are visible and superficial. The more misunderstanding you develop on infidelity, the more your condition of post traumatic stress will deteriorate.

7. Please, gather your will power for restoring individual happiness and happy marriage relationship. Of course, you can get a divorce after you treat post traumatic stress if you still want to, but for now, you need to think that you will restore happiness and marriage to be able to keep your will power for treatment. When you decide to get a divorce before you restore healthy psychology, you will not feel the need to treat your condition and seek only pleasure aggravating post traumatic stress.

8. Remember that outward expressions of rage and pain will only aggravate post traumatic stress, which will aggravate your spouse's relationship addiction and negatively affect your children's psychology.

9. Never use any violent language or any violent behavior. Violent language and behaviors can never be justified under any circumstance and it will eventually catch up with you.

10. Do not waste your money on meaningless things. Unnecessary spending you are making now come from the psychology of compensation for suffering from post traumatic stress. If you begin to spend money for consolation and compensation, you will have to spend more and more as your condition advances. You will realize that you have wasted what you have worked so hard all your life to achieve to no avail.

The above are the least of ways to minimize aggravating post traumatic stress and minimize practical damages. However, you cannot go on only with ways to minimize aggravating your condition forever. They may be useful to suppress the growth of post traumatic stress, but you still keep suffering from excruciating pain everyday.

You must treat post traumatic stress as soon as possible even if you adopt the above instructions in the mean time. It is hoped that you will overcome the crisis of spouse infidelity wisely and restore the happiness of yourself and your family.

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7/01/2023

[Mother Therapy] Parenting strategies for the happiness of mothers and children

Parenting can be difficult usually for two reasons. One is that parents don't accurately understand the developmental phases of child psychology. It usually causes all different kinds of parent-child conflicts. Another is that parents hardly understand the difference between boys and girls in the operational mechanism of mind and psychology. Mothers must adopt different parenting strategies for boys and girls.

You will find parenting fun and rewarding when you understand the two important points. Mother Therapy guides mothers to accurately understand the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology and adopt right parenting strategies for their children in specific ways.

Every child goes through 4 phases of psychological development, which are quite different from conventional concept of psychological development. The first is the phase of survival, which applies to children up to the age of 5. They can develop healthy psychology as far as their survival is guaranteed in a safe environment. The second is the phase of the adaptation to relationships, which applies to children from the age of 5 to 12. They learn how to form and maintain relationships with people and form habits of relationships and habits of emotions. The third is the phase of the formation of self-identity, which applies to teenagers from the age of 13 to 19. they form unique self-identity and habits of thoughts based on their habits of survival, relationships, and emotions. Finally, they enter the phase of self-actualization as adults from the age of 20 and on.

Parents, especially mothers, must accurately understand the developmental phases of psychology and adopt the right parenting strategies differently for boys and girls. Then, you will realize that your parenting strategies that you have adopted so far can be quite misleading and even detrimental to your child's healthy development.

Your son is a boy and the mind of a male is operating in him regardless of age. Your daughter is a girl and the mind of a female is operating in her regardless of age. You can adopt the right parenting strategies when you accurately understand the operational mechanism of the mind of males and females.

Of course, you must apply the right parenting strategies in the daily interactions with children. You will be able to develop unique parenting strategies that suit you and your children. Life is full of surprises and unexpected incidents and so is parenting. You cannot look up for information or ask for professional advice for every single incident that happens in your child's life. With Mother Therapy, you can develop the ability to adopt right parenting strategies for each and every daily situation.

Many parents adopt parenting strategies based on their life experiences or conventional knowledge and information. When they have conflicts with children, they may think that their children have problems instead of examining their parenting strategies. Then, they may decide to neglect the problem or give up, which may lead to even more serious problems and conflicts.

You should never blame yourself for not adopting the right parenting so far though. All you need to do is to accurately understand the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology and adopt right parenting strategies from today. Then, you will be able to achieve your happiness and also help your children become happy.

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6/28/2023

[SATW] Why do sexy women become popular and famous?

Many popular and famous women who appear on mass media and social media are sexually attractive. People pay attention to their pretty face and sexy body as well as how to become like them through diet, exercise, make-up, and fashion. Women become more famous and popular as they make their sex appeal public more and more.

Men get vicarious satisfaction and develop the desire to meet them when they see such sexy women on mass media or social media. Women develop the desire to become like sexy women they see on the media. Women who appeal sexually reinforce their sex appeal and make efforts to provide more sexual attractiveness to the public.

For example, when a woman who appeals sexually and who is popular and famous uploads a picture of herself on the social media, many people respond with great interest. On the other hand, when an ordinary woman who doesn't appeal sexually uploads an ordinary picture of herself, no one respond or show interest. Sadly enough, many women try to publicize their sexual attractiveness through the media.

What would happen to the body and the mind of women who try to appeal sexually? Of course, the public are not interested in women's body and mind. Men consider them only as objects of pleasure and women consider them only as objects of vicarious satisfaction. The body and the mind of women who are sexually attractive and publicize their sex appeal in the media are necessarily destroyed. Their distorted activation of sexuality causes problems in their body and mind. They accumulate wounds in mimind and end up living a life of unhappiness and destruction. The more popular and famous they become through publicizing their sex appeal, the more their body and mind deteriorate.

Women who try to be sexually attractive are destroying their body and mind in order to induce response and attention from other people. Women's sex appeal leads to a live of unhappiness and destruction by inducing severe wounds in mind. Women need to develop true sex ability for themselves, which leads them to have powerful sex ability and the best charm. They don't have to try to become popular and famous through sex appeal and still they look charming and attractive to everyone. They can live a happy life with healthy body and mind under any circumstance. Sex Ability Training for Women will guide women to do without activating distorted activation of sexuality and build true sex ability on their own.

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[Infidelity Therapy] Things the spouse in infidelity must know.

There are things people when have committed infidelity should know. If you had committed infidelity, you have already destroyed your marriage relationship and you will definitely have to pay for the destruction of marriage relationship in the future. If you don't pay for the destruction of marriage relationship, your spouse and family will have to pay for it.

Your infidelity may have given you pleasure that comes from your partner's attention or response, but it is the cause of excruciating pain for your spouse and children. you may be destroying your life and your family even at this moment or you have already destroyed them. Even infidelity that happened a long time ago has been continuously destroying them until today. That is, the cessation of infidelity does not normalize the condition of yourself and your family.

You may think that your infidelity 10 years ago is just a past thing and it is no big deal. However, your spouse and children may be still living in the crisis you have created 10 years ago and their psychology may have been deteriorating all those years. You may not have committed infidelity again for the last 10 years have devoted your life to your family, but psychological condition of every family member is deteriorating.

Your spouse and children are paying for your wrong doing by developing psychological problems even today. They cannot recover even when your own life is completely destroyed. It is crucial for the spouse in infidelity to accurately understand the adverse impact of their behaviors. If you had stooped committing infidelity and were determined never to commit infidelity again in your life, you can live as you have decided. You may be able to endure although relationship addiction is a condition that can be hardly controlled by the conscious will. Regardless of your life and your condition, you must restore normal psychology of your spouse and children.

When your spouse treats his or her condition of post traumatic stress, your children can also recover. The least thing you can do is to guide your spouse in pain to treat his or her condition and restore happiness ability. It is your responsibility as a person who pushed them into the quagmire of endless pain and suffering. They may end up being taken advantage of by people with selfish purposes and eventually become destructors. You must put priority on treating your spouse's condition even if you don't treat yourself.

It is your own choice to destroy your own life, but you don't have the right to have your spouse and children pay for your psychological disorder.

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6/25/2023

[Sex & Xes] Does he love me, or just want to have sex with me?

Hi, guys. I am Kyungmi Kim at Korea Institute of Psycho-education. Women may not be able to discern easily whether men's sweet expressions come from the desire to have sex or from love. Women usually consider both of them as men's attention given to women anyway. Men themselves cannot discern whether they feel love or just have the desire to have sex with women. People just assume that love leads to the desire to have sex and the desire to have sex can lead to love sometimes.

However, men's love is completely different from the desire to have sex and they must be clearly differentiated. When men love women, they try to protect women in every aspect including women's body, mind, and sexuality. Thus, when men love women, they lose the desire to have sex with their women, and they never express the desire to have sex with women they love even if they have it because their first priority is to protect their women.

The purpose of having the desire to have sex is to have their own sexual pleasure, and it is not related with the concept of protecting their partner at all. Therefore, men do not consider their women as sexual objects. Of course, men can have sexual desire in a general sense. Sexual desire in a general sense is related with the pure and pleasant sensation the body recognizes regarding sexuality without the desire to have sex.

When a man becomes to love a woman after he starts the relationship out of the desire to have sex, he loses the desire to have sex with the woman. He may seem to have lost interest in the woman. Men's losing the desire to have sex doesn't always guarantee that he loves the woman, though. He may have lost the desire to have sex because he truly loves the woman, or he may be expressing his desire to have sex to another woman.

Men do their best to protect their women's body, mind, and sexuality, so they may do their best to make their women happy without activating their desire to have sex. Men vaguely understand that their desire to have sex destroys their women. When a man loves a woman, he naturally loses the desire to have sex with his woman, but not having the desire to have sex with her doesn't guarantee that he loves the woman.

Men's desire to have sex activates negative xes energy in xesmind without exception, and damages men's body and mind. However, the actual operation of xesmind is not recognized and the result of the operation of xesmind is recognized only as pleasure in mimind, which makes men consider the desire to have sex and sexual pleasure as something positive.

As negative xes energy is continuously activated, men may develop psychological problems and psychological disorders as well as sexual dysfunctions. In other words, they lose true sex ability they are born with. Men do not understand this mechanism, so they try to complement their sexual dysfunctions and reinforce the desire to have sex and sexual pleasure by having different sex partners, learning sex techniques, or even taking surgeries. It must be clearly understood that these men have neither sex ability nor the ability to love. Luckily enough though, these men can build the most powerful sex ability by taking Sex Therapy for Men at Korea Institute of Psycho-education, can build the ability to protect women they love, and live in sexual utopia without the desire to have sex for the rest of their life.

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6/21/2023

[SATW] Womdn's sexuality operates in extremity.

Women's xesmind operates for treatment and happiness in mimind but distorted sexuality operates for wounds and unhappiness in relationships. Having sex for your own body and mind operates for treatment and happiness but having sex for love and pleasure with the partner operates for wounds and unhappiness.

Most knowledge and information on sexuality available for women focus on love and pleasure with the partner. It leads women to operate their sexuality to achieve love and pleasure in the relationship with the partner.

Many women try to have sexually appealing appearance through diet, exercise, make-up, and fashion. They also try to have the ability to be loved by the partner, learn sex techniques, and how to enhance sexual pleasure. Most conventional sex therapies guide women to destroy their body and mind on their own by pursuing sexual pleasure.

All these efforts induce wounds and unhappiness in women since they serve the purpose of love and pleasure with the partner. Making efforts to achieve sexual pleasure equates to making efforts to destroy their own body and mind. Such women end up living a life of unhappiness and destruction, pursuing love and pleasure with their partner and inducing wounds in mimind.

On the other hand, having sex for women's own body and mind does not take consideration of love, pleasure, or the partner. It only aims for achieving their own physical health and happiness in mimind. This method and the Theory of Xesmind have not been known to many people so far.

Sex Ability Training for Women guides women to build a powerful sex ability, wound treatment ability, and the best unique charm on their own. Women can learn how to live happily with healthy body and mind. Adopting true sex ability does not involve a partner or having sex with the partner in relationships. Women don't have to become dependent on anyone and they can build true sex ability all by themselves.

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[Infidelity Therapy] The true nature of post traumatic stress

Post traumatic stress can develop when victimized spouses are convinced or suspicious of spouse infidelity causing excruciating psychological pain. The pain of post traumatic stress can be likened to the pain of death, and no one could even imagine the level of pain unless they experience it directly. Untreated post traumatic stress can destroy their life by transforming all their life memories into psychological wounds. They may begin to feel comfortable when they have destroyed all aspects of their life, and then, they may take pleasure in destroying other people's lives including their own children's lives.

When they have destroyed their life this way, they may blame their spouse in infidelity or themselves. They may also develop dependency or obsession. The fundamental cause of the destruction of their life is the development and aggravation of post traumatic stress, but most people justify their behaviors by blaming the spouse in fidelity for everything.

They may also develop the conviction that their destructive behaviors will make others happy instead of damaging them. They must start taking the treatment while they are still recognizing the pain of post traumatic stress and before they begin to feel comfortable and take pleasure in destroying many people's lives so that they can restore healthy psychology and happiness.

Feeling comfortable and confident after suffering from pain for some time indicates that their condition has advanced and deteriorated and they have lost the chance to start the treatment. It is because they think that they have no reason to treat themselves since they feel fine in the conscious. Then, they automatically enter the path of destruction in life.

You must treat post traumatic stress by all means. Post traumatic stress distorts your habits of psychological operations, and it can be treated by making efforts based on the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology. KIP Treatment Program guides you to proceed with the self-treatment method.

Then, how exactly does post traumatic stress lead you to destroy your mind? One way is taking practical measures such as collecting evidence, taking counseling and coaching, filing lawsuits, getting a divorce, or committing revenge affair. The other way is developing dependency and obsession on people and activities such as children, friends, work and business, religion and study, hobbies and exercises, shopping and traveling, or diet and sex. It is strongly recommended that you take up activities only after you treat your condition first. Once you destroy your own mind, you may begin to damage other people. One easy way is to encourage or advise them to destroy their lives as you have destroyed yours and ask them to join you for pursuing pleasure of different kinds including sexual pleasure.

When you are suffering from the pain of post traumatic stress, it is also important not to be deceived by people who advise you and guide you in the wrong direction by encouraging you to take practical measures and fall for dependency and obsession. When you aggravate your condition without realizing it, you will end up having to endure the consequences of destroying not only your life but also lives of your loved ones. You must first treat your condition and restore your happiness and protect your family and children. After that, you may decide to give your spouse in infidelity to treat his or her relationship addiction.

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[Mother Therapy] Parents who make children keep a distance from them.

Would you like to stay close to people who always talk about how hard their life is, who is self-contained, and who always grumble and complain? You may listen to them and encourage them a few times at first, but then you are likely to try to keep a distance from such people. You may decide to stay close to them when you have some important business with them, but it may be still very difficult for you. The same applies to the parent-child relationship.

When parents always get irritated, only talk about their difficulties, and even speak ill of their spouse, children will not want to stay close to such parents. They may feel uncomfortable and discontented when such incidents go on and on and never stop. They will try to stand their parents when they have some specific and practical purposes of staying close to such parents, but such a relationship cannot be a happy and healthy one between parents and children.

No parent would consciously want to have such an awkward and distorted relationship with children. All parents want to share happiness and laugh together with children staying close to each other.

Especially, mothers may easily express their negative feelings toward children and family unconsciously when they have unstable psychology. They are trying to get attention and stabilize their psychology. It is a natural phenomenon of attempting to treat their psychological wounds according to the operational mechanism of women's mind, but it may cause children to keep a distance from them.

Then, what can mothers do to keep a good relationship with children? When parents just try to be nice to children when they actually feel depressed and frustrated, it may result in other types of adverse effect in parent-child relationship. Parents may be misunderstood by children or they become even more distant from each other.

The most important thing in this situation is for parents to accurately understand the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology including different developmental phases of child psychology and right parenting strategies. Changing parents' attitudes and behaviors at the surface level will not solve any problem.

As parents accurately understand the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology and keep making efforts in the right way, they can develop and stabilize healthy and happy expressions to be seen by everyone. Then, children will naturally feel comfortable and happy around parents and want to stay close to them. Parents don't have to make conscious efforts to keep their children close to them because staying close to each other becomes so natural to all family members.

Parent-child relationship is one of the most important human relationships. All parents are recommended that they first understand the operational mechanism of human mind and psychology and apply it to improve their relationship with children at the fundamental level.

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6/19/2023

[Sex & Xes] Pursuing sexual pleasure vs. having true sex ability

Men who have strong sexual desire and pursue only sexual pleasure at all costs can be compared to people who are addicted to substances. Normal people can generate passion, happiness, and pleasure in normal ways without depending on drugs or other substances. They feel pity on those who are addicted to drugs or substances.

Those who are addicted to drugs may justify their behaviors and they will try to obtain drugs at all costs. They may even think that they are better than others since they can experience the utmost pleasure normal people cannot experience. However, they are actually destroying their own body and mind pursuing pleasure depending on drugs, and they end up living an unfortunate or the worst life.

Men who have the most powerful sex ability naturally have confidence and composure of the winner. They can be compared to monks who have transcended the realm of human sexuality, so they don't have sexual desire and don't pursue sexual pleasure. They can achieve happiness in mind without sexual desire and sexual pleasure.

Men who have strong sexual desire and pursue only sexual pleasure at all costs may value sexual desire and sexual pleasure as something they can be proud of having, but it only indicates that they don't have true sex ability and they are destroying their own life and others' lives. They are like drug addicts who feel pity on monks.

Men who have true sex ability can find the oasis in the desert and enjoy happiness in the utopia. Men who have strong sexual desire and pursue sexual pleasure are following the mirage in the desert until death. Men can and must build the most powerful sex ability through Sex Therapy for Men. Then, they will understand how monks feel about laymen who suffer from all kinds of secular issues.

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6/14/2023

[Mother Therapy] Two important things to know in parenting

Every parent wants to be good at parenting and be on good terms with children. Two most important things for good parenting is to accurately understand the developmental phases of child psychology and to adopt right parenting strategies in daily interactions with children. As you stick to wrong parenting methods due to the ignorance of your child's developmental phases of psychology, both you and your child must suffer from relational conflicts and psychological problems. You may even give up parenting thinking that you cannot deal with the situation.

You may not have heard of the idea that understanding the child's developmental phases of psychology for good parenting and a harmonious relationship with children. Most parents think that adopting whatever parenting strategies they know will help children develop healthy body and mind since they give love to children anyway. However, your own ideas on parenting may or may not be right for your children, which indicates that your parenting based on your ideas may not guarantee your child's healthy psychological growth.

It is likely that you don't accurately understand the developmental phases of child psychology if you feel that you can't communicate and interact with your child as smoothly as before. You may feel distant from your child and think that your child has changed somehow. Then, you and your child may develop relational conflicts and suffer from psychological problems. It is imperative that parents should learn about children's developmental phases of psychology and adopt right parenting strategies.

Children go through 3 developmental phases of psychology until they become adults. They are the phase of survival, the phase of adaptation to relationships, the phase of formation of identity. They enter the phase of self-actualization when they become adults. Children under the age 5 form psychological habits focusing on survival, children from the age of 5 to 12 on adaptation to relationships, and children over the age of 12 on formation of identity. Then, they begin to pursue self-actualization as adults based on habits of relationship, habits of emotions, and habits of thoughts they have formed so far.

When parents don't understand children's developmental phases of psychology and right parenting strategies, they can't understand children's behaviors and their attempt to guide children in the right way is highly likely to backfire, which in turn may cause the parent to develop their own psychological problems.

Parents can build their own unique parenting strategies when they accurately understand the fundamental mechanism of parenting. They can adopt the right parenting strategies that match their life styles and thought standards during daily interactions with children. Then, children and parents can naturally express their thoughts and feelings to each other and understand each other better. Children can grow in healthy ways in a safe environment parents have established. They learn how to control themselves and pursue what they aim for in healthy ways on their own under the protection of parents. It is actually quite easy to adopt right parenting strategies once you understand the two major components of parenting.

Some parents may be attracted to popular parenting strategies or parenting methods of famous people. However, every child and every parent are different and unique. You must develop your own unique parenting strategies for your own child who is also unique and special. Copying others' parenting strategies to raise your child may only cause problems since you can't apply your thought standards.

Both parents and children naturally become happy when parents understand children's developmental phases of psychology and right parenting strategies. Parenting is supposed to make you not feel depressed or frustrated but feel happy. Any parent can learn about the two important points of parenting and make themselves and children happy.

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