Showing posts with label 06. Reviews. Show all posts
Showing posts with label 06. Reviews. Show all posts

10/05/2022

[Review] Change and hope for happiness

 

I have been taking KIP Treatment for 8 months to treat my relationship addiction. I was really unstable and anxious before starting the treatment and I had a serious condition of relationship addiction. I couldn't stop thinking of other people all day everyday. I was extremely lonely most of the time and I felt I was alone even when I was with my family. The most salient change I can feel after 8 months of training is that I don't feel lonely that much any more. ​

I thought that people who looked happy were happy because they had many people around them. I thought that I was lonely because no one took care of me. ​

I feel less and less unstable and less anxious as I proceed with the therapeutic tasks. I still have some degree of instability, loneliness, and depression, but I am surprised that I have changed a lot for the better. I have realized that I can be happy without depending on other people. ​

I am still a little unstable and anxious, but I have hope. I keep my hope seeing my instability and anxiety fading little by little. I can feel that my unconscious is changing little by little. KIP Treatment has taught me how I can be satisfied with my life as it is. 

Thank you. 

https://youtu.be/iu-pG0RgWJs

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9/21/2022

[Review] Well begun is half done.


Before I began KIP Treatment program, I thought I would get better just by listening to Mr. Kim's lectures all day everyday, which I actually did. I ignored his advice that treatment and open lectures are completely different and endured that way for a year. 

My symptoms of post traumatic stress kept deteriorating and they began to destroy my precious children. I was acting like a crazy mother or a monster not seen easily around. 

My parents had to stand my craziness suffering and crying. I was destroying my family such that my child finally developed panic disorder. ​

I suddenly woke up to my child's suicide attempt. I made up my mind to treat myself then. I realized I had destroyed myself and my children. I fought to death against my disease with KIP Treatment and Mother Therapy. 

The treatment process was not easy at all. I knew that the program guided me in the right direction, but the contents were hard to understand and I felt uncomfortable doing therapeutic tasks. I tried to focus on the tasks as much as possible and children began to be stabilized in about 3 months. I was still in pain but I expressed my gratitude to children and tried to smile.

I am into 6 months of treatment now. I feel something inside myself and wonder if this feelings is 'happiness'. I start the morning with a smile. I feel the sunlight and breathe in the fresh air. I could not even imagine this calmness if I were still only watching the videos of KIP. 

I want to thank Mr. Kim for persuading me to treat my condition. I may have a long way to complete cure but I will definitely continue with my efforts for my own feelings of happiness growing little by little everyday. I feel sorry for people who haven't been able to start the treatment yet. I earnestly hope that everyone who suffers from pain will choose to treat their condition. I may become a happiness evangelist. 

https://youtu.be/emq3J1Yi0zs

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9/07/2022

[Review] Working to become a good father and husband

 

     I have relationship addiction. However, I didn't have affairs or have sex with other women. I just used to meet women and had conversations with them casually and comfortably, which is also considered as symptoms of relationship addiction.​

     I have been married for 10 years. My wife had symptoms of depression, lethargy, and delusional jealousy displaying rage and anger for all those years. I began KIP Treatment to restore a happy family. 

     However, the treatment program seemed less systematic than I had expected, and I felt I was not supported enough. Still, I kept working on it since I paid quite a lot of money for the treatment.

     Then, my wife began to recover little by little and I had less conflicts with my wife and children. I began to realize that I had so many bad habits and inappropriate behaviors. Now, I understand why my wife used to say to me that I was so out of touch with the real world. Above all, I became to understand that I was in relationship addiction and my wife was in post traumatic stress. ​

     I still don't understand exactly what relationship addiction is. I just know that I think and behave in distorted ways due to perception disorder and expression disorder. I don't understand exactly what the meaning of life is probably because I am a man, but I know that the meaning of my life is my wife and children. It seems that understanding concepts and being treated are completely different. ​

     I study and do therapeutic tasks everyday but I am slow to change. ​However, I know that I have a psychological disorder and it takes time to restore psychological balance. I can't wait to become a good husband and father after completing the treatment program. 

https://youtu.be/nEBjX_Hg_w0


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8/23/2022

[Review] Peace of mind returned.

 



Before the treatment, my mind was like wild sea.

I was in the hell whatever I did and my life was squeezing my heart.

Daily life would be impossible to continue if anyone lived that way.


Five months into the treatment.

I make sure I do the therapeutic tasks everyday.

My children are happy to be with me and always express their love for me. 

My spouse gave me an opportunity to look back on my whole life, treat all my wounds I have accumulated, and realize that I deserve to be loved and be happy.


I usually listen to the recording for training doing house chores. 

It always sounds new to me and I am learning a lot.


I guess my complexion and attitudes have changed a lot since people treat me differently. I feel that my feelings of happiness and the sense of self-respect are recognized by others. A happy person always seems to carry happy energy around. 


I have realized through Mind Training that everything that happens in our life has two sides, and it is the nature of the universe. 

The longest night signals the beginning of the spring and the darkest moment of the night signals the rise of the sun. 

To know the brightness of the light, the shade of the darkness should be known.

I have learned that the darkness is a necessary part of my life. 

I am grateful to the darkness.


I tend to forget about therapeutic tasks since I feel comfortable a lot these days. 

I will gather up my will not to lose my first intention.

https://youtu.be/SFNY3LboGRo

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8/10/2022

[Review] My resolution

 


Sometimes, I feel that I have come through the deadly tunnel. 

Other times, I feel that I still have a dark long tunnel in front of me.

Looking back, I am proud of myself for coming this much at least.


I don't cry anymore these days.

I used to cry a lot asking, 'Why me?' and feeling sorry for myself.

I feel that it was a long time ago so I can hardly remember.


I tried and tired as if I were clutching at straws. 

Now, I can manage stress and wounds to a certain degree.


I used to waste time taking psychology counseling and fortune telling. 

I am finding myself and my life back taking Mind Training.


I will keep trying until I am completely cured and restore happiness.


https://youtu.be/5GrM4uG9QIk

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7/28/2022

[Review] Deeply moved and overwhelmed for the first time in my life

 

I was diagnosed for being completely cured. I was surprised and began to cry. ​


I started on October 20th in 2019. It took 131 weeks. 

I remember my first visit to the KIP office. I registered and took all the textbooks and publications home being anxious to start the training. 

I did my best to treat myself. ​


Of course, I went through trials and errors. 

I failed and began again several times. 

I was anxious but time went by slowly.

Eventually, time went by and I was cured. ​


My past life passes by fast in my memory. 

I feel moved and overwhelmed and speechless.

I shed tears of gratitude. 

I am happy, proud, and grateful. 

I got myself back. 

I got my feelings back.


I am ready to live happily for myself and for my loved ones. 

I feel confident and healthy again. ​


I would like to thank all the staff, who helped proceed with the program,

and Mr. Beomyoung Kim, who designed the treatment program based on the Theory of Mimind. 


Thank you.

                                    https://youtu.be/m12B4sxIrVE


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7/11/2022

[Review] Gathering up my will and making efforts again.

 

     At first, I felt like I was struck by lightning, and my mind went blank. It felt like I was abandoned by the world or thrown away into hell at one blow. I couldn’t do anything. I desperately wanted to get out of hell, but I didn’t know how. ​

     I despaired having no one to ask for help. I searched for help on the internet, literally shaking all over. I watched videos and writings of KIP and decided to treat myself. I hesitated for some time because the expense was pretty high, but I chose to take the program since my whole life was at stake. I don’t even want to think about what would have happened to me if I had just ignored this program. 

     I felt much better shortly after I began the treatment, so I became conceited thinking treatment was quite easy. I focused on doing therapeutic tasks for the first year, and then spent the next one year neglecting self-check. Another year has passed neglecting even therapeutic tasks, and now I am trying to do my best again for my treatment. I deeply regret about the last one year when I didn’t do much for treatment. 

     It is obvious that I got better but I still have some degree of anger and pain. I used to be a person who cried a lot over small things, but somehow I didn’t cry much after I began the treatment program. I wish I could cry like hell once, just put everything behind, and start all over. I know I have to focus on my treatment instead of crying or anything else. I will keep going to restore my happiness back. 

https://youtu.be/VyTlrm7MlJQ

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6/28/2022

[Review] Swayed, but get back and keep going


I started the KIP Treatment Program a year ago, but I actually have focused on the treatment only for about 3 months. 

I was in the worst condition when I registered for the program, but I just idled away for several months. Then, I realized that I could destroy all my life, and began to really focus on each chapter of Mind Training. 

I diligently repeated therapeutic tasks. Extreme chronic stress began to subside and panicky feelings when I saw women on the street almost disappeared. 

I blocked all the relationships with people, and just focused on my work, home, and treatment for 3 months. 

My body began to recover, everything is better than before, but I still get swayed by unstable emotions. I should keep up with my will and efforts. 

It feels like I am walking on a narrow path full of fog. I have no one to ask for the direction and no foot steps to follow. 

I guess I am the only one who can find the way for myself. I have hope for my life. 

I will keep walking step by step. I finished my task for the day as usual. 

https://youtu.be/iIArRtGOvyU

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6/08/2022

[Review] I see myself changing.


In the past, I worked really hard to bring myself back, 

but I did not have the eyes to see myself and I despaired.

Today, finally, I feel proud of myself.


I am learning how to stand by myself experiencing the whole process of treatment,

which helped me turn back for life at the edge of the cliff. 

The process of treatment made me learn about the meaning of true gratitude. 

I was a religious person in the past, 

and heard many people say that they become happy when they can be grateful. 


However, when I suffered from the pain of death 

and simply wanted to stop the pain by just letting go of everything, 

the word gratitude was just a word I have seen in a dictionary. 


How badly did I want to get out of pain,  

and how shiny was the light that led me to life again, 

the light of wound treatment and psychology treatment.

At last, feelings of gratitude have come to me without myself making any effort. 

Of course, I have also found meanings and values of life again. 

 

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5/24/2022

[Review] Time for getting to know myself


I always blamed my family background and my own inability while I was growing up. 

I suffered from husband infidelity, and my children were neglected due to my unstable and unhealthy psychological condition. My marriage was barely maintained and on the verge of being broken up any moment. 

I began my treatment and learned that my husband became selfish and arrogant and disregarded my ideas and feelings because he had developed a sickness in mind and could not but misjudge everything. I gradually became comfortable learning about the difference between men's mind and women's mind.

The reality kept staying in difficulty, and I sometimes had vindictive mentality in spite of myself. I was dependent on video lectures and blamed myself and others back and forth. Hope was unseen and despair kept me for 2 years. 

Now, I realize how important it is to focus on therapeutic tasks, which I had heard but had not listened. Now, I have transformed my wounds into the void of feelings. I have a comfortable life and make efforts to pursue values of life. 

All humans pursue happiness. Only I myself can make myself happy.  I make efforts to stay at the center of my mind. 

I was once biased to assume and judge my husband based on my false conviction. I was lucky to have a chance to take Mind Training and I am thankful. It guided me to treat wounds, and get up and go in the right direction.

I will keep making efforts to become a happy person. 

https://youtu.be/o1cJF3AHK10

 

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5/18/2022

[Review] Making the right choice

 

It would be a long time or a short time depending on how you think. 

I smile thinking that it was a precious time since I still have many years to live happily. 

I don't exactly remember when they disappeared, but headache, stomach upset, dizziness, binge eating, edema, heart palpitations, menstrual cramps disappeared, and I also gained weight as I restored psychological stability. 

I feel grateful again as I enumerate my past chronic symptoms one by one. 

I guess my thought of starting the treatment should count as the beginning of the treatment, and I was lucky to be given an opportunity to take the treatment program. 

I have experienced the remission of negative feelings with the process of big and small wounds being retrieved and filtered. 

I was sometimes filled with emotions without any reason and sometimes drowned in sadness that squeezed my heart. 

All of them have passed. Suffocating pain is not felt any more. 

I thought the pain would never end but it diminished and eventually ended. 

Pain had many different appearances when it came to me. 

Sometimes, I just wanted to give up everything including the treatment in despair.

However, I gathered up all my strength just to keep going with the therapeutic tasks in the swirl of emotions that suffocated me. 

I did my best to deal with wounds in my mind as I did for my life in the past. 

I can make a real smile at me looking into the mirror with real positive feelings. 

I was so thankful to be diagnosed as complete cure. 

I will keep making efforts for my happiness and I thank all the staff at KIP. 

Thank you.


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4/27/2022

[Review] Abnormal sexual desire disappears, and daily life changes.

 


The most difficult thing I suffered from before treatment was abnormal sexual desire.

I tried hard to come to myself, but it kept exhausting me surging and flaring.

The first change I experienced after starting the treatment was that abnormal sexual desire disappeared. 

I was happy just for that and I am amazed and thankful for every little change.

I try hard not to lose my first intention and I am making efforts everyday.

I smile thinking of the days when I was doing all the things I was not supposed to do. 

I am fighting hard against post traumatic stress that is taking me as a host. 

When I sometimes feel positive and happy, I praise myself for choosing the path of happiness. 

https://youtu.be/R4rUYfNDUyA


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4/25/2022

[Review] Complete Recovery of Sexual Functions

 

I feel numb upon the diagnosis of complete recovery.

Before treatment, I used to lose my temper easily, and had insomnia and chronic fatigue. 

I was a picky eater and had irritable bowel syndrome. 

I had skin problems,

and always had troubles with people around me. 

I gave my family pain by blaming them for everything. 


I began to change little by little as I took KIP Treatment Program. 

I slept better and ate better. 

My skin looked and felt better. 


These days, I keep smiling even when my wife gets angry at me.

I am composed and my wife looks so adorable to me. 

She is the only one for me. 

I have learned what is precious in life and how I have to live. 


I first started treatment just to improve my sexual functions, which I recovered, of course.

I learned something much bigger. 

If I had continued to live without treating my condition,

I don't even want to think about it. 


Thank you so much. 

I think I can live happily from now on. 


https://youtu.be/VLvErqHyq2w

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4/06/2022

[Consultant's Review] Problems of the pursuit of values of a wife who suffers from husband infidelity

 


I held a 7- hour consultation session for a woman who was suffering from both  husband's infidelity and her own problem in the pursuit of values of life. 

When people suffer from life crisis due to problems of mind such as psychological disorders and post traumatic stress, they are guided to take KIP Treatment rather than Consultation on Life Crisis to treat their condition, stabilize their body and mind, and build wound treatment ability, prevention ability, and happiness ability. Taking only Consultation on Life Crisis when KIP Treatment is required may aggravate the psychological condition.

However, she had not only psychological problems but also serious problems in the pursuit of values of life. She needed Consultation on Life Crisis before taking KIP Treatment to help her find out the root cause of such a crisis and solve the problem on her own. 

The woman's pursuit of values was analyzed regardless of her post traumatic stress in order to find out the root cause. She learned about elements of danger in the pursuit of values and was guided to ways to solve diverse problems related with the pursuit of values. She had falsely assumed that the husband infidelity caused problems in her pursuit of values, but now realized that her financial loss was caused by independent elements of danger from husband infidelity. She could have lost even more financially had she not accurately understood about her life crisis. 
    
She was lucky that she took Consultation on Life Crisis before she loses more. Now, she can take KIP Treatment and restore happiness and also can protect her values of life. She started taking KIP Treatment after taking Consultation on Life Crisis. She said that Consultation on Life Crisis was quite expensive but she could save a lot more by protecting her values of life through taking the consultation. 

Many people suffer from spouse infidelity and consequences of their own infidelity, which is often accompanied by crisis situations with practical matters. They are put in the risk of losing their achievement of the whole lifetime regarding career, business, finance, and reputation. Consultation on Life Crisis may play a crucial role to protect values of life. 

Through this consultation case, I could also see the importance and urgency of Consultation on Life Crisis in such cases. It took several hours to finish the whole session, but it was worth the time and expense since it literally saved her lifetime achievement. 

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[Review] As you consult a doctor for physical pain, consult KIP for psychological pain.

 

Husband infidelity occurred while we were living overseas. It was ironical that my husband showed me videos of KIP and argued his infidelity had nothing to do with love. I refused to watch them since he seemed to use them to justify his behaviors, but eventually, I began to watch them indiscriminately as my pain became simply unbearable. 

I felt a little better after watching the videos, but the pain of death soon overwhelmed me all over since, as indicated, the videos didn't treat my condition. I was really hesitant to take KIP treatment since it was too expensive, but I started the program because I had to do something to save my life. I even flew to participate in seminars at Seoul office for a couple of months. I wanted to become happy again. 

Luckily, I had not been exposed to counseling or had not gone through trials and errors before I took the program. I even want to thank my husband for introducing KIP treatment to me. 

I am a kind of person who is skeptical about counseling, and I am rather a person with strong religious faith. I didn't like to become dependent on other people including experts. This program fit me well because I didn't have to talk about my stories and reveal myself to anyone. I could trust it better since it was a self-treatment program. 

I used to send long e-mails since I had so many questions, but as time passed and I kept doing therapeutic tasks, questions simply didn't occur to me and I could answer the questions for myself when they did. 

It has been 6 months since I started the treatment program. It wasn't as easy as I had thought. There were many moments when I just wanted to give up everything. Those moments were also part of treatment process. I learned how important all the components of the program are for keeping up with willpower and efforts : Mind Training + Therapeutic Tasks + Self-check on Progress + Reference Materials. 

Not only wounds of infidelity but also wounds from all my past negative experiences have re-emerged in my memory and they all begin to be realigned. Now, I know what problems my husband and I had. It was painful to realize and sense everything I had buried inside myself and just pretended to be OK. I feel lucky that I have a chance to restore happiness now. 

I have not achieved a complete cure but I do not regret spending my time and money on KIP treatment.  I couldn't have known about this program unless I had not gone through such rage and pain. I would have tried to live in comfort instead of happiness. 

Lastly, I hope that people who try to overcome the situation relying on religion will not hesitate to take KIP treatment. Regardless of your religion, you can consult KIP for psychological pain as you consult a doctor for physical pain. 

Thank you. 



https://youtu.be/g7ZzB_ov13M

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3/30/2022

[Consultant's Review] Prevention and management of a crisis in the pursuit of values

 

I had a consultation session from 11 in the morning to 2 in the afternoon today for a member of KIP Treatment Program. After the consultation session, the client e-mailed me saying that she has learned core concepts of KIP Treatment Program, and now she could prepare for crisis situations better. 

Most people who take Consultation on Life Crisis are surprised at the contents of it and can shorten the time taken for full recovery and complete cure significantly. They say it is an effective and powerful method. 

The client applied for consultation to shorten the recovery period and examine her status in the pursuit of values. She learned about how to manage a crisis situation in the future and the root cause of life crises. She also learned about the close relationship between KIP Treatment Program and Consultation on Life Crisis. 

There are five major causes of life crises. 

1. Occurrence or possibility of problems in mind (psychological disorder, severe psychological disorder, post traumatic stress)

2. Occurrence or possibility of problems in xesmind (sexual dysfunction, sex   trauma, sex ability)

3. Occurrence or possibility of problems in psychological class (psychology of  leaders, psychology of self-actualization, psychology of survival)

4. Occurrence or possibility of problems in relationships (spouse, children, family, friends, acquaintance)

5. Occurrence or possibility of problems in the pursuit of values (wealth, power, fame, reputation)

Problems of mind and psychology are solved by taking KIP Treatment Program and problems of xesmind and xes psychology are solved by Sex Ability Training for Women. Problems of psychological class, human relationships, the pursuit of values are solved by Consultation on Life Crisis. 

The client started to take KIP Treatment Program to treat post traumatic stress and restore a happy life. Her relationship with children has improved. The consultation took only 3 hours since she was not experiencing crisis regarding psychological class and relational problems. 

She was able to find the root cause of the crisis in the pursuit of values and solve the problem on her own through the consultation. 

She also learned the importance of KIP Treatment Program (treatment of mind and psychology & restoration of happiness) and Sex Ability Training for Women (treatment of xesmind and xes psychology, powerful sex ability and charm). 

It was nice to see her restoring her happiness at a fast pace and building prevention ability against future occurrence of life crises. 

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3/23/2022

[Review] Living as a wife, mother, and woman


I was really happy to be notified for a complete recovery via an e-mail. 

I have been married for 35 years. 

I have learned what it is like to live as a woman, to live as a wife, and to live as a mother by taking KIP Treatment. 

My children could have developed healthier psychology if I had known about it sooner, but I still have a chance and I plan to keep helping them as much as I can. 

Many things have changed in my life. 

First, I have learned about the principles of life, which were always only vague to me, and internalized them in my mind. 

Second, I have realized that I have lived only as a wife and mother for the whole time, but it is living as a woman that should be the basis of being happy. 

Also, I think I have developed the ability to be wise in relationships with other people. 

Last but not the least, I can recognize my psychological condition and my facial expressions, which reflect my mind. I have better complexion and skin condition. 

Now, I clearly understand true intentions of contents provided by KIP, which is to prevent people from aggravating their psychological conditions and inflicting damage upon other people and the society. I can also see solutions suggested in the materials of KIP. 

I want to show my deep gratitude to KIP that has walked with me all along to this day!! 


https://youtu.be/frRDjLPg2VU

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[Sex & Xes] The purpose of having sex

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